First post here and was looking for advice and never thought I'd have something to say but now I do. It may sound weird at first but hear me out if your struggling with the urge to talk to a girl.

I recently learned about something called schrödinger's cat and the idea is that there is a cat in a box and you don't know whether or not the cat is alive or not. The only way you know is by opening the box.

This is a weird analogy but hear me out. If you apply this concept to a girl you are interested in, you don't know whether or not she is into you unless you talk to her. You should never approach a girl with fear of rejection, instead with curiosity if you and her are compatible. The Best thing is to approach her as yourself. You wouldn't want her to be attracted to someone your not.

In conclusion all you have to do is open the box and see what's inside. I hope this helps someone (: