My first year of college was the first time I really got into the pickup game. Throughout high school, I didn't excerize any sort of pick up or even alpha male attraction methods and because of that I was usually dateless. So when I went to a college 9 hours away from home with no friends I knew I had to teach myself to be outgoing. Luckily, my roommate was a natural and he taught me a lot about being a natural leader and alpha male. He seemed to have this ability to surround himself with women and then pull one at will, a feat that always baffled me. After seeing him do this a multitude of times without being able to figure out what he was doing I decided to ask him. He said:

Never close any doors. I am flirty with every girl I meet, whether I like them or not so it's congruent to my personality. Getting out of the friend zone isn't a problem for me because I balance that line of friendship and flirtatiousness very carefully.

This really changed my perspective on things, what seemed impossible to me was so easy to him. I hope this advice can resonate with some of you and help you out. I know this really helped me.