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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW01/12/18 09:37 PM
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DGAFRomek_Buch/r/MGTOW20/02/20 09:54 AM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW01/11/18 01:53 AM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW20/10/19 07:49 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW22/10/19 12:58 AM
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Romek_Buch/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:27 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW02/11/19 05:20 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW31/10/19 03:15 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW20/10/18 02:38 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW05/03/20 11:47 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW13/11/18 01:27 AM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW12/10/19 01:21 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW22/10/19 06:03 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW29/11/19 04:48 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW26/04/20 10:19 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW22/09/18 07:59 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW27/09/18 11:10 AM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW17/02/20 09:08 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW03/03/19 06:58 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW12/10/19 01:03 AM
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Romek_Buch/r/seduction31/08/18 02:47 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW15/11/19 11:38 AM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW26/09/18 09:43 AM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW31/10/19 06:47 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW11/03/20 12:32 AM
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Romek_Buch/r/seduction02/09/18 10:18 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW09/11/19 08:14 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/seduction28/04/18 06:58 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/seduction25/05/18 07:20 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW30/09/18 05:29 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:43 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW04/03/19 12:42 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/askTRP23/05/19 09:16 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/seduction30/04/18 07:41 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW21/10/19 04:38 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/seduction28/04/18 08:10 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:53 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/seduction19/05/18 09:15 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW23/10/19 03:05 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/askTRP21/11/18 10:26 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationRomek_Buch/r/seduction28/09/20 06:25 PM
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Outer Game Romek_Buch/r/seduction24/04/20 10:02 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:03 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW204/08/20 09:01 AM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW204/08/20 08:58 AM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW24/10/18 06:00 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW27/09/20 09:52 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW203/08/20 01:47 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW227/05/20 03:37 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW20/06/19 09:12 AM
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Romek_Buch/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:13 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/askTRP23/09/18 05:35 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/askTRP29/09/18 02:24 AM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW05/03/19 12:26 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW19/07/19 10:11 AM
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Romek_Buch/r/askTRP13/03/19 09:47 PM
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Outer Game Romek_Buch/r/seduction16/08/20 02:05 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW19/02/19 10:09 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:18 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/seduction11/08/19 02:40 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/seduction29/05/18 04:24 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/askTRP22/09/18 10:44 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW15/03/18 10:05 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/seduction19/05/18 09:26 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/askTRP01/07/19 11:04 AM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW26/10/19 10:31 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/seduction05/05/18 06:35 AM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW30/06/19 09:27 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW27/05/20 03:14 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/askTRP23/12/18 12:32 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/seduction28/04/18 07:08 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/seduction25/08/18 11:05 PM
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Romek_Buch/r/MGTOW23/12/18 11:58 AM
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I resent you for framing me as a child, giving unsolicited advice and for being hostile when given advice yourself. I don't need and did not ask for trite advice about dealing with trauma. You're not telling me something I haven't heard a hundred times before, decades ago, and test driven dozens of times already. Even if I asked in a forum for it, I wouldn't take advice from people not having figured out life themselves in the area I want advice in.
/r/MGTOW204/08/20 03:13 PM
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You are defensive. Don't be. I am giving you advice that prevents you from regret. BTW: I am almost never looking for advice. Most of the time I either make a statement or make a statement disguised as a question and I want to rant. But for advice, real advice, I very carefully pick people or research myself. In this very post I only make one big statement: "Pickup does not contradict MGTOW, because both has the same roots" EDIT: Rereading it, you reframed my post as looking for permission to fa…
/r/MGTOW204/08/20 01:38 PM
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Whatever...
/r/MGTOW204/08/20 01:32 PM
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Right sub.
/r/MGTOW204/08/20 11:02 AM
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Yes it is. End of discussion.
/r/MGTOW204/08/20 10:00 AM
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Right sub.
/r/MGTOW204/08/20 09:28 AM
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They are ideals, not goals. By goals I mean accomplishments for which you have a due date and that you can measure to determine whether you reached them. Which ones of those do you have? With your ideals you risk constant unhappiness because you never get there.
/r/MGTOW204/08/20 08:33 AM
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What are your goals in life?
/r/MGTOW203/08/20 09:24 PM
