There's this girl I like at work. At first we barely knew each other but we've been becoming closer over the last few months. We've hung out alone three times and in a group one time outside of work. When we're alone she has asked me questions like "do you have a girlfriend?" "why not?" "Are you talking to somebody?" "why did you break up with your last girlfriend?" She's probably asked me questions like this on three or four separate occasions. I take it as a good sign, but I don't know how to reciprocate my feelings without coming on too strong. I don't want to scare her away.

She "suggested" that we hang out for two of the times and I took her up on her offer. For the last date she basically asked me out and treated me because I did her a favor. She also came to my house and picked me up. I haven't paid for her yet, but I told her I will next time. I feel like she's mostly initiated everything so far and I need to take the reigns.

In the beginning we only had each other on Instagram, and she messaged me first. I would occasionally message her once or twice a week, then I got her Snapchat. Again I would occasionally Snap her funny/stupid stuff and we would talk once or twice a week. Then, when she asked me out and I didn't reply fast enough I told her she should have messaged me until I replied. She said "it's just Snapchat" so I took that as ask me for my number. I ended up giving her my number and she texted me the next week.

I think the signs are pretty clear that she's interested, but I'm just terrified to make a move for some reason.