How do I become the Alpha?

Tarn_Delus · 2014-08-22T10:31:05+00:00

Hey, welcome to the red pill. I understand the massive rift you see between the world you want, and the world you live in. It takes time to digest this, but it is important that you understand that the world will never be like you want it to be. All we can do is become the best man we can be and get most out of the life given to us.

Read the sidebar material carefully, follow the discussions here and you'll come along nicely. You don't have to become the ultra alpha right here and now, take your time.

”By the mile it's a trial; by the yard it is hard; by the inch it's a cinch!” – Zig Ziglar.

Eenjoy · 2014-08-22T15:00:08+00:00

I literally just subbed to you guys. I was a frequenter of MRM and heard of you all through there. I see you guys do not have the best reputation... but fuck it.

Atta boy! The first step is not giving a fuck what other people have to say.

I know there is a difference between what I want and how the world really is. And given the choice between how I wish the world operated and how it actually operates; I need to change some things right fucking now.

And that's step two. You're gonna have to be honest with yourself if you wanna swallow the red pill. In many ways, the men who first come here are weak. There's nothing wrong with that.

The problem is when you're weak and you lie to yourself about not having to change.

I am tired of being the nice guy, but I don't want to be an ass either.

You can be nice. I'm a nice guy, but when I say "no", it's final. That doesn't make me an ass, it makes me assertive.

What things do I need to change? Furthermore, how the hell do I change what I have become?

Its a 3 part process

Fix your body
Fix your mind
Fix your focus

I am 24 and have only had 2 exclusive relationships and only a few hookups a d probably had sex just under or barely above 100 times.

Sex is not your end goal. If you're here thinking "how can I get laid" then you need to leave here and go to r/seduction. You're here to become a better you, independently of anyone else.

I am good looking guy (tho I need to get in shape. Let myself go after leaving the air force) and have a well paying job, but I am fucking tired of being the guy the girl can come cry to and then later tell me she is going back to Dickwad and she just sees me as a friend.

Then stop. Every time you interact with someone (not just women) ask yourself some questions:

Is this person improving me?
Do I have anything to gain from this association?
Do I want to be here?

rubycando · 2014-08-24T18:55:49+00:00

We are a minority. We survived the majority and we are every woman's dream. Alpha is a stage of your life, on your way to become a MAN. Some stay like that forever some evolve, there is no right answer or "the way". Only YOUR WAY.

You lived in a cocoon, you just found out you can fucking fly. It's a process, it takes time, don't go jump of the top of the cliff just yet.

Read the side bar articles. A lot. Than do it again.

When life gives you a choice the correct answer is YOU. The goal is to make your own choices, ALWAYS, and yes the answer is always YOU!

All Women Are Like That. AWALT. Always, no exceptions, it's their biology and you cannot blame them for it. Most have no fucking clue why they do what they do. We do, it's our job, our advantage. Now you will too!

If life gives you lemons, you grab it's balls and TAKE a stake!

Moderation is what separate men from boys. You drink to enjoy not get trashed. You fuck to enjoy not to win points, no score buddy, your life and your desires are no fucking game!

When you fish in the gutter (bar's and clubs) you get used tampons (sluts). There's a lot of clean water buddy, find spots, change them if the catch is not good enough.

Do stuff. Do more stuff. Learn to tango (they will be there) to learn tango. Take guitar lessons (they will be there) to learn to play guitar. Go to a concert ( they will be there) to have fun because you like or wanna see the band. Go to bars and clubs (you don't want what is there, but it's an acceptable substitute) to have fun.

Don't be afraid of trying to be great, be afraid of successfully become nothing.

Well come to the man's world, bro. Now fucking earn it!

cntthnko1 · 2014-09-04T04:36:34+00:00

Side question: is there "the" alpha? Or is it just "alpha," conceptually?

Title	How do I become the Alpha?
Author	Eenjoy
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	August 22, 2014 9:46 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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