Post-text game analysis - no response; low interest from the start or shitty text game?

Thewelshpill · 2016-11-22T16:04:18+00:00

I'll let you know

Should have left it there, if she got back you know she's interested and if not well too bad.

I called your secretary and she said you're available from 2-4

Asperger's is strong.

MattyAnon · 2016-11-22T16:37:58+00:00

Her: I'm looking forward to hearing it!!

The correct answer here is "cool", and say nothing else and don't even try to work out the logistics and don't get attached. don't even expect it to happen. be chill. don't plan further. keep the mystery.

The meeting is either her backtracking slightly, or she genuinely forgot about it in the moment (girls really do do this).

"I'll let you know" is her keeping her options open. That's fine, but the correct response is for you to open up flexibility your side, NOT to try and lock down her side.

Girl says "I'll let you know" you say "Me too, I've got a thing in the morning that might overrun". you DONT say "you will definitely be there" (no matter how funny you phrase it).

But most importantly of all... don't sweat it. One girl, one meeting, it's really nothing. Quit worrying about it. Bitches be cray cray.

Auphor_Phaksache · 2016-11-22T15:53:06+00:00

You were going pretty hard on the "tomorrow 2-4" thing. It's like if you're with a group of people and you say something but don't get a response. Don't repeat the same thing and say it louder. They heard you the first time and chose to ignore it. Take a step back.

Apexk9 · 2016-11-22T18:55:31+00:00

Weak game. She even set up a lay up. You should have just hang timed and showed up at her place from 2 to 4

bankruptedcasino · 2016-11-22T19:28:46+00:00

Get right to the point.

Me: Great seeing you last night

Her: Yeah man it was nice to see you and meet your friends

Me: When are you free to get together this week?

[Optional to include "I want to see you again," depending on how you're reading her interest level.]

Corey Wayne teaches this stuff, and I tend to agree with it: The more you interact with a woman between getting her contact information and taking her on a date, the more and more likely it is that you will talk yourself out of sleeping with her.

Suppose you asked her when she was free to get together and she said this:

Her: I have a meeting tomorrow but I'm not sure what time. I'll let you know

More often than not, the correct response is silence.

Always remember the Ryan Gosling test: If Ryan Gosling asked her when she was free to get together, she wouldn't obfuscate her interest by claiming she had shit to do tomorrow and she'd let him know because she'd (rightly) think that he'd just lose interest and move on to the next girl in his queue.

In other words, when a woman gives me a wishy-washy answer about her availability, I either don't respond or respond with something lighthearted and funny to show that I completely, truly, and honestly don't give a shit. For example, a completely irrelevant emoji or something like this.

Title	Post-text game analysis - no response; low interest from the start or shitty text game?
Author	cantbeatemeatem
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	November 22, 2016 3:47 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5ebd5z/posttext_game_analysis_no_response_low_interest/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/post-text-game-analysis-no-response-low-interest.77974 https://theredarchive.com/post/77974

Comments