1. Come up with something situational in an instant when you see her.
  2. But it must not be lame.
  3. Don't ask questions, make statements.
  4. But don't make statements that make you seem low value
  5. But you can say what you want
  6. Just talk to her.
  7. No, it has to be man to woman.
  8. Be confident.
  9. When you come up with something, she will remember it and if you hook up, she will tell her girlfriends, so your opener, that you have to come up with in an instant, is better be good.
  10. She is shopping, come up with something to say.
  11. Comment on her outfit, not on her looks.
  12. Why did you never tell her that you liked her.
  13. Don't tell her that you like her.
  14. Don't linger around, don't wait.
  15. Oh and don't use direct, that's too much interest, also she has already heard it a million times.
  16. Don't neg her either, negging is wrong, only insecure guys do that.
  17. Oh and by the way, she is not everything, you have a lot to do.
  18. Also be relaxed and cool.
  19. Watch your voice tonality.

How is anyone getting laid with contradictions like that?