I don’t post on here often, but if I can put my two cents in from personal experience. Growing up I was always over weight, but my personality was what people where always attracted to, I like making people laugh, feel good and make sure they feel happy about themselves. Up until I was 19 I had never kissed a girl, then that happened and it was amazing. But it didn’t go anywhere, just making out. For the next two years nothing else happened in regards to women. But during that time I worked on losing weight (I was over 300 pounds), I got into new hobbies like Latin dancing (perfect with helping out when being nervous around beautiful women). I got into djing and music production. Learned how to like my bald head, since I hated that it thinned out and finally started shaving it off. And during that time women really took a back seat to my life. I wasn’t to sad I was single or hooking up with anyone as my life was giving enough happiness to not worry about it. As I was in a phase of learning more about myself and enjoying my hobbies. Fast forward to when I was 21, I had gone down to 160 pounds, I started dressing better, started read books on seduction and how to talk to women and I would put into practice what I was reading. Finally I ended up losing my virginity that same year to a girl I thought was out of my league. After that I went another 4 months with no success, but it didn’t bother me since my life was still positive with awesome friends I made and go out and enjoy life and partying and keeping up with my music journey. Finally at 22, I found my groove with approaching women, talk f to them and escalating, I’m a solid 5/6. On looks but I made my personality and charism shine as much as I could. as I made sure to develop my strengths to another level. From that age up until I turned 26 I racked up a body count of 25. I then got into a car accident and I gained weight got depressed. Which fucked up my game for the next year and a half since I was always negative and started letting myself go and stopped doing what made me happy. Now I finally got myself back into kick boxing, and eating better and just being thankful for the small things. I haven’t been laid in last year but hey it’ll happen when it happens. Till then I’ll keep on working to get myself back to my peak self. It’s a process gentlemen, but enjoy it. Pick up new hobbies that put you in front of people, make friends as friends have cute girls who’ll be introduced to you, and that’ll help with not cold approaching as often. You got this