Was away for 6-7 months focusing on my career, working outside of town on construction projects. I let most of my plates fall and the rest haven't really spun them for a good while... being physically 12 hours from home, I decided it was a good time to just reset and focus on something else entirely. Lifting, bettering myself, and most of all overcoming some very big challenges in my field of work (promotions, new responsibilities etc.) was the main focus.

Was able to get some lays while away from home but nothing above a 6-7 it was a very isolated area up North.

Back home since 5-6 weeks, I got right back into meeting new girls. Set up a date with one I was interested in meeting. She's 23, I'm 29. I consider her a 7.

She exhibited some AlphaWidow traits, she never admitted what was bothering her but something was really upsetting her emotionally. Probably got dumped recently. I kept closing in on her, had her talking constantly. I was buying more drinks and she started to open up and we had a good time in the end. We walked to my car and she basically "assumed" I was to take her home. So I took her back to my place and within an hour or two it was sex. The next morning we wake up she's feeling like shit again something is upsetting her emotionally, she won't talk about it...

She studies 2 hours away so she's only available on the weekends. I tried to keep the texting to a MINIMUM and in general the texting was superficial, I wasn't able to feel any genuine vibes with her but I was patient and was busy anyway so I stepped back and let her come to me which she did. It still felt like she was purposely delaying responses. Bullshit about "getting off her phone to focus on her studies"... but with time I noticed her always posting shit on social media started to smell like shit to me.

Weeks go by, she comes back to my place but says she would prefer not to have sex if she sleeps over. She still ended up having sex and was almost the one to initiate it. The next morning - Another episode of "I need to work on myself I feel like I need to change so many things about me" blablabla... I giggled it off to the shower dick in hand.... fucking nonsense.

She spends half a day with me hanging out but seems obsessed with her studies and midterms..I let her go for another week.

3rd time she drives down she's now wishywashy, no news of her back in town, distant responses... so I confronted her politely about it, said she was confused and didn't know what she wanted lately and that she needs to work on herself a lot and wants to do it alone.

I sent her a smiley and deleted her off all apps we communicated through the next day. Fuck it I knew at that point that I had probably made a few mistakes that made her lose interest, or there was someone else, maybe she is just a stack of trouble in the first place.

I probably made some beta mistakes, specially freshly getting back into the dating scene, there's nothing wrong with admitting that I was disappointed with the outcome.

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