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"You are a fag if you wear that". "What? You like art you fucking homo?". If you want to do things that do not attract women, just look at what gays do minus the sex part. If you subtract sex, kissing and affection among gay men from their whole behaviour, you have a very good template for what opportunities you have. You can paint. Paint cute pictures. I started doing this and I started to enjoy painting cute pictures. I repelled every single woman with this. But it makes me unbelievably calm. …
/r/MGTOW203/08/20 03:02 PM
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I just went deeper into the rabbit hole than the standard "5 steps you can follow to seduce women". Can you elaborate?
/r/MGTOW203/08/20 02:39 PM
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The only difference this time is that you don't get laid and you think that makes you powerful. No, it makes me powerful to not play by their rules.
/r/MGTOW227/05/20 08:29 PM
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That's just your opinion.
/r/MGTOW227/05/20 08:28 PM
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This is EXACTLY what Going My Own Way is about.
/r/MGTOW227/05/20 04:32 PM
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Nothing gay about it you homo. EDIT: Oh right I get it, because you are only not gay if you do exactly as some cunt wants you to. Yeah right, you are in the wrong place homo.
/r/MGTOW227/05/20 04:30 PM
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So some piece of shit fag on the internet like you stops calling me butt hurt faggot? Like you were to determine what was productive for me, fag.
/r/MGTOW227/05/20 04:29 PM
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Like what? I mean, doing this is kind of a hobby.
/r/MGTOW227/05/20 04:07 PM
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Speaking of which: what did you find out to be the least waste or a very good use of your time. Maybe I can try this out aswell.
/r/MGTOW27/05/20 03:28 PM
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You must be one of those people who pray for people instead of sending money.
/r/MGTOW05/05/20 08:14 PM
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I looked through your book. While having a lot of fluff, it boils down to a less helpful version of Eckhart Tolle's "Living in the Now" plus Exposure Therapy. Problem is, how to expose yourself to the threat? I was assaulted once on the street for instance. Should I go there again, wait for the guy to come again to hit back? How do I get backup? Who can give me good information about this? Problem with books like this is that they are too vague and ultimately just another water drip on a hot sto…
/r/MGTOW29/04/20 12:15 PM
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How do you differentiate between useful but uncomfortable and useless and uncomfortable thoughts?
/r/MGTOW27/04/20 04:41 PM
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My goals are to spot quicker when being taken advantage of and to realize quicker when talking to someone is useless and I either need to leave or fight. To spot the moment when violence is due, to not miss it and to be less psyched out by people with ulterior motives.
/r/MGTOW27/04/20 09:58 AM
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elaborate
/r/MGTOW27/04/20 12:12 AM
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I look at how I behaved and I describe this as a defenseless creature. That is an observation, not an affirmation. It's not set in stone, it is the starting point I did not notice to go far from. Again, an observation, not an affirmation. I read the victim mentality theory. It does not distinguish between observation and affirmation, but it has to. You have to see where you are to go to where you want to go.
/r/MGTOW27/04/20 12:05 AM
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ACT seems to be noticing your thoughts but not following them. Is there more to it?
/r/MGTOW26/04/20 11:48 PM
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I am looking for good solutions.
/r/MGTOW26/04/20 10:40 PM
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Not helping me.
/r/MGTOW26/04/20 10:39 PM
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That is what I have been doing since yesterday.
/r/MGTOW07/03/20 07:43 PM
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The "you get muscle mass, that's why your scale says the same" saying is a myth. You do not gain muscle that fast. No, it is fat that stays.
/r/MGTOW06/03/20 04:04 PM
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Can you elaborate which check ups should be done 40+ precisely?
/r/MGTOW05/03/20 05:06 PM
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According to wikipedia: " Symptoms may include fever, night sweats, and weight loss. " See the other bright side: you lost weight!
/r/MGTOW05/03/20 05:05 PM
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This
/r/MGTOW04/03/20 09:22 PM
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Women and STEM(Science, technology, engineering, and mathematics) industry?
/r/MGTOW21/02/20 11:10 AM
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When I found MGTOW, it gave all that I've experience a name. For me, MGTOW is meeting men who are likely not out to get me or put me down.
/r/MGTOW18/02/20 05:55 PM
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You yourself need to sift through all bs That is the conclusion I have from time to time. I have this conditioning that I don't trust my conclusions, so I look elsewhere for help and get disappointed most of the time.
/r/MGTOW18/02/20 11:25 AM
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getting upvoted too I might add This. They always find a reason to draw joy from other people's suffering. Also in real life I have always wondered how to set someone straight and have people on your side after that. Or: why did this asshole pick me of all people to talk smack. I didn't do anything wrong, did not talk to him, was just there minding my own business. Why me? Then I stopped worrying, and started practising comebacks. Also in other situations like a course. Someone is supposed to be…
/r/MGTOW18/02/20 10:03 AM
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So how do I get good answers if not online? How do I find competent people in a field if not online?
/r/MGTOW18/02/20 09:51 AM
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I am not talking about this sub.
/r/MGTOW18/02/20 09:50 AM
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True. I am not limiting my experience to reddit. Where did you have good experiences with people that really cared?
/r/MGTOW17/02/20 09:13 PM
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It is not about her not being interested, but the contrary. She is interested, but expects me to "make a move". She doesn't say that she wants me to make a move, she is just less resistant. And internally everything freezes. Sometimes, when I overshout my inner voice with "you can do it", I can do it. But if I don't I do what people call "playing it safe".
/r/MGTOW09/11/19 09:53 PM
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How is that helpful?
/r/MGTOW09/11/19 09:36 PM
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I don't have friends here. Yes, language is an issue. But I also asked myself: is it worth having a different language around me all the time(well I do: the internet) just to have more money? But I would definitely feel safer without all the refugees and aggressive turks everywhere.
/r/MGTOW03/11/19 02:09 PM
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Why is this wrong?
