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[–]80173549 points50 points51 points 7 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
Nah, marriage is. Relationships can be strictly FWB - no need for the end to be slowly, can end with 1 abrupt ghosting.
[–]TheLastMgtow39 points40 points41 points 7 years ago* (8 children) | Copy Link
relationships are not worth it. Women will not rest until she can get "more".
[–]8017355 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Depends on how you define relationship.
[–]TheLastMgtow22 points23 points24 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Pump and dump is worth it, and maybe a short term thing. Relationships always tend to go for a situation where she pressures you to give more of something, and the more you give the less she respects you, and if you give nothing she will start making pressure and psychological tricks.
Briffault law should be enough for a man to understand that if he is in a relationship it means he is giving something, he is one way or another being taken advantage of. Why have relationships when you can have sex without that effort?
And if you are high status, then why would you be with only one?
I personally cycle by phases where i date multiple women and phases where im monk. I never go for a relationship with 1 woman thats suicide.
The only winning move is not to play.
[–]8017351 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Indeed.
But a relationship to me can also be enjoying the time spent together (this, too, depends on definition; or limits I express) AND enjoying telling her it's not going anywhere further than that,... before ending it.
[–]TheLastMgtow4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
So thats not really a relationship. I mean it might be in her eyes. But you know its not going anywhere so its more like a scam, and more power to you, because thats what i do. I treat them all the same, and i always leave when the redflags start. The only thing is that it doesnt work for me if i stay too long doing it, because i catch feelings, and i catch oneitis very easily if im banging just one chick at the time. I need to have abundance or nothing, otherwise im screwed.
Besides that, when it comes to companionship which seems thats what you were referring to, i think companionship from women is similar to a drug. Its intoxicating and after a while its really just negative (a question of a few days or some hours). Im much better alone, or having the companionship obtained by a group of friends or a sport.
[–]8017352 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So thats not really a relationship.
Your definition of a relationship deviates from mine then.
Relationship can mean "professional", "friendship", "joy consumers", "dancing partner", "co-runner", and just about a gorrilion other things being done together. To me.
I mean it might be in her eyes. But you know its not going anywhere so its more like a scam, and more power to you, because thats what i do.
It's not a scam because I express my limits. Example: Let's go grab a drink. IS NOT a date. If she hears something wrong, maybe she should either clean her ears or read a dictionary (all of it) or ask me for clarification.
It's nasty as fuck, isn't it, when I understood an ENTHUSIASTIC agreeable consent must be given for EVERT step along the WHOLE way, con-fucking-stantly, huh? Feel free to ask, females, it's not just your right, it's your duty now. ]=)
... i stay too long ... i catch feelings ... oneitis ... I need ... im screwed.
We're different regarding these. Can optimize it to just "I need", if you want to do something about that, imo.
Im much better alone, or having the companionship obtained by a group of friends or a sport.
Indeed, I agree. Also much better chances at common interests and goals.
[–]TheLastMgtow2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You also have a relationship with your family and your dog. We are obviously talking about emotional connections with women, and that i think all mgtow acknowledge it isn't safe or benefitial to the man, at least in the long run. Thats why i said you are doing some game and some tricks, which is fine, whatever works for you.
Exactly. Thats what even bluepill guys do. Do you think telling her you want a relationship works? You see...
But we are all different.
[–]8017352 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We are obviously talking about emotional connections with women
You my be, but I am not.
and that i think all mgtow acknowledge it isn't safe or benefitial to the man, at least in the long run.
Agreed.
Do you think telling her you want a relationship works?
No idea. Last one was long ago, before I got to know TRP. Didn't work. Not an unhappy end at all for me, it turns out. =]
[–]ImAnIronmanBtw1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Im gonna pursue making money so i can just fuck whores when i get horny. I have no issue with paying for sex
[–]SamIwas1181 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So can a marrige
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[–]8017350 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Also, yes. Good point.
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[–]8017350 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
False. You probably mean acquaintances.
[–]Iperovic5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Marriage is people sorting out problems they would never have if they didn't marry.
[–]Joxs2[S] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂😂😂
[–]sandwich20005 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
So what's the cheap way?
[–]RedPillCoper3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
pump and dump
[–]Joxs2[S] 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Flesh light? $50 alway available. always willing, never complains, zero chance of STD.
[–]zubbs992 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They like you less and less, but use you more and more.
[–]Roastie_haiku_bot0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And NAG you more and more.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow. That pithy comment hits home hard.
[–]underrated_kawasaki1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s not that they like you less and less, it’s that they’re slowly hopping onto the next dick with more resources as they’ve pretty much gotten everything they wanted from you and it’s time for them to “upgrade”. They never liked you to begin with, they just liked what you could PROVIDE them whether it’s social gain, financial gain, and/or both. Thank god ive never been in a relationship, I’ve only pumped and dumped and I regret nothing ! Better to use them than vice versa cuz no matter what, it’s never a two way street and somebody’s gonna get used so it ain’t gonna be me that’s for sure. It’s an eat or be eaten situation.
[–]NotLuceBree1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LOL. Sad but true.
[–]DreddNz1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Should say “as a man” in front of it
[–]GoDuke20181 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good We need more men dropping red pill bombs on social media
[–]BallsNemze1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So true
[–]Harrybud070 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
repetitiveness reduces excitement.
seeing the same body slowly taking down by gravity, reduces the blood flow to the the shaft.
[–]crawdaddy98800 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Daaaamn... 😒
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