When will I learn?

DefNotAnthony · 2020-07-08T13:21:22+00:00

You're looking for a unicorn, they don't exist outside of my little pony

ThaHentaiConnoisseur · 2020-07-08T14:23:06+00:00

What you're looking for is the ideal woman you've built in your head. It doesn't exist.

simpleguychilling · 2020-07-08T13:24:27+00:00

This still happens to me which is why this sub is so important.

redsfan288 · 2020-07-08T14:58:27+00:00

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itsikkkhanimran · 2020-07-08T14:14:02+00:00

its okay its natural or to say biological you are programmed to be attracted to them,but take your daily dose of MGTOW and try to look at her real side, try to see through their veil of perfectness and try to know their motives

KUL-DANK · 2020-07-08T14:31:36+00:00

it says on the chart you fucked up, you talk like a fag and your shits are retarded -idiocracy

FeedMeMore22778534 · 2020-07-08T14:00:58+00:00

Can’t coach stupid!

Resident_Meaning_603 · 2020-07-08T14:35:37+00:00

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IterantImprovement · 2020-07-08T16:33:13+00:00

I already know the answer but is it possible to find a caring, supportive wholesome woman?

Yes, but there are no guarantees she will stay that way. People are constantly changing based upon events/experiences in their lives. There is no guarantee either of you won't evolve out of the relationship and with everything you know of the way the system works, you also know how you can be exploited by that system.

Or am I just a dumb mother*****.

No, you're just an addict. You're addicted to the feeling of being in love with your 'unicorn'. That's your drug of choice. Just like an alcoholic you're going to have to watch yourself when you see that you're falling into the same behavior patterns that will find you 'falling off the wagon'.

Ultimately, you are going to have to make a choice to either go full monk or find your special balance of risk/reward behaviors to limit your exposure to exploitation. Good Luck.

krakizwak · 2020-07-08T17:45:02+00:00

What you see as a unicorn is actually just a chameleon. Don't be fooled.

ro_gtow · 2020-07-08T15:12:43+00:00

seems like you need mindfulness, your rational mind is not in control any longer

michaelfowler · 2020-07-08T15:03:39+00:00

When will you learn to be less emotional?

michaelfowler · 2020-07-08T15:04:04+00:00

When will you grow a pair?

Lugidori · 2020-07-08T15:59:02+00:00

Meh you live you learn. You either want it or you don't. It's all a phase, just hope you come out the end relatively intact

thealphateam · 2020-07-08T16:10:41+00:00

It takes time to unlearn. I’m not perfect either. Check out some YouTube channels. The better bachelor, coach Greg Adams, and Coach Red Pill to name a few.

redsfan288 · 2020-07-08T16:17:36+00:00

I was out of mgtow sphere the past 2-3 years bc i jumped into a relationship....as well as you we men are attracted to the opposite sex its what drives us...after 34 years old i hear it stops being such an important thing of wants.

Dont beat yourself up to it just work on yourself chase your goals and try to be disciplined in them

RazorRex · 2020-07-08T19:23:16+00:00

I thought my ex was the one.

She went full fucking psycho on me. But it's on me, I knew she had severe mental illness, I knew, I thought I could help her, but that was very stupid of me. Now she's accusing me of being emotionally and mentally abusive ("You kept me from having friends!" Bitch, I've got so many screenshots and texts of you crying about not having friends BEFORE we were dating.)

Amongst other accusations. Some that I feel like I should get a lawyer for. But I've got that covered too.

Let me tell you that when you figure it out, you're gonna get hit by a psycho like I have and it's gonna make you understand that you should just leave them behind.. Before you are forced to dig through texts like I am to cover your ass from her crazy.

Chakra_Devourer · 2020-07-08T21:09:28+00:00

I guess you wanted to learn the hard way. Feel free to dive right in. Chase that unicorn and fall in love.

helgre · 2020-07-08T22:19:04+00:00

I definitely have this problem and I’ve been here for years. I at least am solid enough in my ways that I won’t enter another relationship, and that’s been working wonders for me. I can’t help my innate attraction beyond that. She’s not special. Their true colors always show.

HoldenBalzac · 2020-07-09T18:55:36+00:00

The fire is so pretty, sometimes we forget that it burns.

"There are only four things certain since Social Progress began.
That the Dog returns to his Vomit and the Sow returns to her Mire,
And the burnt Fool's bandaged finger goes wabbling back to the Fire;

And that after this is accomplished, and the brave new world begins
When all men are paid for existing and no man must pay for his sins,
As surely as Water will wet us, as surely as Fire will burn,
The Gods of the Copybook Headings with terror and slaughter return! "

~ Kipling

michaelfowler · 2020-07-08T14:48:28+00:00

I dont get why yall want to fall in love blah blah blah. Just fuck em. Child support is cheaper than marriage and divorce rape.

BlastAHoleInMySoul · 2020-07-08T16:30:02+00:00

Basically, you're a dumb mother******.

Haha!

CeleritySteam · 2020-07-08T19:48:49+00:00

Autoblow AI. Quit caring about sex and you quit caring about females. All that cuckoldery is your cock speaking.

Phantom_Spark · 2020-07-08T21:36:20+00:00

You will NEVER understand until you face the reality of your needs and desires as a man and human being. Until you face them and take action to address them assuming you will never entertain women... you will always fall for a pretty face.

Then you’ll be back here asking to be roasted again.

Nope. Not worth roasting. Good day sir...

heygeekstopbanningpp · 2020-07-09T04:14:08+00:00

THEY DONT EXIST BRO.. PERMANENTLY THROW AWAY YOUR EMOTIONAL FEEL FOR THEM....... THIS AINT THE 50’s take tht emotion and throw it in the fucking trash.

Or... fall for her long term trick & get married have kids with her and waste 8k on a divorce settlement. Then after that throw ur self in the trash shits real man... its happening all over. “ “ bless you bro.. hope we can save you

boltjamison · 2020-07-08T15:23:23+00:00

No roast here. Its a constant struggle for me too.

Its hard to completely undo everything u have learned since birth. Just keep taking ur daily red pills.

And its OK to date still. A lot of us MGTOW men do. Not all are monks. I think the consensus is no marriage and no cohabitation. It is going your own way after all.

Title	When will I learn?
Author	Resident_Meaning_603
Upvotes	31
Comments	40
Date	July 8, 2020 1:16 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/hngv7v/when_will_i_learn/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/when-will-i-learn.705036 https://theredarchive.com/post/705036

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