Ok. 3 months ago I learned I was a father to a son. He was put up for adoption when he was born. I was never advised or notified. My ex's mom was an investigative worker for dcf in florida. Her mom had called me in to her office one day and told me she had looked at my fike and said I had been through alot in my life and her daughter would only bring more trouble for me. She saw I never knew my father and told me she could give me his info. I said yes I would like the info.(unknown to me this was the same time my ex and her mom was doing the adoption) A year after he was born and already put up for adoption  I heard a rumor about her having a child put up for adoption. I went to her mom's office and asked about this. Her mom had said the rumors were untrue and her daughter was just spreading these rumors to hurt me. So fast forward 22 years to now. I have raised 4 daughters and last year I go see an uncle who asks if I knew of any other family members in my town that may have had a child given up for adoption.  I said no. But I then put my DNA on the site my uncle found him on 5 years prior. Fast forward another 3 months and the dna email notice came at 545am on a Sunday morning 4 months ago. After I saw the notice I wrote a message to him immediately!  I waited before waking up the family to tell them.  I called my uncle to tell him that it was my son he found. He was a bit sad saying sorry that he did not tell me earlier because no one would have thought I would let one of my children to be adopted. If I would have been told of him I would not have. I have a strong family structure and we do not leave our own behind! My ex and her mom knew I was the father. (Then a year after his adoption gave the same family another child for adoption) My question would be do I have any legal remedies and my bigger concern is what was said about why he was given up for adoption.