When she just wants fried ice.... 🤣

polishknightusa · 2021-10-01T17:23:34+00:00

I was thinking about this recently. The house analogy is great.

Another analogy is consider is The Roller Coaster: Roller Coasters are fun because they're scary. They are designed to take someone on a literal ride as they are subjected to the perception of danger even as they're on a pre-planned track. And that's perhaps what women want with "fried ice": A special roller coaster ride where they experience all the thrills but ultimately arrive safely where they started.

The problem with this is that men don't exist primarily to please women although many men have bought into that thinking. To continue the analogies, asking men to set up a roller coaster in the modern era is especially hard since to even build a home is an accomplishment. In theory, yes, some men are wealthy or "man" enough to build a home AND roller coaster, but such a man can afford to have standards of his own which he should just as someone who builds a mansion and amusement park is going to charge a LOT of admission.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2021-10-01T16:43:47+00:00

Huh. That didn't work too well. Almost like it's impossible or something. Who'd'a thunk.

Flashy_Glove6208 · 2021-10-02T15:13:02+00:00

If a woman desires tingles she's not a LTR material. She can keep hooking up and have her tingles.

Women like this when the reach 30+ have their pair-bonding damaged. The very fact 30+ and single is a huge red flag. She cannot change hooking up tingles pattern engraved in her brain neural network and out of the blue and become LTR material.

LTRs require constant work, loyalty and commitment to build and keep a strong emotional bond. There are ways to keep the spark in the bedroom but it requires effort. Hooking up by the very fact of meeting new people seems exciting. It's shallow however because it does not bring a deeper emotional connection.

Harry_Teak · 2021-10-02T00:08:15+00:00

The fundamental problem is that Chad becomes Brad the moment he says "I do." While poor Brad becomes "oh, it's you again..." once he says it.

e1337chin · 2021-10-02T04:41:25+00:00

Are you telling me a shrimp fried this ice?

gstrocknroller · 2021-10-02T00:40:35+00:00

On one hand: they want a sexually exciting man, who will tickle their pickle stem. OTOH: they want a stable, upstanding, responsible, reliable man. Both these desires are very real, but they contradict each other. Because the very traits that make a man appealing to one desire, are the exact traits that make him unappealing to the other.

I'm having trouble understanding why a man can't be both of these things? How are they contradictory?

When she just wants fried ice.... 🤣

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The laws of nature are tools of the patriarchy!!!!

Title	When she just wants fried ice.... 🤣
Author	loneliness-inc
Upvotes	69
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Date	October 1, 2021 4:14 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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