The other day, u/F1018 asked us if we had any real-life examples of what submission actually looks like, and the effects that it has on our relationships. Not everyone is a theoretical learner, and I thought this was a great opportunity to share some Field Reports that RPWs have submitted over the years with the rest of our users. This is how real women have applied submissive behavior as strategy for their romantic lives:

“At the end of the day, I don’t wash the dishes because he makes more money than I do. I am not keeping score of whose duties are more important, who works the hardest, and who has done what for whom lately. I wash the dishes because it is one of the things I can do to fill his happiness bar, then he comes by and smacks me on the butt, because that’s one of the things that fills my happiness bar. It’s based on the principle that if you do things to make him happy, he’ll want to do things to make you happy, which in turn makes you want to do things to make him happy, and so on. It is a positive reinforcement cycle that encourages both parties to fill the other’s happiness bars.”