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"Alienjack": Subject of domestic abuse, victim of attempted murder from wife and lost custody of children with no one to help in his life, screwed by Justice System

SkrillRKnight

January 20, 2018

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Title	"Alienjack": Subject of domestic abuse, victim of attempted murder from wife and lost custody of children with no one to help in his life, screwed by Justice System
Author	SkrillRKnight
Upvotes	202
Comments	13
Date	January 20, 2018 2:59 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/7rqthe/alienjack_subject_of_domestic_abuse_victim_of/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/alienjack-subject-of-domestic-abuse-victim-of.1179983 https://theredarchive.com/post/1179983

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[–]SkrillRKnight[S] 21 points22 points23 points 8 years ago* (13 children) | Copy Link

[–]genisthesage 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]RonTomJohnson 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]SkrillRKnight[S] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]babalu321 points 8 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]SkrillRKnight[S] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]KOMRADE_DIMITRI 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]TheNextMilo -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]RonTomJohnson 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Happened to me too. The question I always get back. Why didn't you get a lawyer? I did. But and however, she drained the joint account that I kept my life savings in. So, she drug it out until the lawyer fees were too much, and I had to drop my representation. After doing so, she had so many programs and free legal aid being offered, she might as well have had a lawyer, all because she asserted with zero evidence I was abusive. Nevermind I have a clean criminal history and she was arrested twice while we were married for DV. Plus, I had six mutual friends of my ex and I come as a witness for me. All saying the same thing, that they never saw me so much as raise my voice, and had seen her become violent over several occasions for almost no reason. Quoting the judge, just because she was abusive in the past, doesn't mean she still is now. When I asked why that didn't apply to me, he smiled and told me not to worry myself thinking about that.

It was hands down the worst thing that has ever happened to me. Three years later, I only yet to see my four year old daughter for six hours a week. Each and every time I drop her back off, she throws a huge fit and tells me she doesn't want to leave and misses me. Breaks my heart. But, there is really nothing I can do at this point. I can ask in another year to have the parenting plan looked at again. At first they didn't let me see my daughter for half a year, just to be on the safe side until evaluations were done... The eval took a long time. Once I had finished, they used the fact I'd been away from my daughter, as reasoning that she was now used to the current schedule, and it would be bad for her to change it too much.

No shit, almost just ate a bullet for breakfast many times when going through it. Still hurts everyday and I miss her like crazy.

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[–]RonTomJohnson 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Mencite 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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