How to Confront a Cheater

Cheating is the ultimate form of betrayal. It is a break of trust, love and something that is sacred. Once this line is crossed, there is no coming back. You are no longer the alpha male. You are not loved anymore and you are simply kept around as a tool for your money or emotional support whenever she wants to make herself available to you.

Ghosting is the answer. This is will be especially difficult for those who are madly in love or have been in a LTR. Its very important your head is held high and you don’t allow the whirlwind of emotions and anger to get the better of you.

It is in a man’s nature to defend his territory. However, being confrontational in a society where men are demonized and shamed for being masculine will only destroy you. If you confront a cheater things will always turn out bad. Lets take a look at the possibilities and their outcomes.

You confront the cheater and she uses it against you for stalking her or butting into her private life. Now you’ve become the enemy and she projects faults onto you and you get become infuriated.

You confront the cheater with some hope in the back of your mind that there’s a reasonable explanation for this or some misunderstanding. You’re a cuck if you do this.

You confront the cheater and they get a kick out of it. They realize they can play you or you still have feelings for them. If she has a narcissist personality, which most cheaters have anyways then you play into her hands. She now controls more of you and feeds off your negative energy.

You confront her and she goes nuts and some shitty ass cops come to your house and arrest you because of the way society perceives men (toxic masculinity) and the shit garbage feminist laws will land you in jail, even if you did nothing (Duluth Model). You may even be charged with domestic abuse and slapped with a restraining order for simply yelling at her and making her feel “unsafe”. Guess what? She doesn’t even need proof.

Or you can be a man and mind f her with an invisible cock you have called the “brain”.

Women are emotional creatures. They cannot, for the most part, think logically.

Delete this trash from your life. She’s a stain on your shirt and you need to wash it off with Clorox, otherwise you’re going to think about drinking it if you decide to go another route.

Ghost her. Go AWOL. Make yourself disappear from the face of this earth in her mind. She will search for you like a person dying of thirst in a desert. She will conjure up images like a mirage only to find nothing and cause her more grief and depression.

Don’t give her an explanation. Don’t say anything. Just dip out and block her. Delete her from your social media. Avoid her like she’s the plague. Block any of her friends that reach out to you on her behalf. They’ll all start wondering what the hell just happened? Then their mind will play games with them.

The whore may have cheated on you hoping you would find out so she could leave with a bang and leave you destroyed. But if you act preemptively she will be left in a hall of mirrors.

Why did he leave? Did he cheat on me? Did he find someone better? Is he making more money? Did he get a new job? DID HE FIND OUT I CHEATED ON HIM? Am I not worth it anymore? Please oh God, I just need an answer!

Her drama queen friends will inadvertently help you destroy her by filling her head with conspiracy theories as to why you may have left, but she will NEVER recover from any answer she is given.

When you ghost her you NEVER LET HER BACK IN, EVER! You will be the greatest thing in her life that she F’d up. It will cause her so much pain and agony that she may even mention you to the other cucks she’s with. The cheater will find some men in her relationships who have balls won’t tolerate her much longer, especially when she mentions you. As she becomes worn out and used like the whore that she is, men will lose interest and she will become devalued and age like milk. Her future relationship options will be: loneliness or loneliness with cats.

You will become forbidden fruit to her and become highly desirable. This will drive her absolutely insane. If she has a narcissist personality, then you deprived her of sex and of power. She will be so badly smitten that she cannot control you. Just watch the mental self-destruction unfold right before your eyes.

She may try to confront you at work, or at home, or in public. It will be awkward to stay silent and give her the cold shoulder in person. The best thing to do is just say “I don’t think it would work out” don’t give her the time of day, don’t say anything else and don’t even look at her. Get the hell out of there. Runaway like your life depends on it and never look back. Don’t be a curious cat and read her messages, or listen to her voicemails, or peek through her FB, IG, SC or whatever the hell she is on.

Ghost her and you just maintained: the moral high ground, increased value in self, devalued her and exacted the most expensive revenge that keeps your hands free from any guilty or illegal actions and won without doing ANYTHING while they ran circles around themselves.