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Another male friendly mental health help group ! " "Men are often the at the root of a lot of the problems of society."

SamaelET

July 16, 2021
127 upvotes
/r/MensRights
https://www.reddit.com/r/ProMaleCollective/comments/oljv2h/another_male_friendly_mental_health_help_group/
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Title Another male friendly mental health help group ! " "Men are often the at the root of a lot of the problems of society."
Author

SamaelET

Upvotes 127
Comments 30
Date July 16, 2021 4:05 PM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/oljvz5/another_male_friendly_mental_health_help_group/
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[–]TracyMorganFreeman 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They are indeed trampled underfoot by a lot of those problems, to such a degree they often go unseen

[–]IronJohnMRA 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I had my reservations, and objections to CAFE in the past. But hosting this kind of misandry on the channel is the last straw. I'm not supporting them anymore.

[–]SamaelET[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

What were your reservations ? From what I saw on their website, this video is the only issue I found.

[–]IronJohnMRA 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Years back they threw a friend of mine, and fellow MRA, under the bus while live on CBC Radio. It was hard to support them after that.

[–]lalala477 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I don’t understand why you would even be willing to give this company the benefit of the doubt. They are EVIL

[–]SamaelET[S] 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

The man interviewed is not part of CAFE.

CAFE's founder is the one who opened Toronto's first shelter for male victims and their children. I also saw one of his interview and he is clearly very critical of feminism and don't buy into the main stream narrative about gender at all.

CAFE's website is clearly not pro feminist and I don't find any other misandrist shit.

[–]lalala477 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They seem to have changed

[–]EMPIREVSREBLES 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Hey why you feeling down? You need help?"

"Yeah :("

"Well fuck you! You're the reason a lot of problems exist! That'll be $50"

[–]Vidar34 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Men are often the at the root of a lot of the problems of society."

Technically true: without men building society there would not be a society for problems to be in. Women-run societies around the globe are notoriously primitive, and have their own problems. Of course, our society has most of those problems solved.

[+]AintThe -21 points-20 points-19 points 5 years ago* (25 children) | Copy Link

They should have worded it differently. Toxic masculinty is the root of most of societies problems.

Statistically agressive men do account for the majority of violent crimes globally against normal men, women and children.

[–]SamaelET[S] 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago* (20 children) | Copy Link

Toxic masculinity doesn't exist.

Men's violence is due to misandry. Men's violence is due to poverty (85% of rough sleepers are male), harsher judicial punishement for men than women for the same crime, female centered mental health services, victim blaming men, mental health issues and mental diabilities which are more frequent in men. Male criminals are also moslty victims of child abuses, mostly by mothers. And the do not receive help since we live in a misandrist society catering for women and hating on men.

Men's mental health issues receive less attention than women's because of misandry and female privileges. Moreover feminists also oppose helping men at every turn. Even for gender neutral child rape laws, feminist oppose it.

Eg

"Agnes has voiced opposition to making rape laws gender neutral, expounding that criminalizing rape of men 'harm women more than men.' Agnes also said 'we [women's groups] opposed it when they made child rape laws gender neutral."

In nonreciprocally violent relationships, women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of the cases. 

https://ajph.aphapublications.org/doi/full/10.2105/AJPH.2005.079020.

Parent committing filicide – Mother – 67% Father – 33%

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2922347/

Women are the majority of intimate partner abusers and child killers. So toxic femininty ?

Let's do a role reversal :

Do you know why women do most of chores ? Toxic femininty.

Do you know why women don't go to police after rape ? Toxic femininty.

Do you know why women have body image issues ? Toxic femininty.

Do you find it helpful ?

Do you also define toxic blackness since most violence and crimes in america is by black people ?.

Now imagine an imaginary world where nobody cared female issues, everybody demonized women and femininty while male issues received every issues and were said to be morally superior. Women are told to shut up, while men just hace to cry to get help. Women don't receive any empathy. And then you think you see someone who will help you, and she says :

"Women commit most violence against children and most domestic abuse. They push people to suicide using female privileges or kill people without fearing any punishement. They think of children as objects and tools to further abuse and use men around them. They fight to make legal for women to rape and abuse men and boys. Women are the roots of society's problem"?

I wonder how likely you would be to engage ? Or how you would feel. This is men's situation.

Now go away you and your misandry. You are not able to see how men are never helped except when they are seen as evil beasts who need to be fixed to protect the faultless, perfect and divine women whose crimes and faults are blamed on men and boys. People helping men with empathy for helping men as the end goal are rare. But you cannot understand it because as a woman you receive empathy and everyone of you faults are blamed on men and society who need "to do better".

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Flavia Agnes is an Indian women's rights lawyer with expertise in marital, divorce and property law. She has written and published numerous articles, some of which have appeared in the journals Subaltern Studies, Economic and Political Weekly, and Manushi. She writes on themes of minorities and the law, gender and law, law in the context of women's movements, and on issues of domestic violence, feminist jurisprudence, and minority rights. Flavia Agnes began working in the field of women in law in the 1980s, which was at the beginning of the second phase of the women's movement, and since 1988, Agnes has been a practicing lawyer at the Mumbai High Court.

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[+]AintThe -8 points-7 points-6 points 5 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

Due to misandry...lmfao.

They do not commit the most domestic abuse. When its mostly women its reactive violence against a male partner which means its in self defence.

