According to pickup, shortly before I approach a woman coldly, I should be happy and smile.

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She is very attractive and looks up and down at me when approaching in disgust.

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How should I maintain a good mood then?

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In this moment I think: "I am doing you a favour by approaching you, girl. But it seems that you don't honour that!". Then I think "Why do I not also build up an "assholeshield", look condescendingly at her and say something even more derogatory to put her down?"

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So you shouldn't give her a stern look, because that's creepy?

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I should care about her not being creeped out? Does she? Does she care about me feeling good? Why should I?

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And there it goes. No conversation, nothing.

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But I looked more and more at couples and realized how unhappy those men were. ESPECIALLY those with children.

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If walking around expecting something good to happen, women just drag me down further. Like going to a friend greeting him and he says "Go fuck yourself, I will never talk to you again" hits you way more than a "Go fuck yourself" from your enemy after you put him down. If on the other hand I expect rejection and go in expecting a fight, the first attack of her like a boyfriend does not hit me, I have my shield up.

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How can a human being looking at you with aggression deserve your kindness because this human being has a vagina?

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I don't understand why you should smile and make a woman's day. For what? Putting you down? Telling you about her boyfriend? Why waste your time?

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But using negs made some women become resentful, others viewed it as a game and tried to up the ante. It has never led to sex.

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But just saying "Hey, I think you are attractive, what's your name" leads nowhere either, except right to the boyfriend line.

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So whatever I do, be honest or condescending-hateful, the ones I fancy never fancy me.

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When walking outside, all I see are angry or condescending female faces.

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If I used another approach and said: "Hmm, let's see if I like her" it would go like that - and always went like that in the past:

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*Some preceding conversation*

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Me: Hey, what do you do for a living?

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She: "I am studying Y"

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I don't care about Y. She failed.

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Me: "Okay, so what do you do when you have free time?"

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She: "I go to the cinema"

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I think "I go skydiving and all she can do is going to the cinema"

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My summary: a boring human being who is really attractive. But because pickup people said, she would be attracted if you liked her character and if she had to work for it, I do the stupid qualification. So I qualify her more and she fails every test.

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But my genitals do not care. And neither do I.

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"But hey, it is so important for her to work for it."

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So I say: "Okay, you are not good enough for me"

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She: "Yeah whatever"

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We split. Great outcome. I qualifed that women, standing ovations by imaginary pickup artists.

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In short, a woman will never pass my shittests. So why even bother qualifying her, because someone in the community said so? Really?

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They live in this fairy tale world where there are countless available and sexy women in daygame and you could qualify.

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Reality: most women look average or bad. Randomly there is an attractive girl. I cannot qualify her, because I want her.

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This pickup shit drifted so far off male interests. I do not want to make her day and pamper her with a good qualifying experience.

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Something is really wrong with qualification.