/r/MGTOW03/11/19 02:07 PM
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I am not responsible for anything before I was born. I don't have any guilt regarding a past I wasn't part of. Yes, having a gun would be great. But if I got it easily, others would so, too. So it's less likely here to meet people with guns. On the flipside, being allowed to have guns makes us equal. No more "he is stronger that's why I have to give him what he wants". I am as deadly as the next guy. Which creates real respect.
/r/MGTOW03/11/19 02:05 PM
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What does that have to do with my question?
/r/MGTOW02/11/19 10:34 PM
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Taxes are too high if you are not married.
/r/MGTOW02/11/19 10:34 PM
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I am german.
/r/MGTOW02/11/19 07:49 PM
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Not helpful. You are blocked.
/r/MGTOW29/10/19 01:35 AM
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Yes, but why?
/r/MGTOW27/10/19 12:07 PM
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No. On TRP/PUA, people are dismissive assholes with zero empathy. Here I feel understood and am surrounded by people with empathy. People in pickup forums are assholes who are not even useful. They are just assholes spreading condescending nonsense trying to put me down. Has never helped me, will never help me.
/r/MGTOW27/10/19 12:07 PM
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No, I don't. On TRP/PUA, people are dismissive assholes with zero empathy. Here I feel understood and am surrounded by people with empathy. People in pickup forums are assholes who are not even useful. They are just assholes spreading condescending nonsense trying to put me down. Has never helped me, will never help me.
/r/MGTOW27/10/19 12:54 AM
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Because of the "quite" or because of "you are attractive"? So when should I have ejected?
/r/MGTOW26/10/19 10:49 PM
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Exactly
/r/MGTOW23/10/19 09:25 AM
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What does not allowing others to make you unhappy look like in practise?
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 09:35 PM
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I have no idea what that means
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 06:17 PM
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Like to every energy sucking statement?
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 01:15 AM
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Very funny.
/r/MGTOW21/10/19 05:57 PM
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I didn't know that. That is discouraging.
/r/MGTOW21/10/19 09:19 AM
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Sounds good. I hope I remember it next time.
/r/MGTOW20/10/19 09:14 PM
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The Hi -> Rape one is so spot on
/r/MGTOW20/10/19 08:38 PM
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What you are saying is "It's okay, just hit me, as long as you feel better about how you were abused as a child. No, it's okay that I get broken bones". This is stupid and you know it.
/r/MGTOW13/10/19 06:38 PM
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I also remember at least one instance where that helped me. Unfortunately, I keep on forgetting that. Great!
/r/MGTOW13/10/19 12:03 PM
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young grasshopper. I stopped reading after that. Who do you think you are?
/r/MGTOW13/10/19 11:56 AM
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Or I am simply not interesting enough. I rather look on what I can do.
/r/MGTOW13/10/19 11:56 AM
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You must be the author.
/r/MGTOW13/10/19 10:29 AM
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I want to help myself. New problems will occur. Without a general approach, I make myself dependent on others. I don't want to make myself dependent on others and rely on some random strangers advice on how to live my life. Thanks for realizing that sharing details would be doxxing and for not trying to pressure me into it to satisfy your sensational desires.
/r/MGTOW13/10/19 10:27 AM
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I take qualifying seriously. Too seriously. I go mute from one second to the other once I notice a not contributing woman and ask "so what do you do for a living?". And I fiercely compare it to my values, as in "So you are just a student, working in a bar. What was the most exciting thing you did? I see, going to the cinema. You know what, I am not interested in you anymore". Having gone, I think: "To have sex with her, she neither needs to have a great job, nor do anything great. A nice ass is …
/r/MGTOW12/10/19 11:22 PM
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Maybe it leads to something, maybe it doesn’t, but you don’t try to make it go somewhere. That’s her job. The past few "dates" I had the feeling I always had to give, ie talk. And they kept on being suspicious. "I don't trust you enough" shit. After a while I just went mute. She asked, what was up and I said "nothing" and stayed mute. She didn't do anything. According to you, she must not have been into me then. Disappointing. But yes, there is something to your assumption I was trying too hard.…
/r/MGTOW12/10/19 10:40 PM
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I think an issue is that you’re chasing them in the first place. I have to chat her up because she will never do. I try to escalate because she will never do. If that is chasing, then yes, I am.
/r/MGTOW12/10/19 10:29 PM
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Wait what?
/r/MGTOW12/10/19 09:40 PM
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Or (and this may just be the whiskey talking) you could have a good meal, a few drinks, a nice satisfying fap to the deviant porn of your choice and then make peace with who you are rather than trying to be someone else. Once your intoxication wanes off, you will be at square one. Nah, rather not intoxicate yourself and deal with the issues at hand than to delay mental healing by drugging yourself to not feel the pain.
/r/MGTOW12/10/19 09:37 PM
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YADNGAFA. Yet Another Do Not Give A Fuck Article. They are all dumb. Because they think that logic cured this. Set priorities in life blah blah blah. Any article that does not deal with emotions themselves and approaches it with logic, is written by some guy who wants to get views while offering nothing of value in return. "I’ve recorded a 10-minute audio commentary to this article where I talk about my writing process, what I was going through when I wrote this article and how insanely often it…
/r/MGTOW12/10/19 06:34 PM
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Then you know: I feel bad because of event X and Y 20 years ago. Then what?
/r/MGTOW12/10/19 05:53 PM
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I am not religious and I perceive people trying to force religion upon me in moments of weakness as immoral. If you have to say something, say it without religious undertones.
/r/MGTOW12/10/19 03:16 PM
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In general I also think this is going in the right direction. Today is saturday. I could go right now to the city and chat up women. I need something now to fix my fears of going out and to have a mentality that helps me long term that really sinks in for me to not revert back to being at the mercy of women's approval.
