Many of us felt the definition of our successes as men within the society was based on being successful by conforming to the standard of the world. If our means of finding success was not appreciated by society then we are failures or never to be taken seriously. Somehow, because of this, we ignored the raw talent, creativity or gift which was meant to be our purpose. Which was meant to give us PEACE and FULFILLMENT. We allowed the pressure from without to upset the calm within. You love tinkering with cars, building things, creating new opportunities, designing new structures etc. But society determines your 'worth' when you agree to become a slave to the System and shames you when you decide to be free to express your innate ability to be a creator. As a result of this, many men have boxed themselves into a rut and cannot generate newness. Granted, one needs a source of income and Rome was not built in a day, one must start from somewhere. Put some cash aside. Make that sacrifice towards your future. The cash would be used to create the conditions for you to freely and PROFITABLY do your thing. In other words, use what you love to get what you want. This is part of what women fear. A man who has embraced his inner Creator and is really dependent on no one but himself. I don't imagine any of this to be easy. It wasn't for me. But, it's part of what defines a man. The ability to create your own world and to some degree have some say in your destiny. Unlike the old days, we have the internet now and it's easier creating stuff and advertising online, relatively free. Brothers... Your age doesn't matter. It's in your nature as men to be perpetually Resilient and Relevant. Enjoy your Creativity