So here’s the deal: I’m in my last semester at college and looking to hook up with more women. Basically trying to ride out the college wave before working full-time.

As a late bloomer, I’ve only had sex with one girl in my life who I dated for a little throughout college. We did just about everything in the book so I’m sexually experienced and confident in that area. Aside from her I’ve made out with at least 10 other girls since dating but I’ve noticed a pattern with myself and women..

I tend to meet them at parties/bars, drink, escalate then make out to kino without any sex. I’ve decided I don’t want a one night stand but instead to somewhat know the girl before banging her. I usually grab a girls number and then we’ll hang out, have fun and then either it fades or I don’t know what to do next to get her home. I’ve had numerous women back to my place the night we met but I either am not feeling it (need mental connection) or they aren’t allowing me to go forward.

My friends keep saying “I can’t close” but most women I pursue don’t seem to want to go all the way that night. I don’t really care about the hate but in all honesty what am I doing wrong?

Weeks keep going by and I’m still on this dry spell. Thanks.