I'm going to be taking a woman I knew back in high school out for dinner next week. I know there is a high possibility that things will escalate to sex given that she said she feels "crazy sexual tension" between us, but I don't really have a place to take her back to for sex given her location (she lives about an hour away, can't go back to her spot, I won't fuck in the car, and I can't take her back to where I live at for the night).

I was thinking of getting a hotel room near where we are going to be meeting up at, but for some reason that feels weird. To keep the mystery/suspense I'm keeping my plans for our outing a secret.

Is going out for dinner and then saying we are going to a hotel weird? I feel like it would just come off as needy and the premeditation of a hotel room may not sit right with her.

Appreciate any input.