Theory = Children excel more when raised with fathers.

DangZagnut · 2020-01-07T19:56:32+00:00

That's unfair, single mothers have helped keep prisons' populations full.

consentio · 2020-01-07T19:38:59+00:00

I wouldn't jump on that, not every father can be a good father or being there for you.

Really, there are cases where single fathers just want to get rid of the child or abuse it.

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-01-07T21:49:59+00:00

My theory is children excel the most when being raised in a sane family. First and foremost: children need to feel welcome, they need to being taught limits while in the mean time thriving to push to their own limits. And in an again sane family and society to reach their peak potential they need guidance from both the father and the mother. It's dad's job to teach them new skills and protect them. It's mom's job to comfort and lovingly push them away from the nest. Because it's a mother's instinct to do so. She deeply knows the child will have to fend for his/ her own one day.

To make my words more easy here's an example. Daddy will teach his son/ daughter how to ride the bicycle. Inevitably he or she ("it" for not making this txt wall longer than it is) will fall off and hit the curb. What will the kid do? Run to it's mother crying like the world is going to end now. And a sane mother will take it into her arms, kiss the pain away, give it a candy and back to that bike. Rinse, repeat until that brat can cycle. It's a skill making a human more mobile. Thus enhancing it's survival chances. And that goes with everything.

kes_unum · 2020-01-07T22:25:36+00:00

I was raised by a single father. My mum ditched us when i was 10 (29 now) to ride the cc. Here are my findings....

Pros: My logic and problem solving skills are good. Very good when i compare myself to other normal dudes. If i put my mind to it I can figure it out (my mentality on this is...someone else did it so why cant I?) I talk very clearly to other men. I give detailed instructions and i always peovide solutions to all problems presented to me (pet peeve of mine to always give a resolution). I talk very poorly to women because they dont operate off of logic like we do. So I can talk to men for hours but will pill my hair out with a woman.

Cons: I never developed a social aspect. At. All. I went through college and didnt speak to a single soul. Literally. I made 0 friends. 0 aquaintances. I just went there got my degree and got out. I had terrible social anxiety. My emotions were a mess (this may be on my dad too since he is very blue pilled). I never receives that motherly affection (even as a kid my memories of my mum most vivid are her slapping me accross the face). So naturally i have a very hard time with emotions (or used to until I found the red pill to be more precise).

If i were to choose again id still choose my dad over my mum any day of the week. I gained skills that pushes me in life. With a mother id have gained drama skills. I lack in many aspect because of the shitty upbringing, specifically many soft skills. I can see the benefit of having 2 parents. Jesus Christ do i see the huge benefit that 2 loving parents can have on a child growin up. But if given the option between a dad or the mum....id go with the dad.

ironmanknowsjoe · 2020-01-07T19:38:10+00:00

*Fact FTFY

trematar · 2020-01-07T21:39:57+00:00

I feel like there are things children need from -both- parents. This kid is definitely an outlier, there just isn't any proof to speculate otherwise. He could have inherited incredible genes, born with high IQ to problem solve, etc. However, the only real data we have on this matter is what happens when no father is present in a childs life at all. This would be a great study but I dont think alot of single fathers even exist. Having a deceased mother is unlucky for this kid. Or it could have been a blessing in disguise. Maybe she died before dad got divorce raped. Maybe she would have cheated in dad and he got into a drunken rage, traumatizing this kid to become a criminal, there are just so many factors we can only speculate. I'm glad the kid is doing great, but this guy might get a "girlfriend" who hates the kid and fucks him up in the future, then what will we think? we just don't know lol.

TheCuckTriggerer · 2020-01-08T01:22:45+00:00

Single mothers are the fuel of the fire the Social Engineers are using to burn down Civilization.

Boys unfortunate enough to be raised by a single mother are much more likely to end up in the penal system.

Girls raised by a single mother are much more apt to follow in their mother's footsteps and divorce rape their husband or have children from multiple men like her mom did and continue feeding the system in a vicious cycle.

Not only that, single mothers are a drain on tax dollars with all the entitlement programs they use and many of them are six figures in debt using tax money on worthless degrees they earned whilst riding the Carousel.

In the process of being a CC Rider for 4 years, they rack up a high triple digit body count and lose their ability to pair bond, and thus are much more likely to initiate divorce rape against the poor sap who ends up marrying her, and the vicious cycle begins anew.

At the end of the day, single mother culture, same as Feminism, was designed to destroy the traditional Family Unit and replace it with Government.

throwawayy12eu8 · 2020-01-07T22:12:46+00:00

i think it really depends on the child and their way of growing up. i had a brother growing up with me, and he turned out to be a big druggie. constantly in debt. i'm not saying i did way better than him, but i have a good, stable job. (i've also never tried drugs)

blondierespondy · 2020-01-08T03:23:17+00:00

Haha I was raised by my father and I’m shit

trashretardcunt · 2020-01-08T10:06:46+00:00

No. This theory is incorrect. My father beat the fucking shit out of me when my mother wasn’t around. I had 2 black eyes, my nose turned yellow, my lip was huge, blood covered the walls. If my mother was there he would be in jail right now. I did NOTHING wrong to deserve that, I was 8 years old and my dad thought I was lying about something meaningless, I wasn’t lying I always told the truth. My mother isn’t a good mother but believe me, life would be far worse if I didn’t have 2 parents.

_MCMXCVI_ · 2020-01-08T00:33:12+00:00

If the son was being raised by a single mom, I guarantee you she would take credit for this kids genius by constantly reminding him that if not for her, he wouldn't be here. Or that if she hadn't raised him, he wouldn't be excelling in the first place. I've seen first hand, mothers that actually do that shit and think they're responsible for their child doing well.

some1arguewithme · 2020-01-08T01:12:24+00:00

Historically speaking they did. For most of history men were awarded custody

lazy-and-crazy · 2020-01-08T02:18:57+00:00

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Title	Theory = Children excel more when raised with fathers.
Author	bosslife242
Upvotes	255
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Date	January 7, 2020 7:30 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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