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pulled it off or fucked it up?

JBobXXIV
November 10, 2013
3 upvotes
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Title pulled it off or fucked it up?
Author

JBobXXIV
Upvotes 3
Comments 8
Date November 10, 2013 2:19 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1qa75m/pulled_it_off_or_fucked_it_up/
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shit test or not??

1 upvotes
November 17, 2013
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[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]_whistler 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

/thread

[–]throwwhatthere 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I don't know. I think this was a fine move. There's nothing wrong with priming. Remember, nothing is hotter to a girl than when she wants you more than you want her. It literally drives them crazy. Now when you make your next approach she'll have already done all the building you up for you. It will be an easy swing in for the kill.

Yes, she already had a crush on you, but nothing would freeze up her vag faster than finding out you felt all mushy for her. Sexual tension is infinitely more attractive to women than emotional attachment. By showing that you want her sexually, but can literally walk away from it, you showed her your value. And women fuck value.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

truer words never been spoken

[–]JBobXXIV[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes, she already had a crush on you, but nothing would freeze up her vag faster than finding out you felt all mushy for her.

I was thinking along these lines. Its been a hard part of the pill to swallow that being all mushy and displaying emotional attachment is a turn off for women, but I'm starting to see things in a whole new light.

[–]throwwhatthere 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's a need vs want thing. Women need emotional attachment, but they want alpha males. It's kinda like how I have a minimum amount of sex I need. Only once that's satisfied can I bother with being emotionally available. That's what's so great about the design of the human species. Men and women, in their natural state, are actually completely complementary in their needs and wants. You really couldn't design a better system if you tried...and the feminists did! We all know how well that's working out...

If you want to hold on to a particular woman (which should be a big if), then give her 99% of what she wants, and 1% of what she needs. This translates to being alpha all the time, and never volunteering emotional attachment. The only commitment or emotion she ever gets out of you is given when you judge that she really needs it (like on a gasping for oxygen level) or as a reward for really good behavior.

[–]alt30313 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

She's friends with your sister and your sister told you she had a crush on you. You are set.

Seriously OP, arrange an opportunity to hangout with her and make a move (flirt, push pull, break the touch barrier, isolate and escalate). Seriously ask your sister if she wants to do doubles bowling. Invite a guy to hang out with your sister and hangout with your crush. Since it wouldn't be a date and its just a fun opportunity to hangout you don't have to pay. Or just ask your sister to invite her over to your house on a day you've got friends over. Flirt with her, make a move/ let her know you'd be interested in hanging out alone with just her.

[–]HanSwoleOh 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is like one step away from "I had a wet dream about you". Jesus, just ask her to get coffee and go to a park or something.

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