How do I rebuild

JStheHammer · 2018-05-11T23:40:11+00:00

Work on your self. Gym. Books. Make new friends. Career. Make Time To Have Some fun.

Deprogram yourself.

You are among friends and you did nothing wrong.

ConstantChinner · 2018-05-11T23:38:46+00:00

She is paying you support? That is fantastic! How long will you get alimony/support for?

idle135 · 2018-05-11T23:58:30+00:00

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Murziktigrionak · 2018-05-12T00:06:49+00:00

Iqbal Miya AWALT. Just learn to enjoy yourself. Takes time but is possible. Even hookers are women. They drain you financially. Reprogram your brain. Think of doing things that YOU really want. Not what society or religion taught you. Btw your religion knew the nature of women, that’s why it’s strict. Thus they focus on virginity. But break free from that too. It’s 2018. You are free. Be happy. Do nothing and you’ll still find happiness. With a woman, you’ll never find happiness. Why bother?

Iqbal40862715 · 2018-05-12T00:13:20+00:00

Thank you for your comments. Signed up today. Do any other MGTOW minded guys have daughters here?

I'm going to say constantly don't sleep around/don't act masculine/its OK to be feminine. Constant shit testing will get you divorced. You may be able to support yourself but its human nature to seek out provision and protection from a man

Any and all thoughts would be appreciated Thank you

2018-05-12T00:17:31+00:00

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Moonlighter202 · 2018-05-11T23:48:59+00:00

There are convincing dolls out there and they are getting better by the day. Check out "the doll house" or the like. I would definitely recommend that. Realdoll is premium dolls and are even better. What I would do in your situation right now is to check your diet, start lifting and start reading MGTOW books (or any self improvement books). Also, welcome to MGTOW.

DangZagnut · 2018-05-12T00:10:47+00:00

One day at a time man, one day at a time.

-CleanYourRoom · 2018-05-12T04:30:25+00:00

This sounds like a job for /u/HandyManDan90

Has has life figured out, if you didn't know.

JayJayEcks · 2018-05-12T15:12:04+00:00

Vasectomy. Gym. Education. Escorts. Stack your money, live frugal.

klim_milk · 2018-05-12T02:54:34+00:00

You're on your way. Pull through.

DWShimoda · 2018-05-12T04:13:25+00:00

How do I rebuild? Don't want a blow up doll - would prefer the real thing - but I'm too annoyed with regular chicks. Feel like I pushed my luck with hookers and I'm paranoid about getting busted.

How do I rebuild my career self esteem

Oh, it's fairly obvious that you're addicted to pussy... ergo you WILL find another chick; basically just a numbers game for you... I'd predict you'll probably (at least a 67% chance) even be remarried within 5 years; and close to 100% within 10.

and soul?

I would think this has been sufficiently "seared" and sacrificed long ago.

A new ~~member~~ subscriber

Because no, you're really, clearly, not a MGTOW -- hint: this isn't a "club of/for divorced men" (despite the many threads that describe that) -- and I'm fairly certain that (much like most of them {i.e. "recently divorced men"*})... you never will be.

Seriously. DON'T KID YOURSELF. As much as you may like the "idea" the conceptual "notion" of being MGTOW (or having, as you put it in other comments being "MGTOW minded") and as appealing as the notion of being "free" from women/pussy no doubt SEEMS to you (right now anyway); you really -- IMO blatantly & obviously -- are not equipped/habituated to actually LIVING as such. So save yourself a lot of embarrassment, and don't make claims to being something you're not, OK? It'll be much easier for you to NOT make stupid "vows" of bachelorhood that you will NOT be keeping.

* They too are just "transients" here -- at a (temporary) "I'm DUN with women!" (often followed with "And THIS TIME I really mean it!") stage -- passing through on their way to their NEXT relationshit.

EDIT: Secondary side note -- also the very fact that you have a daughter -- and even more so that you have ONLY the one child, and it IS a female AND that you have "joint custody" ... realistically this means you CANNOT actually become "MGTOW"; because you will (for essentially the rest of your life) have at least one female in your household, and/or at the "center" of your life.

Title	How do I rebuild
Author	Iqbal40862715
Upvotes	15
Comments	15
Date	May 11, 2018 11:36 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/8is7sc/how_do_i_rebuild/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/how-do-i-rebuild.558586 https://theredarchive.com/post/558586

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