/r/MGTOW12/10/19 11:29 AM
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I have no idea what actionable advice is in there.
/r/MGTOW12/10/19 11:16 AM
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The point is, I do not put them on pedestals rationally. They are there because my emotions get the best of me when escalating. I do not think "Oh I am below her" and that is why I tense up. My problem is as I see it now, scarcity. Based on my experiences. Because most women rejected me, I had to lick my wounds and every step took time. It took time to again stabilize myself mentally. Like mystery once said, it's like a computer game that you cannot restart on a saveslot, but have to restart eve…
/r/MGTOW12/10/19 11:13 AM
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I don't see any practical value in this. Therefore the question is, what does that mean in practise. Give actionable advice.
/r/MGTOW12/10/19 11:03 AM
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Give it time to heal. Don't discuss this. Shut up and rest. Read up on brain recovery. It works, no matter how long it happened.
/r/MGTOW12/10/19 10:58 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/MGTOW12/10/19 10:58 AM
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I’m a lifelong football player with a long concussion history Stop playing football now and give your brain time to heal.
/r/MGTOW11/10/19 11:19 PM
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This was a lie, your dog was faster.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 10:49 PM
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Lol I fucked your mum
/r/askTRP01/07/19 06:18 PM
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My account is the best on whole reddit.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 06:17 PM
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I hate women for not sharing true information about how to have sex with them. See also the reply to iseehot.
/r/MGTOW30/06/19 10:54 PM
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Elaborate
/r/MGTOW30/06/19 10:53 PM
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TRP is all about "it's your fault and I won't share with you what to do better, because I don't know better, but I like abusing people under the disguise of helping them."
/r/MGTOW30/06/19 10:52 PM
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Good point. Raises the question, who owes me something for doing it. After all, I follow a set of rules. Yes, they were not created by women. Yet women don't share true information about how to have sex with them either. So, a very good question comes to mind: who does owe me because of following those rules? Who compensates me for practising them?
/r/MGTOW30/06/19 10:51 PM
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You didn't even get my post.
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 03:18 PM
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Share a video showing the difference.
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 08:28 AM
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Self improvement , abundance mentality, learning to appreciate yourself and strengthening your weaknesses with strong principles and tools. What is bad about those?
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 08:28 AM
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So no girl wants me. How is that helping?
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 08:27 AM
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What are major points for you?
/r/MGTOW20/06/19 11:32 AM
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Elaborate
/r/MGTOW20/06/19 11:32 AM
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Crap advice by the way. I agree.
/r/MGTOW20/06/19 10:01 AM
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Unfortunately, what you said is wrong.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:27 AM
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Spot on.
/r/MGTOW05/03/19 12:48 PM
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Violence is a solution; that being said, your next sentence makes no sense.
/r/MGTOW05/03/19 12:47 PM
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What does Jeff Bezos have to do with my or your life?
/r/MGTOW04/03/19 01:52 PM
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Meditation just gives your mind a break to then continue where you left off. The challenge is to find information for finance and my social life that will work for me.
/r/MGTOW04/03/19 01:47 PM
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How do you handle it?
/r/MGTOW04/03/19 10:22 AM
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It gives me satisfaction to make useless women with fake smiles feel worse.
/r/MGTOW03/03/19 08:47 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/MGTOW03/03/19 08:06 PM
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Start working out, work towards a good job.. these are the things they want to chase Bad idea.
/r/MGTOW24/02/19 07:11 AM
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What can I do RIGHT NOW that increases it?
/r/MGTOW23/02/19 07:41 PM
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What triggered you in my response?
/r/askTRP23/02/19 07:40 PM
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In my life exactly one woman approached me with sexual intent.
/r/MGTOW23/02/19 09:27 AM
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He doesn't say how to approach her in the first place.
/r/MGTOW22/02/19 08:12 PM
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Sure. How does he answer my statements in this post?
/r/MGTOW22/02/19 03:11 PM
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FRAME?
/r/MGTOW22/02/19 12:08 PM
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That Leykis 101 guy is bitter and not helpful, because he is not specific at all.
/r/MGTOW22/02/19 12:08 PM
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What comes to my mind is: Why bother? The way she looks at me with that condescending look tells me already how it goes. If I approached her, she would see me as a burden and treat me as such. WHY SHOULD I DO THAT TO MYSELF? Because some faggot psychologist said you needed human companionship?
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:01 PM
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Leads nowhere. Also I and you don't care about her boots, so why bother?
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:26 PM
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Do I need to give you blows with a belt again, son? I don't want to do this.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:36 AM
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Don't worry, son, I am fine. Now be a good boy and follow my advice.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:55 PM
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We both know about the syringes in your cabinet, my son. Don't fool yourself and get help. And drop that HB4 that you think was a HB9 and get a life, son.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:43 PM
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Always remember Vasiliy, working out is not the same as taking steroids. Drop that syringe and do the hard work. And stop masturbating, son.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:43 PM
1

