Holy shit did things change for me.

Before, I was behaving in a way that I want to be noticed by men.

Now, after reading FDS and finally learning the bullsh*t.

Men are the ones to stop in their tracks and asks me to notice them.

Men are the ones doing things for me (I never even have to act like I am pursuing them to ask).

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So now I say:

"Before, I get treated badly because I wasn't aware and did things the way I was taught so I got disrespect and I felt bad about myself because everything I did seem to be wrong."

"Now you give your attention to me? No thank you, when I say I'm done - I AM DONE."

So the trick here is just to detect lies and deception and you're good to go.