Hey Seddit,

My name is John Deus, I am author and founder of mysupremacy.com

Decided to participate more in the seddit community since it would allow me reach and help more people as well as get more in touch with kickass people.

You guys are doing an amazing job here.

I have a dedicated email to help people, along with various social networks where I get in touch with guys and try my best to help them.

And now, I am here.

And I can say, the pattern of the problems most guys are facing still the same.

And the general bulk of it can be summarized in this.

Why So Serious?

Really, that is quite much most of our problems, we get way too serious.

If something is not a direct threat to your life, it is not serious.

And girls out of everything in life should be treated with way less seriousness than anything else.

You do not have to have a girlfriend or a fuck body or whatever. You are perfectly fine and complete just the way you are. You can get all your needs without girl in your life. You can masturbate and orgasm in ways that even a pornstar cant compete.

But you will probably disagree with me. Thinking that you do need sex and you do need a girl and so on.

no, that is false.

Your ego does. My ego surely does. I have slept with 90% of the girls I have been with not out of horniness but out of stroking my ego.

And to some extent that is fine, IF YOU UNDERSTOOD THAT IT IS JUST AN EGO TRIP AND NOTHING ELSE.

EGO is what is making you so serious. So boring. And causing you to fuck up.

You should have a complete 'don't give a fuck' mentality to get out of most of the issues you are having.

And the IDGF mentality is insanely misunderstood by people.

The beneficial way to come by this mentality is not: I do not give a fuck who they are or what they think of me.

But rather: I do not give a fuck 'who I am'.... I am not trying to preserve any image of me, of myself. I am selfless.

Very fucking nihilist and very fucking powerful.

I am not saying be a monk living in cave staring at a wall. But rather treat life like you treat a game.

Imagine life just like GTA for example. Where everyone is just characters and you yourself are just another character.

You wont feel depressed over what happens to your character in a game, you might be pissed off over it for a minute and then it pass.

but STILL YOU WILL PLAY WITH SERIOUSNESS AND STILL TRY TO WIN THE GAME.

That is the combination that is a complete killer to have.

To put matter in even more real life perspective.

I am successful in every aspect in my life.

I am not trying to boast and show off. well, a part of me will always love this... but generally, john deus is an online persona that will be shortly lived. It will disappear somewhere in the next couple of months. So, I cant really try to stroke my ego, since the complementce will be to an non existing character.

I want to share my own self as an example, because I believe that if you follow the teaching of a teacher, the best you can get is somewhere like that teacher, so I just want to show anyone wanting to get help that I am living what I am preaching.

Anyway, In my daily life I look like something ranging from A fairly Professional look, since my career involves Banking and I am A CEO of my own company. to me just being childish and wearing weird pajamas and so on.

But in my mind, I am always, always... like this

I know how to play their game, I know how to win it. But it wont consume me. I understand my selflessness and thus never take myself too seriously.

Regardless of my accomplishment. Regardless of what people will think of me.

Some find me amazing and some think I beyond crazy. And they are both as correct as they are both false.

Because I am in my own selflessness. I keep my fluidity.

but wont people judge you if they knew that about you? Yes, they will, they definitely will.

But if you reach that state of selflessness, you will adapt to your environment and play by that environment rule.

It sounds contradicting and it is contradicting. Because when I tell you to be selfless, you define yourself as the selfless guy.

So you ego is now called the selfless ego, the IDGF ego... etc.

And that ego will be like any other ego, striving for attention by proving it existence. By proving that IT is SELFLESSNESS.

but true selflessness has no it.

Non-existence is a very hard concept for the human mind to understand and I am getting further from the topic.

But that concept definitely needs research from your part.

what to take from this is the following: Stop taking everything so serious, play life with the seriousity of a game along with the fun, and non caring of a game.

Stop trying to build this persona, stop trying to define yourself and be that guy who X

Don't care what they think.

To some I am a god, To some I am a total joke.

Play the game just for the experience of it, not for getting a self and a meaning out of it.

There are these posts, even now on the hot page as I am writing this that still beg for conformation of itself.

Oh, I wont let her walk over me... I am an ALPHA MALE or whatever. Oh I am this and I am that.

You are not. I am not. I am one of another 7 Billion I's And that is so freeing, I don't have to be an important I. I can be whatever it want. I is free. A girl flaked me and didn't show up on a date. Yes that happened to me, 'I' with my fucking jaguar and my money and my fame and my game and so on. So what would I do.

Probably get up and meet a new girl, or just enjoy a meal at the place I was at or whatever I feel like doing.

Would I call her again... probably not. Would I see her if she offered or we met and the chance was there.

NO I AM AN ALPHA; WOMEN CANT WALK OVER ME; MY STANDARDS MY SELF IMAGE...

Yes, I will meet her and probably fuck her brain out too.. that's fun to do.

Just be this

Regards, J.Deus

bad English, editing and formatting.. I know :)