What was your recurring argument?

CfromCA · 2018-10-03T00:26:22+00:00

Honestly, in retrospect, not really any.

I guess I could argue talking to other men behind my back but I don't even know if that's a fair point because I always made a point not to actually commit. I've been in a couple FWB relationships that lasted years and they all eventually left to settle down. But...I can hardly blame them. Pretty much any argument I had was over something minor like burning supper or buying the wrong toothpaste.

Most of my relationships were actually pretty good compared to most people's i know. But...I have always been able to see the trajectory women are on - looking for a provider to tie down and leech off of. Never seemed wise.

vikrant1993 · 2018-10-03T01:16:03+00:00

Never got into the game cause I didn't wnat the drama or the stress. But I have to ask, what is pampered chef? I've seen that word like so much this week at work...

DK-Growth · 2018-10-03T06:25:29+00:00

She drank too frequently (basically an alcoholouc from age 18)

Frequency of sex went down, still good fucks though

A lot of complaining about me not being romantic enough

Anoying inlaws

Relationship got repetitive, doing the same shit everytime we met up

OzymandiasTheVagrant · 2018-10-03T02:02:46+00:00

At least you could tell what the argument was about. Ever have one of those “she just turned this nice convo into an argument and I can’t even figure out why” moments?

carini_bustout · 2018-10-03T01:39:12+00:00

OP, those too were the issues for two different LTRs. It was actually them that needed more sex, as it was getting old after the 1200th time, but they wanted it on command.

And the relatives (in-laws), holy shit that one was the biggest pain in the ass, as I'm already somebody who HATES obligations, period. Could NOT stand having to go hang out with a bunch of nobodies on xmas eve, or thxgiving. That's the thing I cherish the most now, no more of the family visits locked in a nightmare hallmark holiday rotation that never fucking ends.

TowingMig · 2018-10-03T02:07:29+00:00

I think in my case:

She wanted reports about what I did during my day and who I talked to and about what.
She wanted me to drop college to be with her (she was rich so she never had to care about self development)
She used to sent me messages all the time and if I didn't reply right away, damn...
Too much video game
Too much sports
Too much studies
Too many friends

And the list goes on and on. The first 2 years were awesome, the third one was ok and the forth was hell itself.

Whitegamerinc_Twitch · 2018-10-03T05:20:22+00:00

Her wanting to go to McDonald's for fries (that was literally a minute away, and trying to drag me along with her "cause she didn't want to go alone". I could've generalized it, but giving a specific item and place really puts it in perspective.

Saix17 · 2018-10-03T16:48:48+00:00

Mine were

*Her general laziness if I didn't remind her to clean

*Any friend of mine she disliked I was forbidden to hang out with, this in particular caused many arguments because I refused

*She would pay attention to FB during dates or at family gatherings (giant pet peeve of mine)

*Arguments over how I got mad at her for not doing something so she gets mad at me

*Expecting her home at a decent hour when she hung out with her friends

And to think I almost married her. I got lucky, she cheated on me with a friend of mine a few weeks before the wedding. Lost a friend but gained so much more.

Title	What was your recurring argument?
Author	people_watcher
Upvotes	6
Comments	11
Date	October 3, 2018 12:17 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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