I know that most of the time, it's absolutely futile to try to "red pill" a young man, maybe between the ages of 12-17. They don't want to listen, they're absolutely consumed by their emotions and hormones, so they rarely listen to what their elders have to say. However: when I was about 13 years old, I really screwed up my life with a girl about the same age as me (no unexpected children or anything, just mental trauma). The connection I had with this girl lasted until I was about 16 years old. Things went from bad to worse, and eventually I fell into a very deep depression that has taken me years to crawl out of. My father did his best to warn me, but his words weren't "up to date" enough to reach me. I figured his advice was outdated, too simple, that he really didn't understand how I felt. In reality, he didn't explain female nature to me. He didn't tell me what my role in this life really was: to live for myself. If I could have changed anything about those 4 years in my life, I wish I could have been exposed to this community, this philosophy, sooner. When I look back at who I was (I'm 19 years old now, just for context), I was in a constant state of panic over this relationship that I held onto at all costs. I was severely depressed, I wasn't actively engaging in my own life, only in this girl. If someone could have just planted the seed that would have blossomed into the mentality that I now carry, just a few years sooner: I could have avoided a lot of issues that I'm lucky to have dodged at this point.

The point is: My upbringing isn't too different than a lot of other young men, and even young teens. There are too many young men being coaxed into this trap, where they believe they must live for other people (women), and when things don't work out the way that the media told them it would (their girlfriend cheats, leaves, etc..), it feels absolutely soul shattering to them. These young men either carry this trauma for the rest of their lives with absolutely no explanation as to why it happened, and no closure. Or they simply end their lives, since they've been told since they were little that their purpose in life is to serve a woman.

Rather than taking the back seat, watching your sons, nephews, younger friends, family members, live under the "blue pill" philosophy, thinking "there's no point in me telling them about female nature, they won't listen". I suggest that you do your best to tell them everything you know about female nature, biological differences between the genders, everything that society doesn't want them to know.. sure, a lot of them won't listen. But I'll tell you this right now: I would have at LEAST considered it, when I was going through "blue pill" phase. And it would've saved me from not only a suicide attempt, but from years of repressed memories (I can't remember a lot of stuff from that time), years of depression, years of poor academic performance in highschool (I couldn't focus on my schoolwork), and years of healing.

Yes, some people only learn things the hard way like I did. But I want to teach those younger than me about this philosophy BECAUSE I don't want them to learn the hard way like I did: spending years of my life confused about what was even happening between me and 50 percent of population of the earth, on a day to day basis...