Paying for the date?

DannyTTT55 · 2019-06-29T03:17:17+00:00

I pay for the date but never go to dinner, the most would be a drink of coffee

I had girls insist on going to restaurants, one took me to a place her friend owned, I told her I was fasting and didn't even take a bite of any of the food she offered

The look was priceless when she saw the trick wouldn't work

How many guys has she asked out to dinner there before. She is probably single handadly keeping the restaurant alive

TheRealEyesWideOpen · 2019-06-29T04:06:29+00:00

I won’t pay for dates. Coffee at most if she drove far enough.

First date is always a coffee and less than an hour. I then pretend I get an emergency text and leave. Especially when she’s getting to some juicy story. With the promise we will do it again if I’m into her. Builds mystery.

On the 3-4 date (after I’ve fucked her) dinner is 50/50. I’m a bold dick and will tell them upfront it’s Dutch.

At my age (39), even sex with a 7+/10 20 something I can take or leave. When you have no fucks to give - high likelihood they will pay for you.

MadMaxXD123456 · 2019-06-29T04:37:10+00:00

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Steaknkidney45 · 2019-06-29T03:37:42+00:00

I was able to draw a girl in a group bar hop some time ago and she insisted on buying me a drink. (nothing happened.) The next time a few of us were out, I went Even Stevens and bought her one. Wouldn't call it a "date" per se, but I'm all for reciprocity. Haven't spoken/texted with her in months.

Global_MGTOW · 2019-06-29T03:46:03+00:00

I honestly don't remember the last time I paid for a date? I have a gf right now, I told her two things before we started going out.

I never want to get married, EVER!
I'm a broke college student and don't have much money each month after paying bills.

She said it's not a problem and we've been going out since. Basically, she pays for most things, she doesn't seem to mind and seems pretty happy with how things are going. This isn't new to me either, my last ex gf would not only pay to go out but she would also drive an hour or two in traffic, pick me up, take us out, have sex, then drive back to her place. Hell, I've gotten laid before without even going out on a date a couple of times, just by asking a girl out. For reference, I'm at 30 BMI, shorter than average, broke student and I still have no problems getting laid regularly.

I know plenty of guys who are taller than me, make way more money, come from nicer areas and better families and STILL can't get a girls number to save their lives.

Honestly, if you're more straight forward with your situation and your motivations then I find women will be much more open to dating you if you're honest from the beginning.

Neroxist · 2019-06-29T07:13:05+00:00

I stopped going on dates ever since I became MGTOW... Last time I went on a date was with a feminist. Surprisingly, she payed for her own food, and I payed for mine. She even left the tip at the restaurant. And when I wanted to buy her some food when we would hang out, she would reject them because she didn't want me to spend money on her.

Strange, guess she was trying to make the point of "I don't need a man to provide for me".

On 3rd date, we fucked, then we never saw each other ever again.

RealBiggly · 2019-06-29T04:09:58+00:00

I'm not dating but if I were I'd laugh it off casually - "Hey, we're both still in the friendzone, so 50/50."

If she wants to say "This isn't the freindzone, we're on a date" just say well I might not be but you still are" with a smile :)

If she then gets bitchy she's a bitch. Bitches gonna bitch. Find a better one.

CoinSwapTrader · 2019-06-29T04:23:48+00:00

i ALWAYS TELL THEM 50/50 IN ADVANCE!

filters 95 to 99% of women before wasting time talking to them...

Abusing-Green · 2019-06-29T04:33:28+00:00

Don’t ask it shows a lack of confidence

Decide beforehand if you’re paying or splitting, if you’re splitting you gotta flirt your way for her to get it.

So because of that it should be obvious I’m not talking dinners. Girls will leave their wallets at home and guilt you into a free meal

Get drinks or coffee or something that she’d have to bring cash to because she could reasonably do something else after.

For drinks I will usually ask her what she’s drinking, and tell the bar tender loud enough for her to hear “ I’m buying her a(insert what she’s drinking) and she’s gonna buy me a (whatever you’re drinking of roughly equal value) bonus points if you can make it sexual by ordering drinks like red headed slut, blow job, sex on a beach etc

SomeGhostingGuy · 2019-06-29T06:35:03+00:00

The last few dates I had .. the women paid.

Of course I am talking 35+ dating ... where I am the prize, not she ....

FeedMeMore22778534 · 2019-06-29T03:24:33+00:00

I’m interested to see the responses here as well. Usually if I’m resigned to talking to a female I just accept the status quo (which is why I never do it) and just pay for everything so it’s not an issue

[deleted] · 2019-06-29T11:14:54+00:00

Just pull and pay for your shit, if she don’t have money is not your problem.

WesternRevolution0 · 2019-06-29T13:05:58+00:00

I split everything, since I am cheap ;)

DangZagnut · 2019-06-29T16:16:07+00:00

It depends on the quality of sex. last time I had sex (and hence why I keep joking about) I brought some chicken McNuggets for her. Then there was the sex, which was nominal to profile.

Title	Paying for the date?
Author	MadMaxXD123456
Upvotes	6
Comments	32
Date	June 29, 2019 3:10 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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