Hi guys, i am a fellow MGTOW from Brazil and i love to read your stories about how you went MGTOW so today i decided that i wanna share my story as well and tell how it transformed me from an ultra simp to the best version of myself, my english is far from perfect but i hope i can spread the message.

I was for my whole life that type of guy that would look for female validation to fill a void inside myself, i have gone through depression and almost let a relationship destroy my life, i have suffered in the hands of countless females because my simp side was not able to see through their dark nature.

After suffering a lot one day i met the "dream girl", the hottest woman i have ever seen, from a super rich family and she was cool like no other girl i have ever met. It seemed like something clicked between us and after a week we were already invested emotionally.

More weeks in and she starts to show her real self, the old emotional games that you guys know:

Talk to others guys giving an opening to them in order to make me jealous so she can call me abusive, possessive and manipulative.

Make a lot of drama when i wanted to play some games with my friends instead of giving her attetion.

Start random arguments in order to dominate me and to make me think i was doing something wrong.

At the time i was still VERY unaware of the dangerous female nature and i started to crack down inside and suffer again like i did in my previous relationships.

At this point i realized that there was something wrong and remembered about an article i have read years before that talked about woman´s true nature. In that article the guy quoted a name, i dont know why but this name was stuck in my head for years (thank god).

The name was"Nessahan Alita", a brazillian guy who wrote a book in which he exposes the female nature in a way that even the simpest guy would understand. The book is so well written, as i read it i felt like the author knew everything about my life. I completely destroyed those 249 pages in under two days, and i felt amazed by all the free knowledge that i acquired. I learned in two days what i would need decades of suffering to understand or that i would never understand at that level of precision. Whomever is Nessahan Alita, thank you so much, you saved my life and changed me to be a greater person.

So i decided to do something that would change the way i saw life completely, i wanted to go through a relationship with her to suffer a lot and learn the maximum i could about female nature, i realized that was an once in lifetime oportunity, life would never again give me the chance to learn from the best, the most manipulative girl i have ever met, she stands at the top of the ladder so i knew that i was going to have a rough time.

Some more weeks in and she starts to get even more crazy and play all kinds of games with me in hopes to make me suffer and beg for her companion. All kinds of drama, she would argue out of nowhere and try to make me feel guilty and many more. Deep inside i felt like i was learning so much and growing my mental toughness like never before.

Shit started to scale as time went by, she broke up with me many times to test my reactions and tried ghost me for several days to see if i would fall for this trap, little did she know that i was already councious about these games and was investing my time into it to forge an iron heart, free of passional love and all kinds of sentimentalism.

She started to realize that i would not submit to her like all the guys she met before and so she decided to play her final card.

One week out of the blue she completely changed and started to act very submissive and lovely, the new version of me quickly realized what was coming and so i prepared myself, i had to use all my strenght to not fall for this fake love shit.

At that time here in Brazil the recent election for president was happening and that was one the most controversial elections that ever happened in my eyes, so many people broke up relationships and friendships because of it.

One day before the voting day we were discussing about politics and the incoming election and i said that i would vote on Bolsonaro, she instantly went nuts and tried to convince me with many kinds of arguments about how i should not do this and why i should choose to vote for her side.

I remember that day the last thing she said to me was "Think wisely about your decision", i smiled inside and prepared myself.

The next day i voted normally and when i got home i sent her a message from WhatsApp telling her that i got home.

She: Don´t lie to me, who do you voted for?

Me: (A big smile opened in my face) I kept my word, i voted for Bolsonaro.

She: I am literally crying right now, i dont want to be with a guy who votes for someone who is in favor of feminicide, against LGBT, literally a monster. I am sorry but i want nothing more with you, i cant even be your friend.

Me: Alright, i agree with your decision, if you think that i am in favor of these kind of shit you should not be with me, bye.

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I knew she didnt give a shit about LGBT, feminicide and society in general because she is very selfish and very rich, she doesnt care for anyone except herself. She was just using it as the perfect excuse to leave me and make me feel guilty, doubt my own values and chase her desperately trying to get her back.

I focused my next weeks working hard on my undergraduate thesis and im got gonna lie, i was suffering inside with all this situation, i was emotionally invested even though i knew she was just trying to hurt me, it was the beggining of the transitioning from a simp to a red pill guy.

But god damn that was the first time in my life that i felt so happy that i was able to see through the truth, i felt like a new man, completely reborn.

As expected months later she texts me saying the she still loves me so much, but i choosed to vote on Bolsonaro instead of choosing her. She cried, she tried to make me jealous and told me that she fucked X guy and made everything with him, she tried to send me nudes (which i refused) and act submissive in order to crack me down, she tried everything she could to test me again and i kept my cool.

One day she calls me in order to have a friendly talk and in the middle of the conversation i remember she said with a depressed tone of voice "Shit, you have a strong heart, i have never met someone like this", i just laughed.

Months later here i am, MGTOW community made me grow even harder, now i work sometimes 14 hours a day plus work out on the gym pursuing a dream i have, but i gotta say i have never been so happy im my life, mgtow helped me to solve all my internal dillemas about marriage, solitude, need for sex and etc.

I have to say this relationship was the BEST investment i have ever made in my life, it set free a monster inside myself that i didnt even know existed, MGTOW is the truth and the truth set us free.

GYOW boys, you are all awesome, lets chase our dreams!