Life advice

Permaban_Me_Speddit · 2021-07-18T09:32:41+00:00

It's a stage all of us go through - it has to "come out" and pass with time. Find something you like to do, or even never done before, and go do it. Do it not to get rid of RPR, not because of any standard or norm, but because you want to, and no other reason. I've found that, if successful, it hastens the passing.

Aniani05 · 2021-07-18T09:44:13+00:00

I would advise you to go out there and experience life with it’s black pills, the more experience you get and the angrier you get.

After much experience, your brain will adapt to how fucked up life really is but with the redpills you collected, only then you might find true peace.

Most people think the redpill rage is a bad thing, it’s not. If you wanna bend iron, you need to turn up the heat. The rage is nothing but your brain processing and accepting the redpills, the transition has to be painful.

lynxreader · 2021-07-18T12:19:49+00:00

you remind me of myself, only you're better off than i was at your age; you've got a uni degree, so apparently you've already figured out something it took me many more years to.

i'm twice your current age, and if i could go back in time and tell 23-year-old me something, it'd be something like this:

quit worrying about other people, and quit trying to live your life so as to please them. they'll never be pleased, anyway, and you'll hate it yourself, which is the worst part. live your life for you. nobody else will. build your own skills, at something that either pleases you, or seems like it will benefit you down the line. best of all if you can manage both in one, but if not, either pick the first one or do two things each half as well. (there's no shame in that, life really isn't a contest.) find a way of making some money, just enough to pay the bills, don't wear yourself down to the bone in some attempt to become rich because that game is rigged and isn't worth it; work to live, don't live to work. and you'll never find satisfaction in your own life if all you do is directed outward at other people; look within.

you're lucky, in a way; you're 23, and you already know about the red pill. that means you know enough about women that you can take or leave them. don't get hung up on them --- better to leave them than to obsess about them; build your own skills and talents instead, it's more profitable and more fulfilling.

debanked · 2021-07-18T10:15:35+00:00

How have you got redpill rage at your age? You've got a lot of life ahead and any mistakes made in a blue pill world are easy to resolve

I don't know enough about you to offer advice, but without ambition you'll stay stuck in your room and that's not healthy. Time for some positive dreams and less rage

Safe_Dentist · 2021-07-18T12:33:12+00:00

Try to express your rage in form of push-ups or punch the bag. This simple trick works.

show-me-the-numbers · 2021-07-18T14:27:57+00:00

Man, my 20s was fucking miserable for me. Whatever you do, just try to get to your 30s with your self determination intact - no bad business contracts (incl marriage), no criminal record, and no child support.

f3wl · 2021-07-18T15:20:40+00:00

Get a job. Anything borderline white collar. Don’t exclude it because it’s not related to accounting

frankman2100 · 2021-07-18T16:37:58+00:00

Sup bro I'm 26 I too found myself feeling the same way at your age but worse because I left my church, gf, and my family and friends due to Uni been so tough and my parents divorcing.

I stuffed my feelings down throughout college and I spent 3 years processing everything.

Anyways, I'm here to tell you what helped me get through it. Acceptance. Acceptance is the cure to just about everything. If you're raging it's because deep down you want things to be different which is normal.

Having to deprogram ourselves from culture is the toughest thing to do.

Check out Aaron Clarey's who's an economist how he also felt at that age. DM me if you want to chat!

How Aaron recovered

techstural · 2021-07-18T17:00:12+00:00

If you have that kind of anger, I would look for other contributing factors in your life. If you have good parenting, even the current shit dating situation should be endurable.

You need to get a job and get out of your folks house! Assuming your accounting program was rigorous (most are), then you are a smart guy. Computers is what finally saved me. It was never enough for me just to make money. I needed a creative element. Computers gave me that. It was my second career begun in my late 30's. I have 2 degrees but none in computers, interestingly enough, though I did a certificate program over several years. Often, university is a plain bad way to try to get into a career (though it has some other good aspects). Requirements for a degree in my field are greatly diminishing, and the ones that do require it are often not the best employers.

Conclusion8343 · 2021-07-18T22:43:07+00:00

A pass is a pass, the grade means less and less as you go through your career. Stick with the accounting, it pays very nicely once you land a decent job.

Forget going on the dole, you're young, start with shit pay if you have to, you got a lot of time to get yourself setup by the time your 30, which even that is still young.

The red pill rage is fine, learn to harness it, it will stop you from getting fucked over.

Deravin2 · 2021-07-19T17:05:22+00:00

Look into stoicism.

Title	Life advice
Author	the_masterman
Upvotes	13
Comments	12
Date	July 18, 2021 9:27 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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