English isn't my first language.

I just made a post about how you need to know how To read non verbal communication to seduce and I gave an example based on a video.

I think it would be cool to talk about another video. Most of you will just say YOU KNOW all of this and I think you do. Truth is, there are still a lot of guys out there who act like the guy on the video.

What I like about this one is that, the girl isn't doing what she should have done in that situation but that is another story. Let's focus on the guy.

Context -

So there is that student tiktoker, 19-F working as a cashier and a customer Male hits on her.

Good. Grab your chance. Give him one point for taking his balls.

We don't see him or his face so what is interesting on that video is his speech.

I -

He starts asking her where she studies... And INSISTS to know the exact location of her university.

Please. Guys. STOP asking geographic location to women for a starter. I am sick of that.

Ok. Let's go this way. A total stranger, a guy who can obviously easily kick the shit out of you, come to you and ask you to give him your work place and your address or the city, the neighborhood where you live.

Will you feel secure? Will you be open to give him all these information?

So, WHY do you think it's ok to do that then?

As an answer, she lies. That makes perfect sense here. As she lies, she isn't open to keep on the conversation.

Instead, he should have asked her WHAT she studies. Plenty of chance she knows the subject and chose it so she will be glad to share it. There is no personal information in it which is going to make her be careful about what she is saying.

II -

Which bring us to the fact your goal is to open a conversation. What works the best to open a conversation is to chose a topic the other person will have something to say about. How do you know how to chose the subject she will have something to say?

If you don't have any base about her you can start a conversation with, Talk about her style, her jewelleries... She chose it. Most of the time very carefully. So she knows that subject. Make a random compliment and ask her where she got it.

"Hey! Nice jacket! Where did you got this?? "

Don't make it sexual.

Talk general (random shitty topic related to her)> Put confort (jokes) > talk personal (number phone)

III -

When a woman answer with short words, this means you aren't on the good page. You missed one phase.

"Yes", " Hum", " Cool" > THIS, isn't a conversation. These are just small words.

The guy didn't pass the general talk. But do you know what he does?

He keeps on going CIA mode and directly goes to the personal phase.

"How old are you! ", "Do you have Instagram?", "No???" , "why?", " You are cute".

His chances to get personal information when he didnt even pass the general information phase are close to zero.

He is trying to put confort with a joke but as he didnt pass the general talk, this comes out of nowhere and makes the whole situation very weird. He pays and says :

"do you want my credit card code number? ".

He tells the joke twice.

I am not judging the sense of humor. I am judging the fact when you make a joke to a stranger, you have to link it with something cause it can be dramatic.

What does he mean by giving his credit card code?? " If you want my money, you have to give me something else? ".

What do you want to answer to that?

So she says " No, I am okay".

Still nothing to talk about.

Conclusion -

The huge mistake of that guy is that he is making a monologue. I just feel like he doesn't open a conversation, he just want to talk and get some personal information. He doesn't include her in anything. He just wants something out of her. She isn't even responding but he does not care.

Learn how to bring someone into a conversation.

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