How do you have sex with them while keeping your bait(the girlfriend in the first case)?
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:52 AM
2

Can you explain?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:36 PM
1

Your questions are rhethorical I don't see a need to answer them.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 01:14 PM
1

you yourself give off some kind of vibe of being socially needy. Similar to how one can overinvest in a girl, you really seem too overinvested in getting a response from people socially Yes. If I don't do anything, they do shit to communicate with me. Literally not at all. If I do communicate, they don't give value back. There is something else going on, though. At the time I did this, I was also into radical honesty. I thought, well, we study together, they can aswell know who they are dealing …
/r/askTRP17/01/19 11:29 AM
1

If you can't offer the value people want, why do you expect them to talk to you? Why should they not? After all, they don't offer value either. Being shy, not talkative is not exactly value giving. And me talking to them, initiating contact, making them feel comfortable is. But then, after having invested, why is it that they still don't communicate with me back? I cannot just give and give. Thinking about it, one ugly one being part of one group once greeted me. Meh. I recently thought it would…
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:18 PM
1

How do you avoid "Hey guys it's the fag again who wants to give weight lifting advice, what a tool"? I am not talking about a comeback, I mean coming off as the guy who comes with unsolicited advice and who does not connect like the one who talks to girls with "Hmm, cool outfit, you know the designer who created this ..." instead of "Hmm, cool outfit, what are you like?" You are actually saying something different. You are saying "offer something others consider value". Like you are supposed to …
/r/askTRP16/01/19 05:25 PM
1

You must have never gone to university
/r/askTRP16/01/19 11:48 AM
1

At universities most people do not have social skills.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 10:34 AM
2

That is why it is not helpful.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:43 AM
1

Unlikely.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 01:21 AM
1

Which student organizations did you join and which leadership positions did you take?
/r/askTRP16/01/19 01:20 AM
2

Not helpful.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 01:19 AM
2

I expect a ROI at some point.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 01:16 AM
1

Interesting. By the way, were your parents siblings?
/r/askTRP23/12/18 11:53 PM
1

40000 people die every day, why are you not one of them
/r/askTRP23/12/18 04:38 PM
0

Only bulls and gays have names like yours. I see no horns on you.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 04:03 PM
0

You have a face like a fire alarm. Hit it until it rings.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 04:01 PM
1

Couldn't you do something more useful than talking to me? Like cleaning gutters or shooting yourself?
/r/askTRP23/12/18 04:00 PM
0

Want to know how stupid kids are made? Ask your father!
/r/askTRP23/12/18 03:59 PM
2

That alone wouldn't be bad. My issue is them not taking responsibility but judging all the way it wasn't good enough.
/r/MGTOW02/12/18 01:57 PM
1

I am already the most attractive I can be.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:27 PM
0

The same way as any other woman. I did and it didn't work. Now what?
/r/askTRP26/11/18 06:28 PM
-1

Do you also tend sheep?!
/r/askTRP26/11/18 06:28 PM
1

Great reply. Can you share some techniques for "Learn how to love yourself and find peace with what you have."?
/r/MGTOW22/11/18 06:24 PM
1

My point is, NOW there are no people I can practise with. Nobody is testing me to my knowledge. It is the wounds from the past where I didn't step up. And some of them already died of natural causes. How could I put myself into a position where people will try this again for me to practise?
/r/MGTOW22/11/18 05:51 PM
1

I missed that opportunity hundreds of times. How do you think I could all of a sudden punch someone and get away with it?
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 01:32 AM
1

