It's Difficult To Continue Interacting With My Current Group of Friends After Taking The Red Pill...

[deleted] · Thu Jan 16 4:00:46 2014 UTC

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rj88631 · 2014-01-16T03:55:56+00:00

I try and impart my knowledge onto my current "posse" of friends (2 of whom are females).

Well, that's your first problem... you shouldn't be discussing things you learn in TRP as much as you should be living it.

It seems to me that The Red Pill is about attaining the mindset of not giving a shit what others think about you.

Than stop giving a shit what they think, you caring about them disagreeing with you proves that you care.

I'm trying to do my friend (s) a favor by opening their mind, as it seems the honorable thing to do, but if they don't seem to care about hearing what I have to say, I'm not sure how else to proceed.

Stop trying. If they don't want to accept it than they don't, it should be no skin off your back. Who cares what they think? TRP isn't a social movement, you're not bettering the world by preaching about it.

kzwrp · 2014-01-16T03:32:35+00:00

38th Law of Power: Think as you like but behave like others.

rj88631 · 2014-01-16T04:32:02+00:00

Would you go into a church and try to tell the congregation about atheism?

Probably not.

vozkhan · 2014-01-16T07:19:24+00:00

You can't force the Red Pill into peoples throats they need to willingly take it. Expose a bit of RedPill to them, see how they handle it, if they don't like it, stop right there. If they agree with it or are interested than explain a bit more. under no circumstance try to explain redpill to a feminist, we are not MRA's

Watch the matrix on how Morpheus explains how some people are not ready to be unplugged. It is all in the dialogue:

Matrix - The pill Morpheus explains what is the matrix

You need to willingly take the Redpill
Redpillers before finding out about the redpill were already aware something was wrong with what society was telling them, they could feel it but couldn’t explain it
Some people are so desperately hooked onto the system, (in our case feminist indoctrination of man woman relationships, society) that they will do everything to stop you, because what they learnt, bluepill stuff, is their mental foundation and changing that will mean they need to reassess everything

Some other notes I have observed in life:

It is politically incorrect to be Redpill in a world where feminist already won the gender war they started 30 years ago (men won't even aware of this, we just let it happen, but thats another story)
People don't want to be the black sheep, they are resistant to ideas that go against the main stream current
Women don’t like hearing the truth (hypergamy, women don’t love men except for what men offer them, women are their own worst enemies, etc
Women judge men by his status, wealth, thus women will try to debunk RedPill because it makes them look bad and selfish
Betas think by reinforcing feminist/bluepill indoctrination they will score points with the ladies and thus increase sexual encounters,
It is extremely easy to misinterpret REdpillism when somebody wants to, ("omg you hate women, but men women should be equal, blaaahhh, rape rape rape") Someone who wants to learn about Redpill with an open mind wont be so fast to jump into the hamster wheel and make excuses for themselves

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[deleted] · 2014-01-16T10:39:07+00:00

Don't talk about RP to them then. They are your friends. You choose to hang out with them because you enjoy the time spent together. I generally want the best for people, but if my friend wants to buy into a bad ideology and not get laid as a result, that's not my problem. I will only step in if I see a friend about to do something fully retarded, like buying a chick some bigass gift when he doesn't have his own financial situation handled. Or if the girl is trying to isolate him from his friends, I'll step in and verbalize what I see happening. Basically, if he wants to proceed with his dumb decision, he should at least hear a cold, external perspective on the issue.

But if it's just your usual "man none of these girls ever like me..." or "my GFs always leave me / cheat on me and I am sooo sweet to them!" bullshit, then I'm not about to wax poetic about TRP. I think that is the best policy - if you were ever broke and had a rich friend, how obnoxious was it to hear him try to give you advice on how to make money / get your career jumpstarted? It is massively annoying and usually masturbatory. He wants to help you so he can feel like an enlightened selfless guru badass.

This is how it comes across when you tell a beta how to step his life up. If he is smart he would listen, but you have to remember - if he was smart, he wouldn't be in that position in the first place.

[deleted] · 2014-01-16T06:28:10+00:00

You shouldn't talk about RP ideas in public. I learned the hard way. I wasn't say, kicked out of the group, but I did get someone angry (who eventually got me angry.) This led to that and I'm in the position I'm in now, pondering whether or not I'll regret what happened for the rest of my life.

Just keep these ideas to yourself. Being right can't possibly be that important to you that you put friendships in danger.

Invalidity · 2014-01-16T07:05:09+00:00

you cannot threaten an emasculated man he is already at point blank bottom with nothing to lose

This coming from a feminist. Men who side against their own kind get no respect from the side that they end up on. It's like a traitor, the other side appreciates the effort, but they ultimately will never be able to fully trust you.

paidthecost · 2014-01-16T07:18:42+00:00

If you're a recent redpiller, you probably have not demonstrated the kind of success yet which will offer your words credibility.

If you become respected for your skills with the opposite sex, your friends will come to you seeking advice.

SoftHarem · 2014-01-16T10:51:18+00:00

Media is next. Hope you're ready for your taste in movies, music, television, and just about everything else to change drastically. Also, avoid talking about TRP in your day to day interactions, and instead - lead by example.

[deleted] · 2014-01-16T12:20:36+00:00

You're going to learn real fast just how far talking about red pill knowledge is going to get you.

Fuck a few hotties, then your friends start listening.

youreunbelieveable · 2014-01-16T12:19:37+00:00

next your friends! In all seriousness those of us who have taken the red pill are still a minority in most western places. Because of this it is wise to keep your red pill sentiments closely guarded unless you're absolutely certain about the company you are with. I dont see it staying this way for much longer but the moment we red pillers are a fringe group of advanced thinkers

gankitank · 2014-01-16T10:26:15+00:00

Part of taking the red pill also means respecting yourself and being able to speak your mind

if you cannot talk about your beliefs in front of your friends, they are not your friends. they do not accept you for who you are. they accept you because you conform to their standards

either accept isolation or find a group of people irl who will allow you to be yourself

-Awake- · 2014-01-16T23:24:44+00:00

As everyone else here says: show, don't tell.

However, if you have to tell. You're not doing it with enough finesse. While these Red Pill maxims we tell ourselves to keep mindset are wonderful, they're unsympathetic to beta blue pill ears because they're so aggressive and blunt. Your female friends especially will AGREE WITH EVERYTHING if you phrase it less harshly. I recently told my girlfriend how attraction functioned in her and how I used my knowledge of it to spin plates. She nodded in fascination after every sentence I spoke, no guy had ever "gotten it" before. Change your approach to a more tactful one and you'll have more success, especially with convincing the girls

PeronPez · 2014-01-17T18:00:16+00:00

Actions speak louder than words, its something we all have to realise at some point.

I hate to say it but the "compassionate" liberal types, are usually the most nastiest, when they see you having success. They are mostly passive aggressive and weak, believing their weakness is some form of sanctity.

In your phase of becoming a stronger man and on the path of success, you will lose friends, but you will also form of a pride so to speak. I recommend reading the 48 laws of power, or Machiavelli, and find ways to use these weaklings who will hate your success.

Title	It's Difficult To Continue Interacting With My Current Group of Friends After Taking The Red Pill...
Author	The_BitterTruth
Upvotes	15
Comments	23
Date	January 16, 2014 3:17 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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