I owe a lot to /seddit. You guys told me that to get girls i had to love myself first, take care of myself and stuff. So i spent the few month doing so. I even worked out a little and changed my wardrobe. And i can say it payed, because i've had girls looking for eye contact with me, and i even got a few direct compliments on my look and stuff... And i'm pretty confident in my work and i can talk to strangers. But... I can't really go on from the eye contact/smile to something really concrete like a conversation or a number. I mean usually im pretty confident talking to people/girls when i'm not hitting on them, but when it gets to the game, i tend to have some kinda freeze as soon as i enter this paradigm. And i dont really dont know why....