No shit. What jobs did you do?
/r/MGTOW07/11/18 12:56 AM
2

X is not even sexual, can be whatever.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 12:56 AM
2

Nice.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 05:27 PM
2

I don't like the mindset of her being my enemy.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:04 PM
2

But it's not all fun. If I constantly reminded you of things I didn't like about you, one day you would also snap and say "If you don't like me so much, why don't you just fucking leave me instead of telling me all the time?!"
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:01 PM
0

So go for not normal women
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:00 PM
0

For me, a relationship means trust. I watch enough what I write on the public internet and to not share too much information that can be traced back to me. The same when I am talking to people in public. But it wears me down. So I want to come home but not again have my guard up. Ever heard about the radical honesty movement?
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:13 AM
3

What is a four day soft?
/r/askTRP06/11/18 12:35 AM
6

I thought about this, what if she uses confidential information against me?
/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:50 PM
1

How do you make a living?
/r/MGTOW05/11/18 11:28 PM
1

What did you do to become independent?
/r/MGTOW01/11/18 01:54 AM
1

I know you are coming from a good place, yet you expect too much from therapy. Ultimately what helps most is closely watching your thinking patterns. And fucking accepting what your current state is. If you are angry, then you are angry and it doesn't fucking matter if some cunt doesn't like you then. What hurt me most with pickup and the internet in general is that random people try to tell me how I should and should not feel.
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 11:29 AM
1

Not helpful.
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 11:14 AM
1

I disagree.
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 11:14 AM
1

Dude, if you are so enlightened, why don't you share your path with us?
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 11:10 AM
2

Why do people in india write to fellow indians in english? Why does it cost a fee? Sounds more like a scam letter than anything.
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 08:19 PM
1

Why do people in india write to fellow indians in english? Why does it cost a fee? Sounds more like a scam letter than anything.
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 07:41 PM
1

Why do people in india write to fellow indians in english? Why does it cost a fee? Sounds more like a scam letter than anything.
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 07:40 PM
1

Why do people in india write to fellow indians in english? Why does it cost a fee? Sounds more like a scam letter than anything.
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 07:39 PM
1

Why do people in india write to fellow indians in english? Why does it cost a fee? Sounds more like a scam letter than anything.
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 07:37 PM
1

Why do people in india write to fellow indians in english? Why does it cost a fee? Sounds more like a scam letter than anything.
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 07:37 PM
1

Why do people in india write to fellow indians in english? Why does it cost a fee? Sounds more like a scam letter than anything.
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 07:37 PM
1

Why do people in india write to fellow indians in english? Why does it cost a fee? Sounds more like a scam letter than anything.
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 07:37 PM
1

Inner anger is there, saying it shouldn't is just stupid. I am angry inside and that's fine.
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 07:14 PM
1

What did you do to become independent?
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 07:12 PM
1

What did you do to become independent?
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 07:12 PM
2

What did you do to become independent?
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 07:12 PM
0

I talked myself into it for a while but my emotions did not catch up with it.
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 07:09 PM
2

If only an imaginary friend is left to love you, you are really isolated.
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 07:07 PM
1

That's not a useful term.
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 07:06 PM
1

"You can do something" versus "It is impossible to do something". Coming from the first view creates more opportunities and makes you happier.
/r/MGTOW01/10/18 01:05 PM
1

LFA I watched https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=whuXVq-SURM and I disagree.
/r/MGTOW30/09/18 08:37 PM
1

It went like this. I started with kickboxing, then several self defense classes. But whenever I did sparring, I either got injured badly or my punches did not make anyone care once they hit. So my reference experience is: "you are no threat. When someone hits you, hitting back will make them laugh at best." So I decided to go to the gym instead. Yet I still don't have good reference experiences on top of many bad ones of caving in and getting hit - even before martial arts(that were the reason t…
/r/askTRP29/09/18 10:01 AM
1

And then you see this guy smiling with her in his arms and her looking at you condescendingly. Hard to believe that their life must be shit then.
/r/MGTOW27/09/18 01:10 PM
1

Why do your female friends meet up with you? Also, you do have image and status according to your description. Why don't you get laid for free?
/r/MGTOW27/09/18 11:07 AM
1

How do you contribute to being loved?
/r/MGTOW27/09/18 11:02 AM
1

Where is that?
/r/MGTOW26/09/18 02:41 PM
2

Do you have female friends? How did you know how to accomplish your goals, what helped you most?
/r/MGTOW26/09/18 02:27 PM
2

Let's make this constructive: What does make you less lonely in your experience?
/r/MGTOW26/09/18 12:44 PM
1

How do you contribute to your own happiness? Be detailed.
/r/MGTOW26/09/18 09:53 AM
1

