Just wanted to clear some things up.

As a feminist, I believe all people should have equal rights. Men aren't usually oppressed in a systemic way, we can see this throughout history as women have had to fight for their rights for pretty much all of history, and men have never had to.

That aside, men can still face oppression. Today, it's the toxically masculine standard to "be a man", express no emotion besides anger, and be the sole breadwinner of the house. As a feminist, I want to deconstruct that, as these toxically masculine standards are detrimental to both men and women. It means that male suicide rates are higher, it causes incel culture, it creates legal inequalities and so many more issues.

You as a man deserve the right to feel emotions and to express those emotions. You deserve to choose typically feminine jobs. You deserve to dress in the way you want to. You deserve the right to look after and care for children if you so choose, ect.

Feminism isn't anti-men. It's supposed to be about equality for everyone. Maybe some women are interpreting feminism in a way that focuses on women, but that doesn't mean you get to demonize feminism itself.

Both men and women should get a choice in which roles they want to have in the family, workplace or society in general.

Thanks for listening, downvote if you want and have a nice day.