Need some advice.

Ghostwarrior215k · 2018-05-13T05:01:52+00:00

Practice meditation.

ConstantChinner · 2018-05-13T05:01:25+00:00

I know exactly how you feel. It can be tough to keep things in when everything you see is female bias and gynocentrism and hypergamy.

RedHattedPhilomath · 2018-05-13T05:46:23+00:00

It’s natural to be in RPR when you start out.

You are going through, what I suggest, the Kubler-Ross Model of Grief. Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance.

You have gotten past one of the hardest parts which most men nowadays struggle with, denial. But now you are angry because your view was shattered. Which is natural, people usually don’t like change because most change means you will have to change yourself as well. Not saying that’s you, but change is a threat to most people’s world.

I suggest simply thinking of them as a, separate species from men. As they think and are biologically different than men, you could call them a species of Homo sapiens. This allows you to realize that since they are naturally this way, it is more like a lion attempting to hunt you rather than a muderer trying to kill you for complicated reasons.

I would also suggest not getting stuck on the ‘bargaining’ stage of grief, as this is what most ‘tradcucks’ and MRAs are. You can’t change a system that does not operate by a man’s rules anymore. You can only exit the game.

Work on yourself, and pursue your own happiness in ways that won’t screw you over. I wish you the best of luck. :)

WolfgangBreitweit · 2018-05-13T08:05:55+00:00

The rage will go away. After a while you’ll focus on yourself. Our psyche is made that way. You was not wrong. They told you shit. And now you are angry. Take away the source of anger and refocus slowly. Don’t care about blue pilled people. You are young, the world is yours, not theirs.

jonathino001 · 2018-05-13T08:53:34+00:00

Don't know that this is necessarily a MGTOW question so much as an anger management in general question.

RsCyanid · 2018-05-13T10:24:37+00:00

Arguing with people is pretty pointless. If people are actually curious they'll take the time to understand your point of view. I think it's better to be a ghost and not stick out too much so I just try to keep to myself as much as possible. Most people don't care about men's issues and wouldn't understand anyways.

You just got to learn when to pick your battles and not waste energy trying to convince people that won't listen.

Xplosion73 · 2018-05-13T05:59:09+00:00

Worry not. You are in a place better than I was if not most men. I hit the rage at 29 after my divorce. That’s just about a decade of time. You need to channel that into something, if not it’s going to consume you.

Men your age and teen boys realizing a philosophy as MGTOW is a great thing. Because some of us found it at 30, 40, hell 50.

Like I said giving you decades of time not wasting it on a blue pill mentality like being a simp, mangina. Time that we thought we found the right woman to have kids with, or “being the nice guys”, only to be divorce raped or a financial slave of alimony or child support.

Feminism is going to have its phases and stages. It’s here and women embrace it like it’s the greatest thing. But if you look at a career woman or single Mom you’ll see the true price of feminism.

Their Miserable. Either to young with kids and no future “or” Too old without kids and way past expiration.

Women go to college for degrees more than men. But they want to major in “women studies”, or “liberal arts”. Racking up a student loan debt of 100k to 200k depending on the college. Only to be making $8 hr at Starbucks making your coffee. Hard to pay that debt off.

While skills and trades are in high demand. “That great you went to college. Know anything about plumbing, or being an electrician?”

(Not trying to badmouth college. Just saying most women get useless degrees or they end up hating their major.)

My advice is to find a purpose for yourself. Because as boys we were taught to be “men” by our “K-12 indoctrination”. To work hard, get married, have children, retire, and go to college, or serve your country. They never teach you one thing.

Thinking for yourself.

Find a purpose in this world. Feminism has made women equal to men. You don’t have to be the breadwinner like your grandpa was or slave away at job or get married. You can do hobbies or invest early so when your in your 40s you’ll enjoy life. Not slaving to support a wife, 3 kids and a McMansion. Which the wife could divorce you no fault and daddy government will give her all the power to control your life.

Stay in shape. Health is important, your older self will thank you. Men get better with age like wine, women age like milk. Stress is the silent killer so don’t stress over stuff you can’t control.

Find a good Philosophy and perspectives to build on. Podcasts like Tom Leykis, or authors like Arron Clarey are just fountains of knowledge I wish I had that would of saved me stress and time.

Hope this advice helped

BrownMayonnaise · 2018-05-13T15:52:21+00:00

Maybe you just need a "lightbulb" moment. I think this is cliche and often mentioned here, but important to consider, nonetheless:

You don't get mad at a tiger or snake for biting, you acknowledge that is what they do and it's their nature.

Likewise, you acknowledge that women are master manipulators. Of course they will be able to change society to suit themselves.

You can't change the world, but you can change how you feel about it. Just worry about yourself and those that care about and support you. (If you're lucky enough to have them). Hope this helps.

PrideTrooperBR · 2018-05-13T16:38:12+00:00

Beware, that your own parents will try to speak bullshit for you like "You will find someone who deserves you" when all you see externally is AWALT behavior.

Title	Need some advice.
Author	KC_weeden
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Date	May 13, 2018 4:59 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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