Why is it that...

PrinceRaj53 · 2019-04-24T20:39:00+00:00

Easy there, buddy. You are going too fast unnecessarily.

It’s not about being abusive or, in your language, "treating them like shit". It’s about not catering to them.

Women admire strength. They will shit test you to see how strong you are. If you’re constantly bending over backwards for them, they see it as weakness (pay attention to her actions, not her words).

When you have the capacity to say no, to stand up for yourself and not give in to them, they see it as strength. The “nice guy” who has been giving her validation and attention in the hope of getting some ass is flabbergasted by this. “I do everything she wants! He doesn’t do anything for her! Why does she want him?!” Then comes the accusation of “He treats her like shit!”

In reality, you treat her as if she is a side effect, but not the focus of it. Big, big difference.

It actually depends on how you define treating someone like shit. You could say ignoring her and displaying abundance in front of her (aka abundance mentality with IDGAF attitude) is treating like shit but it’s working in your favor mostly.

That doesn’t mean you should just punch a chick in the face or say "yo bitch, lets fuck", that doesn't happen in real life. It has to be behavior resulting from how much you value yourself and other options that you have.

To expand even further:

The whole alpha fucks/beta bucks actually is women's biological mating strategy. More accurately :

The so called "bad men" fuck women because they just want to. Mgtow men for example. We pump and dump because we want to, not because we love them or something.

Also, the Best father figure and supporter(aka billy beta) raises said offspring because he "loooves" her and her child (thats why women dont love them).

Point being, the fuckboy man and the best father figure/supporter (beta) are not the same person. As I explained in the other comment, us masculine dominant men actually are bad father figures according to women because: we dont commit, we dont give a shit about their happiness and we dont form relationships with them. They know it and thats what turns them on, and they see it as a fun challenge.

who they want to fuck and who they want to marry are not the same person.

You got cheated on at first because you thought loove and all this was true. You "loved", you "cared". That was your mistake. That is why.

You see, Being nice is basically giving your time, attention, and resources for free.

Free and worthless are not synonymous, but close. So giving too much of yourself for free means you don’t value yourself. If you don’t, who will?

Now you get women because you are now confident, formed a good IDGAF attitude, have a good abundance mentality, give no fucks, take what is theirs (sex).

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-04-24T20:49:38+00:00

They need excitement. violence is an easy way for them to get it.

Marque01 · 2019-04-24T20:11:39+00:00

Because they know their actual worth and respect a man that can see it :)

leemming · 2019-04-24T21:59:47+00:00

when you treat woman with indifference (badly) you are signaling you are better then her. and that tickles her hypergamy

All female behavior can be explained by Hypergamy and Briffault's Law. and the notion man are bad and woman are nice can be traced back to the Duluth model (men are perpetrators who are violent because they have been socialized in a patriarchy that condones male violence, and that women are victims who are violent only in self-defense.)

Hypergamy: instinctual desire of humans of the female sex to discard a current mate when the opportunity arises to latch onto a subsequent mate of higher status due to the hindbrain impetus to find a male with the best ability to provide for her OWN offspring (already spawned or yet-to-be spawned) regardless of investments and commitments made to a current mate.

Briffault's Law

“the female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.”

Three corollaries to his law:

- Even though a woman has accrued past benefits from her relationship with a man, this is no guarantee of her continuing the relationship with him.

- If a woman promises a man to continue her relationship with him in the future in exchange for a benefit received from him today, her promise becomes null and void as soon as the benefit is rendered.

- A man’s promise of a future benefit has limited ability to secure a continuing relationship with a woman, and his promise carries weight with her only to the extent that the woman’s wait for the benefit is short and to the extent that she trusts him to keep his promise.

Blackphish88 · 2019-04-24T22:39:49+00:00

I dunno. Im blatantly, deliberately disrespectful to women ala "Its okay honey. No one expects anything of you as a woman anyways." Some of them eat that shit up.

prince0verit · 2019-04-25T00:42:34+00:00

Confidence is what they are attracted to. When you don't need them, it drives them crazy. Never lose that.

bblack27 · 2019-04-24T20:16:23+00:00

I guess that's why there's so much self deprecation from them.

801735 · 2019-04-24T20:19:25+00:00

Time to (re?)visit the TRP theory?

Alpha vs Beta. AF vs BB. Hybristophilia. There's more.

Johan_24 · 2019-04-24T20:20:34+00:00

Because when you don't fall for their manipulation they know there is no way they will get away with cheating on you. They know they will lose you if they do. If you treat them well, they know they will get away with it. Only works until the temptation becomes too strong, though. When it does, she'll cheat and try manipulating you anyways.

MuleFool42 · 2019-04-24T20:48:14+00:00

Because you're demonstrating value. Once you value yourself over all others, people assign that value to you in their own mind and treat you accordingly.

Title	Why is it that...
Author	bblack27
Upvotes	20
Comments	12
Date	April 24, 2019 8:09 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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