I was raised entirely by women...

CrustyMainer · 2017-03-28T13:02:41+00:00

OP you can do it. Fuck those people, they're small minded and are threatened when you are trying to better yourself. Do what you want to make yourself what you want. I understand coming from an abusive family. You are not alone. PM me if you wanna talk. I have some resources that have helped me in the past when dealing with suicide and depression and I think they may help you.

bloodshot_eyes · 2017-03-28T14:33:46+00:00

You're looking back at a legacy of shit. Don't.

Think of today as Day One.

Think where you want to be on Day One Thousand. Write that shit down. Make a list of what you want to be. Work for that man, every day. Don't let him down; you can do the things that he needs you to do. The best confidence builder in the world is achievement.

There's a lot of haters out there in the world. They want you down on their level. They realize that every push-up that you do, is a push-up that they haven't done. They hate you for it, and they hate themselves for not being as strong as you.

If you can't hold yourself accountable, then we can help. Make a weekly post every Tuesday titled "I was raised entirely by women". Use it to tell us about your progress. Be motivated by the need to accomplish things throughout the week, so you have positive things to post about.

Those sea-hags spent 25 years raising you to be who you are today, and look what happened. Now it's YOUR turn to raise YOURSELF. Mold yourself into the man that YOU want to be. We believe in you.

Jinkeeze · 2017-03-28T18:32:25+00:00

Focus on yourself. Once you better yourself, you will attract better people. Work on your mind and body, as they're your temple.

Don't ever consider suicide. That's cowardly and selfish. You matter.

There are people out there who are in worse positions than yourself. Remember that.

Stay positive.

scotFree66 · 2017-03-28T17:57:45+00:00

...so you were actually "Lowered" rather than raised. I share some of your pain!

My advice - make a plan to dig yourself out of the hole, break it into small steps with timings and then follow it. While following it accept that there will be false dawns and occasional downhill fast swoops. Stay focused on the end.

Mental_Fragment · 2017-03-28T18:47:44+00:00

Yo guy, I read this sub almost everyday. I came across your post and told myself I better comment and send some advice to another brother. We may not be blood brothers but every man on this earth I consider family.

I've been lifting weights for 10 and a half years. You won't find the weight loss you're looking for in lifting. you need serious dietary intervention. If you want to lose weight and find a solid understanding of why you're morbidly obese go look up Dr. Jason Fung.

Read Obesity Code and complete guide to fasting. You don't work right now, so in a week you could easily read those books. Some will disagree with me but honestly both my parents had type 2 diabetes 3 months ago. Both are off every medication and both have lost an insane about of weight. I had serious hypertension as well and that's completely gone now.

Please guy just try intermittent fasting 16:8 protocol for a week or two. Then try eating two meals within 4 hours and 20 hours of just water. Then try a full days fasting. People will tell you that you'll lose muscle, but I haven't at all and I've gained strength.

People are going to say don't let others influence you, blah blah blah. Everyone is different and has psychological variations that either makes them brush shit off or not. So, you may just be more sensitive in areas others may not be. That just means you'll need to work harder to let go and move on.

When it comes to your skills, listen man I was a forklift driver, chicken hatchery labourer, vaccination lab technician, machine operator for vaccinations and ACAD technician. Now I taught myself how to make 3D assets along with rigging, animation, texture artist and I've learn basic C++ programming. I'm 27 years old and everyday I'm reading, learning or working on my parents property. My parents want a homestead and so I had to teach myself how to build and landscape along with basic mechanic skills to fix the tractor. I've learned how to weld to fabricate tools I need etc. 4 years ago I didn't know how to operate a chainsaw, but now I've put in hundreds of hours. When any trees need to come down my family calls me to come and check and offer advice. Plus I've learned even more skills on top of those. If I can wake up and get shit done then so can most people.

One thing remains hard in my mind. My life started when I moved away from the city. My life started when I chose to be myself. My life started when I said no more women. In 4 years I've learned more and am happier than any years previous. People are time wasters my friend please choose yourself everyday wake up look in the mirror and say "Fuck the world, Fuck Women and Fuck anyone who gets in my way".

Good luck Brother. Work towards living life.

Mental_Fragment · 2017-03-28T18:58:34+00:00

1.) AWALT. never trust a woman. 2nd, your story is so similar to mine. 34, but raised by a single mom and 2 older sisters and no father present as he was an abusive alcoholic asshole. i'm great and so happy now but i had many years of confusion as woman have no general understanding of their own nature so in no way can explain it to a young boy and prepare him for what he's getting into. I had adapted many feminine qualities which of course to me seemed positive because I could always share with my family of all women but when it came to mating and girlfriends i realize, though it took a while, that those feminine influences had hurt my ability to see women's true nature or use that to get really good sex consistently.

fuck, when i was 27 i was a poor wreck and bagging groceries after losing real job 1.5 years before and struggling through jobs in a desolate cold winter area, and now i'm 34 and super happy with great work and moved to a place on earth that i find relaxing. life can change, fuck i know mine did, complete 180, this subreddit has pushed my evolution much farther at light speeds though, good things to internalize. first rule, AWALT. never forget. many Chad's got bent over in divorce court to bring you that message.

2017-03-28T20:25:22+00:00

Swim Mr. Bad Ankles... like your life depends on it... because it does.

shoonx · 2017-03-28T21:39:05+00:00

You can lose the weight, my man. Losing the weight will do wonders for your confidence and energy levels. A good source of cardio for somebody with bad feet and ankles would definitely be swimming. I'd lift as well to build some muscle. Count your calories and macro-nutrients.

I've been NEET for 2 years now, but I'm starting a job here in a month or so. It's gonna suck at first, but I'm done not having money or being independent. The free time was fun at first, but I've grown bored of just playing video games and reading all day.

25 is still young. There's plenty of time to make positive changes and enjoy a fruitful life.

2017-03-29T02:14:02+00:00

Alright OP, Let me start by telling you, I have been there. 112Kgs 38% body fat. I heard all this, yeah you can't workout and lose weight - just go do Insert some snake oil herbal bullshit diet.

A large part of self-hate you are experiencing right now can be attributed to your weight. It is your body signalling something is not right. You are even likely to be depressed. Start working out. I am sure /r/Fitness would welcome you with open arms. This is the first step to correcting your course IMHO.

You will get your confidence as you see your progress. Good luck. Have fun!

SquireDalbridge · 2017-03-29T05:58:32+00:00

As another man raised by women I know your pain brother,but you can't let what was get in the way of what is and what will be,good luck on your quest for self improvement.

emanuele123 · 2017-03-29T13:21:11+00:00

Taming your Outer child - for diet section

No More Mr Nice Guy - and find a group of men

When I say No I feel guilty - to boost social skills against rejection

Read these three books my brother and your life will be happy. Give it a try

NotNormal2 · 2017-03-29T20:55:58+00:00

Check out structural integration.

Title	I was raised entirely by women...
Author	Mental_Fragment
Upvotes	22
Comments	36
Date	March 28, 2017 12:21 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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