Here's a biscuit for ya. People aren't obtainable like material things. You can't put more energy into them directly and expect a return.

Girls are like cats. They come to you when they want to come to you and they leave when they want to leave. You are never directly in control of any of it.

The only way to get women to want to come to you is to already be valuable. And most importantly, do as little as possible to let the pussy know how badly you want to stroke her. The moment she knows you're desperate, she will not care about you.

So, be valuable. Valuable men people have everything in abundance. They don't lose their cool (frame) for anything, because they know, with certainty, that life will provide them with what they need very soon, even if this instance doesn't pan out, because that's the way things go for valuable people.

Stop focusing on women, especially sex. my only immediate piece of advice for you is to go out with only the desire to enjoy yourself in each moment NOT for the aim or goal of banging and broad. They can smell it on you and so can every game aware, high value dude.

Enjoy yourself, make your enjoyment your top priority and when she shows interest in you, don't show your hand all at once. Because you're a high value guy, you don't give two shits how hot she is or if she has a nice warm hole between her legs. You give a shit if she is an interesting, respectful and decent girl whom you actually enjoy her presence and company.