Its womens fault that men choose to commit crime...lmfao

What a joke.

[–]SamaelET[S] 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

No the study talk about non reciprocal violence, it takes that into account and found that it is mostly women (safe defense when they are the only ones to hit lol, show how much of a male hater you are) . Your shitty argument, proven by no study, is just a claim by feminists who just want to hate men. The claim was debunked as early as 2007.

[–]AintThe -2 points-1 points0 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm going to find the board of domedic violence statistics, please stand by.

[–]AintThe -2 points-1 points0 points 5 years ago* (14 children) | Copy Link

https://opdv.ny.gov/professionals/abusers/genderandipv.html

97% of one sided dangerous, controlling domestic violence is commited by men against women

96% of reactive self defence violence is caused by women.

Says a hell of a lot.

[–]SamaelET[S] 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

AHAHAHAJAHAHAHAHHAHBA

1) This is no sources, this a webpage

2) These idiots are based on Johnson's life work. A famous male haters, sorry misandrist, sorry feminists.

In Johnson & Leone, 2005 he analyzes data from he National Violence Against Women Survey and assesses the rate of intimate terrorism victimization (real domestic violence) of women. Later, Felson and Outlaw (2007) analyzed the same data to measure the coercive control perpetration of women, the main criteria which, according to Johnson, allows you to know the situational violent perpetrators from intimate terrorists. They found that the rates were similar to men's perpetration. Johnson’s typology was also used by Straus and Gozjolko (2007) on the International Dating Violence Study's data, and found symmetry in intimate terrorits demographic in male and female populations.

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0192513X04270345

https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2007-12642-001

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs10896-013-9560-7

3) As I said my source makes difference between self defense and one way violence it is mostly women.

4)

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs12119-004-1001-6 "This bibliography examines 155 scholarly investigations; 126 empirical studies and 29 reviews and/or analyses, which demonstrate that women are as physically aggressive, or more aggressive than men in their relationships with their spouses or male partners. The aggregate sample size in the reviewed studies exceeds 116,000."

[–]AintThe 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Its the government website you cretin.

[–]SamaelET[S] 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

And ? Who said it cannot be wrong ? So islamist country who say that women are inferior to men are rights because they wrote it ?

Government page are not source, academic papers are sources.

I debunked the academic sources of that webpage.

[–]AintThe 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

OK, by that logic, your articles/sources are wrong.

You didnt debunk shit if your sources are wrong.. because apparently they can just be wrong if I disagree with them, you see.

[–]SamaelET[S] 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You just have to read them lol. But you won't because it will put your ideology in danger.

I did not simply claim it was wrong. I know of Johnson's work, the source used by government, and I showed studies who used his own methodology to debunk his conclusions that DV is male on female crime.

My comment on the fact that it was government's website is simply because, nothing is better than the academic sources.

[–]AintThe 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Let's also not forget that 94% of partner homicides/murders are female victims.

https://ncadv.org/STATISTICS

[–]SamaelET[S] 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

? Doesn't change they are mostly of perpetrators and that if you want to talk about toxicity, better talk about toxic femininty than toxic masculinity. Why changing the subject and not recognize that women are the root of society's issue lol ?

Uncounted risk of suicide caused by DV : Male victims of domestic abuse are four times more likely to kill themselve than female victims. https://www.emerald.com/insight/content/doi/10.5042/jacpr.2010.0141/full/html

Meaning they let their children with the abusers. Moreover this study doesn't count rough sleeping deaths, suicide in prison, use of drugs until death, etc. Issues to which male victims are more likely to have.

[–]AintThe 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

https://m.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/men-killing-women-domesti_n_5927140?ri18n=true

As of 2020 more women are victims of domestic abuse in my country

https://commonslibrary.parliament.uk/domestic-abuse-and-covid-19-a-year-into-the-pandemic/

[–]SamaelET[S] 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Your first link only talk about homicide, women are just more likely to be killed because of body strenght.

The UK's ONS stats, done by feminists, show at least 30% of victims are men. I would expect a British to know is.

You can read at the bottom of their page : https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/bulletins/domesticabuseinenglandandwalesoverview/november2020

That they also use independant orgs' stats. Meaning domestic abuse agencies, shelters, hotlines, etc. Who mostly cater for women and usually exclude men by their name (VAWG). Which is why it is not perfectly reliable.

Moreover ONS stats doesn't make the difference between "domestic terrorism" (one way violence), self defense, two way violence and occasional violence. When you make the difference, you find more male victims.

Reproductibility is key in science. There are more than 150 studies showing more female perpetrators. Very few studies show more male perpetrators. The methodology used is CTS and CTE2S, the tools used almost everywhere. If you cannot criticize the methodology, you can only brush it as "they lie" as any good feminist will do.

To answer to your other comment :

Government doesn't do stats by themselve, they go to academia and others orgs. Financed by government. As you can see even ONS do it.

[–]DragonflyFederal9363 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Man, don't even give them ideas.

[–]bufedad 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Statistically aggressive men are held accountable for their violent crimes.

Watch a video of a woman assaulting an Uber driver, destroying his vehicle, assaulting a police officer and walking away without charges (or even being arrested).

We literally do not know who does more violence, because we don't record when one gender does it.

[–]AintThe 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I've seen it, and shes a c*nt who deserves jail time. She got arrested no?

[–]bufedad 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nope

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