One of the most painful things that beginners battle is the "I don't know what to talk about" phase.

Often times beginners will get past the initial stages of "saying hi" and move on to the conversational stages. This is a very important stage as it sets up everything from building comfort to actual seduction. So many beginners get stuck, or often intimidated in tackling this issue. For beginners it is not as simple to just "plow"

This is where routines can come in handy. They help bridge the gap for beginners to hone their conversational skills. They teach many things:

  1. How women can react differently to the same saying
  2. Once accustomed to the typical reactions, one can then get accustomed to dealing with the different responses
  3. How to gauge the women's interest level depending on her reaction

The art of the conversation is very much a read and react skill. Using a routine you can worry less about the words you must say, but instead focus on reading the reactions or "buying temperature."

This skill needs to be practiced, without some guidance in how to practice this skill it might be hard to actually get to practicing it.

Good luck gentlemen.