BD are not for the situation at hand. "You see some guy with a girl. You don't know either. You like the girl. Girl gave you no eye contact, maybe she is even making out with the guy." What do you do to get her?
/r/MGTOW25/09/18 06:39 PM
1

How do I find out whether people look at me out of fear or condescension in a weird way?
/r/askTRP24/09/18 08:28 AM
-2

This is not answering the question.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 11:01 PM
-2

I am human who knows the damage gossip does.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 11:01 PM
-7

Why don't you fill that void of yours with actionable details?
/r/askTRP22/09/18 11:11 PM
1

Let's see: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9i3ro1/how_to_pick_up_a_woman_who_has_a_boyfriend/?
/r/MGTOW22/09/18 10:44 PM

I heard her reply to “I don’t like when you say X to me because it makes me feel bad" with "why". Basically she wanted to convince me that I shouldn't feel bad when she said X so she could continue to say X.
/r/seduction26/08/18 03:25 AM

Sorry you feel that way, but it's wrong dude. I am coming here because I want useful aka practical advice. Dumb as you and most in pickup are, you think that the terms "put in effort" and "focus that effort in to yourself." were actionable advice. Then you combine it with more woo-woo and still don't get how useless it is. I learnt that people like you crave for a real life beating. But as we will never meet, I do the closest thing and block you.
/r/seduction14/06/18 06:50 PM
1

What if the women you're approaching are actually seeing through the facade you're putting out? What facade are you talking about?
/r/seduction12/06/18 10:38 AM

Speaking of ridiculous, your whole demeanor is ridiculous. In other threads you admitted that you are bad at daygame and you really think I'd care for your advice?
/r/seduction12/06/18 01:39 AM

Eye contact? When I comment on her shoes, do I look into her eyes never looking away? When I comment about the surrounding, do I look at her eyes and not the surrounding? What is your take on this, being enlightened as you are.
/r/seduction11/06/18 10:34 PM

What a load of useless woo-woo talk
/r/seduction11/06/18 10:31 PM
-2

This is the lowest level comment I have ever seen on here.
/r/seduction11/06/18 10:27 PM

I understand that when a woman says she has a boyfriend to you, she's telling you to fuck off because she isn't interested, as you are low value. I understand that when a woman says she has a boyfriend to me, she likes to challenge me, because she is interested in me, as I am high value and she wants to get more of it.
/r/seduction11/06/18 03:59 PM

All my post says is: "How do I make it efficient without wasting time".
/r/seduction11/06/18 03:25 PM

Why would you not push more after she says she has a boyfriend?
/r/seduction11/06/18 03:24 PM
1

If you face it, even the cutest girl turns into this after some time. So by switching, all you do is delay this outcome. I am always in favour of fixing things than seeking for the perfect situation.
/r/seduction08/06/18 07:08 PM
1

"boyfriend destroyer" don't deal with 1. and 2.. They are all about her mentioning her/a boyfriend in a conversation when he is not there.
/r/seduction03/06/18 12:13 PM
1

He's saying he's tired of talking about wine, puppies, social bullshit, and being screened for "winner" qualities as defined by worthless mainstream media tropes. Those aren't the things that interest him (who the fuck wants to talk about social circles, relationships, friends getting married... or at least, what guy enjoys that?) and he's not a conventional winner, and shouldn't have to be, to just get a little ass. Spot on.
/r/seduction31/05/18 12:13 AM

"But even if those thoughts were true, they aren't going to help you in anyway," And what is helping?
/r/seduction30/05/18 08:13 PM
1

Stare at him, without uttering a word. Hold eye contact till he looks away. He WILL say something along the lines of "oho tough guy is looking at me, are you angry?". Stay silent, keep looking at him, till he looks away. Case closed. No need to come up with a witty reply.
/r/seduction30/05/18 04:22 PM

How old are you, 4?
/r/seduction29/05/18 09:16 PM

If any of that was true, you would have details. You can't offer them, because they are exactly the way I described. I end this pointless talk with you right here.
/r/seduction29/05/18 09:16 PM

You are seeing that I am right on a daily basis, still you can assume to love life. There are no great women. I am on spot here. My statements are entirely true and you see it daily if you go out daily. You can have whatever far-fetched attitude you want, enjoy your fantasies, dude.
/r/seduction29/05/18 06:10 PM

This wasn't what you were talking about. There are awesome men but no awesome women out there. My job is to enjoy my life. With your shitty attitude, I guarantee failure after failure. The only thing you have a great time with is with mental masturbation. It's simply because you are deeply angry and insecure regarding women, so you realize that I am right, but don't admit it to yourself. You have, in fact, a miserable time. Get real.
/r/seduction29/05/18 05:40 PM
-1

Yes
/r/seduction29/05/18 05:36 PM

If you believe anything but that about women, you have no real world experience.
/r/seduction29/05/18 04:57 PM

