So we broke up

GrisBosque · 2019-04-22T10:17:13+00:00

Thats the attitude...

Never dream with a woman.... Always just live in the moment.

They used to have to stay anchored. Now they are drifting like flotsam on the outgoing Tsunami. Just garbage headed out to sea, where once there was something built.

bruiser18 · 2019-04-22T12:39:03+00:00

I don’t care what this sub says, there is nothing wrong with enjoying being with women. As long as you see them for what you are, and don’t live in a fantasy. Nothing wrong with fucking plates, having a girlfriend etc. Just make sure you do things for you and your life, don’t supplicate for her.

PrinceRaj53 · 2019-04-22T12:59:42+00:00

gf of 3 months

Very childish mistake. 3 months is not even enough to make a girl your plate, let alone an STR or LTR. What was so good about her that made her a relationship material within 3 months?

which I know means she probably found some other guy

The bigger possibility is that she might be looking to ride the cock carousel. She maybe just developed an over inflated sense of value and thus sees you as "not enough for me".

You dodged a bullet.

Actually, When women say stuff like :

"It's not you it's me"

"I'm not ready for a relationship"

The words that goes missing here are "With You". This phase stays invisible and its your job to detect them whenever you face a sentence like this.

It's basically a nice way of saying "fuck off dude, my hypergamy is more important than your honest companionship". The itching of finding a better one than you has already been started. You should be grateful because she already gave you the signal to stay away from her.

AcrobaticAge · 2019-04-22T14:19:32+00:00

Ah... all but only one of my ex girlfriends suddenly became distant. When I was young and stupid, I just couldn't understand what happened. Now I know they were already regularly fucking someone else.

Israfelll · 2019-04-22T14:05:52+00:00

"I am not ready for a relationship" is the same as "you are a nice guy but..." and "We need to talk". They all mean she is fukking someone else.

chadsvasc · 2019-04-22T10:14:13+00:00

Bravo yo you for finding your own way

mustNotTrollOnce · 2019-04-22T15:16:24+00:00

Christ dude. She moved in within 3 months?

wtf are you smoking homie?

read up on common law marriage laws :P

careful letting chicks move in, you could get qualified as 'married' by default my bro

InfamousTG · 2019-04-22T16:23:47+00:00

Literally same thing happened to me, about 3 months, got the “it’s not you, it’s me”, and the “I’m not ready for a relationship”. Right after she got with someone else, I still can’t believe she left me for some dumb ass dude, because “I loved her too much”. Most women really are retarded.

CoinSwapTrader · 2019-04-22T11:46:56+00:00

3 months isn't even a relationship...you barely know their last name lol

tdh792 · 2019-04-22T12:38:30+00:00

Another man saved! MGTOW is the only way for men.

Do not answer her in a few years when she reconsiders. Shut her out completely.

White_Mlungu_Capital · 2019-04-22T14:51:54+00:00

As a rule of thumb, once you feel the relationship slipping breakup with her or ask for a break/pause from the relationship. You don't have to wait for her to end it. By the time you feel her interest wanning, you are already 2-4 steps behind. No point in dating a girl for more than 3 months anyways, things start to go down hill around that time.

FoxtrotUniformDelta · 2019-04-22T15:34:51+00:00

Well done.

If in your quiet moments at any point you second guess if it was the right thing to do:
I can tell you without even knowing either of you that it's always the move.

SpaceCowboyBop · 2019-04-22T12:14:47+00:00

Congratulations on keeping out of jail and half your stuff as yours. That's what we all risk losing.

2019-04-22T14:15:13+00:00

I broke up with my ex about a year ago. Only thing I was upset about was that she didn't clean out few her items that I had to chuck myself.

MuleFool42 · 2019-04-22T15:07:08+00:00

Awesome, bro. Focus on yourself, your own needs. Relentlessly pursue your personal and professional goals and never look back.

AndroidMetroid · 2019-04-22T17:06:07+00:00

I hope you ended on a positive note. No use being accused of rape afterwards

Keep all your texts as screenshots where it is clear that the sex was consensual. Just precautions.

chris9407 · 2019-04-22T17:13:30+00:00

Your story sounds similar in some ways to my own, but instead of 3 months, it was 3 years. I don't want to try and make your post about myself but at least we both saw the light, even though it took me way longer to.

Hereddit3 · 2019-04-22T17:42:56+00:00

It’s virtually impossible to keep women happy. My friend once purchased a convertible Benz for his now ex wife. Less than 24 hours after receiving it, she was fighting with him about something trivial.

cleats4u · 2019-04-22T18:16:17+00:00

I like the "onward and upward". Cunts use that line all the time. It's past time we started using it.

rafaelvicuna4 · 2019-04-22T19:17:17+00:00

Reminder that she's never yours, it's just your turn.

carlodelmazo · 2019-04-22T15:24:32+00:00

New city, new Chad, no shopping mall, new Tyrone.

It was done even before started.

St least you not paying child support

sfwaccountfw · 2019-04-22T14:51:44+00:00

If you were totally casual about it she must've been pretty pissed.

sacandbaby · 2019-04-22T18:01:36+00:00

You're welcome. MGTOW all the way. Don't look back.

markentingh · 2019-04-22T18:16:24+00:00

She already cheated on you and "not ready" was an excuse so she wouldn't have to tell you how much of a slut she is.

sukisukifukifuki1tim · 2019-04-22T18:22:14+00:00

U are successfully saved from child support

Benny757 · 2019-04-22T18:48:13+00:00

Atta boy. One step at a time. On and up. It's your path. Design it, and follow it. It's up to you. Isn't that cool?!

gastrocks · 2019-04-22T20:22:28+00:00

"She is not yours, it was just your turn"

Zilo88 · 2019-04-22T21:34:34+00:00

Be prepared to reject her if she comes back later. Some women do that after they've had their fun, or so I hear.

fatboy-slim · 2019-04-22T21:56:43+00:00

https://giphy.com/media/1236TCtX5dsGEo/200.webp

BullTopia · 2019-04-22T23:14:23+00:00

Not ready for a relationship, but already in one.. LMAO

blackierobinsun3 · 2019-04-23T00:22:17+00:00

Did she move from a smaller city/town because girls like to move to big cities and think everyone is looking at them

castlesauvage · 2019-04-22T18:46:00+00:00

I’d dump you over your punctuation. How does someone type that out and say “looks good”

So we broke up

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Title	So we broke up
Author	dandaman910
Upvotes	316
Comments	76
Date	April 22, 2019 10:07 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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