I lack confidence around women, my buddies tell me I dont realize just how awesome I am, and i can tell they try to play me up all the time. theyre always introducing me to women, but it just never works out.

Women at work are always finding excuses to come talk to me, and hitting on me, and if they are not interested they want to hook me up with one of their single friends.

But I always decline because I dont know what the hell everyone is talking about. I dont think im funny, or smart, or good looking. But everyone says I am.

this weekend was the final straw, I went into a shop and this older lady says I seen you before, "theres something about you, you just leave a very good impression and your very cute and i dont even think you realize it"

Im done, clearly even strangers see something in me. How can i get some fucking confidence?