You find the women, that are on this planet, not your fairy tale people. There are some mind-blowingly awesome men out there, like Elon Musk, but women accomplished nothing to be cared about. Your outlook is dumb so you're naturally going to have disappointment after disappointment hoping to find "the real one". You can talk to women for hours both about yourself and about her and nothing happens afterwards, because she is useless without your actions. They want to find out about you too, just t…
/r/seduction29/05/18 04:57 PM

It is about quick gauge of interest, not vibing and vibing and testing, but as quick as finding out in the first 1 minute of the interaction.
/r/seduction19/05/18 11:33 PM
1

nice one!
/r/seduction02/05/18 09:37 AM
0

I think just concentrate on the universal things This is key. When focussing on so many things, you forget the ones everyone agrees with, eye contact!
/r/seduction30/04/18 10:05 PM
1

You have to be clear in your intentions, but don't have an agenda. Women smell it when you have an agenda.
/r/seduction30/04/18 09:11 PM

Why are you lying to me?
/r/seduction30/04/18 08:19 PM

With all those contradictions, your "Lots of practice, lots of experimentation, lots of failure. " takes more than a lifetime. You wouldn't get laid in a lifetime because you always could pick the wrong one of two options. As you do get laid, why are you lying to me?
/r/seduction30/04/18 08:18 PM
1

When the moment comes when you finally figure out how weak your inner game truly is, seek help, lots of good books out there. Sincerely, good luck.
/r/seduction30/04/18 08:02 PM

In reality, if the actions of others bother me, the actions of others bother me. So I need to deal with it and every way I feel is the right way to do it is the right way and no random internet faggot like you knows better.
/r/seduction29/04/18 11:23 PM
-2

I researched into it and a stern look at the guy while stopping the machine would've been the most congruent. On the other hand, why stop my workout because of a low life. But if I thought that way, it wouldn't bug me now.
/r/seduction29/04/18 10:42 AM

Sounds like you are a dumb wannabe psychologist.
/r/seduction29/04/18 07:12 AM
0

When you are in the gym, everyone on the outside tries to get your attention. If they do, they feel better.
/r/seduction29/04/18 07:11 AM
1

If someone did that to me, I would label it a win. I tried to insult the other guy and he appreciated and respected me for it.
/r/seduction29/04/18 07:09 AM

My inner game is perfect, because I can admit to myself that it bothers me. Your inner game is shitty because you repress anger inside of you because you don't deem it to be cool.
/r/seduction29/04/18 07:07 AM

If I was in that situation, I would ask the one who told you to leave, with a slight amount of sarcasm, if it's okay with her if you ask for her friends number. Sarcasm is always reactive, no matter how slight it is.
/r/seduction28/04/18 11:01 PM
1

I think you're on dangerous ground by not leaving. Now that's ridiculous. Leaving a situation is not necessarily apologizing for your presence. You're saying you've got better things to do. All of a sudden, just the moment the other woman says so out of jealousy, I happen to have so much better things to do? Dude no, just no.
/r/seduction28/04/18 10:56 PM

I do react to this and I don't walk away.
/r/seduction28/04/18 10:56 PM

Thanks for your idea but I don't like it. Here is why. By leaving because they rarely see each other - if it is even true - you do apologize for your presence. I will never see the girl I liked again, who gives a shit about her once in a lifetime boring conversation? Why is it my problem?
/r/seduction28/04/18 09:52 PM
0

True. But is doesn't address the question.
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:56 PM

But if I do?
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:56 PM
3

I already do. But that's another story.
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:55 PM
-1

Cool
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:55 PM
2

"after all you’ve probably laughed at someone who didn’t appreciate it before." Yes, and it made me reconsider it.
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:54 PM

Thanks man, but isn't that the guy that was sexually molested and talked about it recently? Not really a role model for me.
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:27 PM
1

Good reframe.
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:22 PM

Thanks man. It phased me exactly because he was trying to impress the girls at my expense. And I didn't want to support his endeavours with the wrong behaviour.
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:18 PM
-1

No.
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:17 PM

I do.
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:17 PM

This one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ibjvKk93__g Thanks for supporting me, but I was unhappy with my reaction, because it did genuinely phase me.
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:12 PM

You lack experience in life. Gain experience before you give advice. I won't read your reply.
/r/seduction09/04/18 02:59 PM

Did you know that parroting I stopped reading after that.
/r/seduction08/03/18 01:01 PM

You must have an IQ lower than room temperature :) Have you been hurt by life?
/r/seduction08/03/18 10:37 AM

Who has hurt you that hard to assume hatred towards women in my post?
/r/seduction08/03/18 10:06 AM

Are you triggered?
/r/seduction08/03/18 01:21 AM

While both being false, is that all you can say to this, low-life?
/r/seduction08/03/18 12:59 AM
-2

You are depressingly stupid.
/r/seduction08/03/18 12:48 AM

Hey Todd what's up?
/r/seduction04/03/18 07:57 PM
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