I'm quite new to social dynamics and game. being 22 and still in university i mainly started because i noticed i kept messing up interactions with girls, and then one day missed a huge opportunity with a girl i really liked.

started with the mystery method, followed by rsd and a lot of Todd v as his text game is great as well as a lot of his day game which is mainly where i partake, not a big club guy, in my opinion lots of people go to clubs to have fun and also get laid so there's no challenge involved sometimes and its just not fun for me.

so I've been studying for around 3-5 months, i'm already am quite confident and don't have a problem approaching women, but to begin i started with my friends. seeing how they responded to things and having fun with it, and i was surprised at how well i could enter a group of which i would just be in the background of before and within minutes be the life of the party.

anyway, so the other day at a local bar, my flatmate and i meet some girls, start conversing and generally having fun and of course i'm exerting game, however, just with the intention of enjoying the evening, no escalation or heavy flirtation and nothing exerting a sexual frame. yet the target so to speak of the two goes straight for the gold, calling me cute, fit, "too big for that shirt" . the evening passes and i add these girls on social media as i know ill bump into them at university and i'm always friendly. The next day i go to a party and the "target" girl is also there, and again throughout the night she very heavily and sexually flirted with me, commenting on my ass, again calling me cute, trying to dance with me etc. at which point i decided to revel in the awkwardness of the moment which I've found is another great thing about social dynamics. when you know why and how people will respond to statements its always fun to see how far you can go and make things awkward for them.

so i straight up say "you know this is the 5th time I've caught you flirting with me tonight" (more like the 10th - 12th) and she responds, "WHAT noooo...." i pause and stare her straight in the eyes for a few seconds... she states "unless...you...??" and gives me a look followed by some suggestive body language at which point i get distracted by a friend and go dance. so later in the evening just after the party she messages me and asks my opinion of her after her "drunken foolishness" and whether id like to join her another night where she can be less drunk and more chill. which to be honest, still want to be friends with this girl, and my opinion hasn't changed, she's fun, attractive and wild. however, killed the vibe for me because there's no real challenge.

to me its like being handed a trophy for partaking rather than winning and its just not fun, does anyone else get this, or am i just a odd case ?