I swear I don't even do this kind of stuff with making a post here on Reddit and standing out because of it etc lol but I've been watching this sub. And something is telling me to throw my 2 cents in it so here it goes. There's sooooo much I could say. Especially from experience. But I'll try my best.

Girls are not a purpose. Don't care. They are meant to come along for the ride. If they do, great! If they don't, great! Because guess what, that girl you're "dying to get", to be honest, will NOT tell you what the fuck she's really got going on! Bro, she's talking to 22 other guys other than you, and getting 220 guys TRYING to talk to her. Not even actually talking. Or! She's on a sugar daddy website on the LOW. Looking for that guy who's willing to spend money on her for "dates". It's that cute girl at University that you think "Omg she's adorable" but what you don't know is that she's looking for money! Because broke college girl. A lot of women these days ain't playing fair. They're playing for keeps! For them to come out on top. I'm telling you the absolute truth. That's why as a man you gotta go build your empire and make something of yourself. MAKE SOMETHING OF YOURSELF! Go out there and take some shit over. Build that money up so you can secure that lifestyle where it doesn't matter what girls come or what girls go. Honestly at the end of the day, most of them want money. They want a man who has things looking UP. So they can have some form of security. My uncle told me "Freedom ain't free, and neither is you know what". "Women want whoever got the best nest". I believe him. Because from what I've seen and experienced, they can't love us like we want them too. You need to just step your game up! Gym, gaining/losing weight, stay in the barbershop, upgrade to better clothes/shoes, getting that car you want, and most importantly stop giving a fuck. Because when you on the come up, it doesn't matter what girls do what because you know you can have fun with the next girl. Why? Because you got money! You know, that thing that 95% of women love. I've seen girls come out of a bad relationship, reject normal guys, and sign the fuck up for a sugar daddy website. Real talk. No lies. That's their mindset these days. It's a damn shame, but at least we know that the odds can get evened out when you're doing well for yourself 😂 Those 9s, 10s, yeah, they're looking for money 90% of the time. No bullshit. Can't trust these hoes because they won't tell you shit! It's all about them in their eyes. Lil Wayne said it best in "Hoes ain't loyal". He said "She all about her and you all about her". Bro forget that shit. Get your weight up and live the best life you can with or without them. I'm not even talking rich. If you can burn a couple hundred a week without worrying about it, then you're on your way. In the end, the divorce rate in the US is extremely high. Get that lovey dovey shit out of your mind and just live your best life. Trust me, you'll thank me later. I'm an extreme optimist. I'm a positive person. But I'm not stupid. You have to make your life the best it can be regardless. And if you're having trouble with girls now, step your game up. Because when those women know you got the dough, there's gonna be a few takers. And just have fun with them because nobody is guaranteed to stay. I just want to convince you guys out there that when you have a purpose and go straight for it, the money will flow in, people start to notice. Especially women. Yes improve your game. But improve your finances too. In this world men are judged off status. Not looks.

Hopefully I did good for my first post in this sub. Let me know in the comments :) Did I hit a reality check, or am I crazy?