Masculine traits: confident, driven, secure, relaxed.

Feminine traits: meek, uncertain, flighty, anxious.

Masculine personality traits are superior in men AND women. Men have never complained about women being too calm, relaxed, having well developed hobbies, not giving a fuck about what others think, etc. Conversely, women complain all the time about men displaying feminine behavioral traits.

Physically speaking, femininity is superior to masculinity ONLY in the context of social settings, and is ultimately dependent on masculinity. In the absence of other people, the physical capabilities of a masculine appearance are superior to a feminine one--a man has a much better chance of survival on a deserted island. And even in the most dystopian social settings (modern america), feminine appearances only beat out masculine ones on average--the most superior people still look masculine.

When a feminine girl gets a masculine man to provide for her, it is masculinity doing the provisioning. When a masculine man provides for himself, it is still masculinity doing the provisioning. The feminine need the masculine to survive, but the masculine do not need the feminine. Whatever advantages femininity may have over masculinity are completely dependent on the preexistence of masculinity, and these advantages are only huge today because we live in an extremely abnormal period of history.

We all know that women prefer to fuck masculine men. But men also prefer to commit to more masculine, or androgynous women. In other words, masculinity, or a lack of femininity, are superior for both men AND women. Feminine men get friendzoned, feminine women get fuckzoned. This instinctively makes sense; the girl that your beta side wants to praise and commit to probably doesn't have a tiny waist, huge ass, and look like a great lay. She probably looks somewhat "refined", or "plain", with a decidedly unsexual looking body (but not fat). She's not "hot", but she is "sorta pretty". And she's probably not too short, either.

Chemically: The main difference between testosterone and estrogen is the phenol group + benzene ring present in estrogens. Androgens have a carbonyl group and no benzene ring. There are loads of chemicals with estrogenic structure, and it's why synthetic estrogens, xenoestrogens, etc. are everywhere, and why estrogen treatments are so cheap, while anabolic steroids are illegal and cost large sums of money.

Estrogens are literally everywhere in nature, androgens are incredibly rare.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phytoestrogens

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phytoandrogens

Look at the length of that scroll bar, lol.

TL;DR: Femininity is an inferior trait, whether you are a man, a woman, or some other species. Any romantic or other setbacks that a male may encounter is not because girls are more powerful, but because of a presence more masculine than himself, which takes his power away. The feminine don't have any real power, never have, and never will.