Hypergamy has been discussed for as long as TRP was a thing. The idea that every female tries to find the best mate possible. This leaves a lot of females alpha widowed and settling for a beta. The thing is, this is a huge generalization. Here's my vision.

Most men and women both have a set of predisposed thinking and judging system, brain wiring etc. The thing is humans also have character and a personality.

Females could be more masculine which makes them able to overpower beta's and love it. This would render them less hypergamous.

Some females could have serious daddy issues (for example: father left early, abusive, drunk etc.) These females are seriously hypergamous. They try to fill out the gap that has been left by their shitty childhood and try to find "high quality traits" or atleast, her take on high quality.

Some females might have had a good childhood and no serious complications aside from the bieber fever. These girls will probably be "Just hypergamous" depending on her character. (a lot of space here)

Do you see where i am going with this? I'm pointing out character traits that females have that contradict hypergamy. It's still there. Hypergamy is a thing hardwired in a females brain. How the female deals with this is entirely up to her character, personality and her surroundings. Some women are nearly not as hypergamous as others leaving them married with a average joe and losing her virginity to him.

As i'm never done learning about these subjects, i would love to hear your feedback on this

Stay strong brothers.