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Welcome to /r/relationships! where men are always wrong and the circumstances don't matter

FeartheReign87

October 19, 2016
20 upvotes
/r/MensRights
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/5865n7/me_46_m_with_my_wife_48_f_of_10_years_two/
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Title Welcome to /r/relationships! where men are always wrong and the circumstances don't matter
Author

FeartheReign87

Upvotes 20
Comments 18
Date October 19, 2016 4:01 AM UTC
(9 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/588dw6/welcome_to_rrelationships_where_men_are_always/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/welcome-to-rrelationships-where-men-are-always.939502
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Comments

[–]McFeely_Smackup 6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Ever listen to a stay at home parent describe how grueling their day is? It's basically everything a working person has to do, but minus the job part.

Know what's an even harder job than being a stay at home parent? Having a job and still being a parent.

can we please stop pretending it's some great and daunting sacrifice they're making, and just admit they're taking the easy way?

[–]FeartheReign87[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

my wife is stay at home now, she keeps the house clean and has dinner ready most nights. y'know how she does it? she doesn't let the kids run around like animals and do what ever they want. She makes Deadpool blankets and stuffys, her and our daughter braid hair and paint nails, she watches Disney movies and puts the kids down for a two hour nap... meanwhile I'm at work cleaning shit up and dealing with assholes all day and some feminist prick has the gall to say that being a SAHM is the hardest job in the world.

[–]McFeely_Smackup 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I just saw a commercial for a new TV show, American Housewife

It looks just awful. apparently a comedy devoted to SAHM glorification and apologetics...the commercial I saw seemed to be devoted to the mom desperately trying to take a nap but keeps getting interrupted and eventually lies down in the street.

I mean wow, that's pure comedy gold right? Because every SAHM knows how difficult it is to squeeze a nap in during the day. All those lucky people with jobs, it's like nap city out there, right?

[–]WhiteNitro69 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I cannot stand anyone who acts like being a stay at home parent is some daunting task. We have machines that carry out all of the household tasks for us and they can all be done within a couple hours. It's is incomparable to an actual job.

[–]Rockbottom503 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I've already been banned from that sub! I basically told a woman to treat her boyfriend how she would like to be treated herself and was massively downvoted for it which brought on the moderators attention. Shit like this really pisses me off - the woman has sacrificed nothing; she's had a free ride for 7 years and is now a bit bored because her kids are at school all day and she's taking that boredom out on him. Tell her to knock out a couple more kids or get a hobby if she can't return to the job she wants - do what the fool you need to in order to get there; go to uni, volunteer with a pro bono centre or something if it's an experience issue! Privileged little cupcake - He doesn't owe his career success to her and, last I checked, it's the woman's choice to have children; she'll most likely have made the choice to stop working - take responsibility for yourself! Sorry, rant over!

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I was banned also for (politely) telling a girl that she should pay the amount of rent she agreed to pay when she moved in with her BF. She moved in, went through his shit while he was at work and discovered he had no student loans, made much more money than she did, and he saved lots of money each month. I never trolled, just kindly pointed out she could ask him but he had every right to refuse. BANNED BANNED BANNED.

[–]Rockbottom503 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It makes you wonder what goes in people heads! "If the rationale 'they've got more money than me" was any sort of justification for not paying your way through life then nobody would pay for anything..... ever! The bank certainly has more money than me, why should I pay my mortgage??? Etc! It's probably lucky I didn't happen to come across it - i don't think I'd have been quite as polite lol. Women seem to have this view that a relationship is a meal ticket, sorry but fuck that! Nobody owes anyone else a living - I wouldn't move into a girls and expect that they pay for me, why is it acceptable for a woman to do the same..... or in the case of this one, why should the guy be expected to grovel for his wife for having supported her sorry ass for deciding she was quitting her career to raise children! It makes no sense.

[–]FeartheReign87[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

God forbid someone with a penis makes some fucking sense in that feminist dominated subreddit.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I guess I was upset that I was 1000000% polite about it. I explained that she had every right to discuss it, voice her concerns, etc. But BANNED BANNED BANNED was the first response. Is this really what Reddit has become?

[–]FeartheReign87[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

its so hypocritical, she wants to be a independent women but expects her husband to carry her all the way.

[–]Girl-fodder 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She cold have continued her carréer and paid for help the two of them could easily have afforded. Why should he suffer because now because she wanted to do the selfish thing and to stay at home with her children.

Choices.

[–]FeartheReign87[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I know right? a surgeon and a lawyer? I think the could have afforded a live in nanny.

[–]FeartheReign87[S] 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

basically the wife decided to stop being a lawyer and become a SAHM for seven years, has enough, and then blames her husband for her not being able to get the job she wants DESPITE him trying to help her. Majority of the comments are to get counseling and basically telling the husband to thank her for letting him become a surgeon and that he should take time off or become a SAHD so she can persue her career.

[–]bufedad 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You know what, let him become a stay at home dad while she pursues her career, then their lives will collapse, and she can get what she deserves... nothing.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I read that as circumcision lol...

[–]xNOM 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

LOL What were you expecting?

[–]feedmecarrots 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It is a shame that they can't access a less biased forum. She has to be told that they are a team.

[–]Rasalom72 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love the comments that are saying that she was looking after "HIS children"... um... wasn't she sitting at home looking after and parenting HER OWN FUCKING CHILDREN??

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