Dear sub, if anyone can give some advise it would be great; I am a (m27) back in college above average looking and built black guy/personal trainer. I have girls looking at me and talking to me all the time and I’m only interested in talking to the 8-10s but that requires work sometimes which I don’t care to put in. Guess what I’m saying here is that I think I’m a weak alpha because I seek female validation, through conquering for sex. How can I get focused and stop this yearning?