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If it’s a one-time thing, agree and amplify is a perfectly acceptable response. If it’s a recurring event, she needs to be told the behavior is unacceptable and will not continue.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 06:11 AM
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You are as attractive to women as you believe yourself to be. If I was willing to out myself, I'd show you my FB feed and you would see a plethora of hot chicks who are with fugly dudes. It's really common here in the small, southern state where I live. I've actually met a few of these guys and here's the trick: They believe they deserve the women they are in relationships with. More than that, they believe they are entitled to date women that are that attractive. You will blow all of your appro…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 08:01 PM
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Get right to the point. Me: Great seeing you last night Her: Yeah man it was nice to see you and meet your friends Me: When are you free to get together this week? [Optional to include "I want to see you again," depending on how you're reading her interest level.] Corey Wayne teaches this stuff, and I tend to agree with it: The more you interact with a woman between getting her contact information and taking her on a date, the more and more likely it is that you will talk yourself out of sleepin…
/r/askTRP22/11/16 07:28 PM
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I long ago decided that marriage and children were not for me. As a consequence, I run a harem most of the time. I tell women when they starting hinting at commitment that (a) I never want to get married, (b) I never want to have children, or (c) I'm dating other women. Most girls will stick around for about 3-6 months before they recognize I'm serious and either push hard for an upgrade in our relationship or leave to go find a man who is willing to commit. So, to answer your question, my motiv…
/r/askTRP22/11/16 07:20 PM
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Good point, but my career requires that I date outgoing women who are not shy and can start a conversation on their own. Hence, the process is an effective filter as well.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 03:22 AM
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Sorry it took me a while to respond. I was on a business trip for the last week and just got back. Responding with "ok" is always good for a flake like that, where the excuse appears to be legitimate. In this instance, I probably would have let it slide but if it happened again, then I would think something was up. When to drop the "flakiness" hammer is always a tough call in early dating. On one hand, I know and am sensitive to the fact that life happens and things come up. I have a demanding c…
/r/askTRP11/02/15 06:10 PM
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It's also a corollary to one of the Sixteen Commandments of Poon. Never say "I love you first." Similarly, never ask for commitment or exclusivity first.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 09:53 PM
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I don't tolerate flakiness at all. It's not something you need to work on if you value your time and you want your women to understand that they are to honor their commitments if they want to spend time with you. That being said, if she flakes within the first few dates, I'm done. OP however made it seem like this plate had been around for a while, which in my world means she hasn't flaked. Once I notice sudden-onset flaking, and we've spent some time together, a simple text message or phone cal…
/r/askTRP28/01/15 06:36 PM
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Step One: Continue doing what you're doing. Continue to treat her like a plate. Do not change your behavior or otherwise indicate you're willing to upgrade your relationship. Step Two: Wait for her to try and extract promises of commitment from you in a passive-aggressive way. This typically manifests itself as increased shit tests that spring up out of nowhere and for no apparent reason whatsoever, a sudden increase in bitchy behavior that has no apparent explanation, and/or flakiness. Step Thr…
/r/askTRP28/01/15 06:23 PM
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Your followup text made her think you were merely trying to get people to go to your show instead of indicating interest in her, individually. This is because you sent her a YouTube link which did not do anything to build on the prior rapport you two established in the waiting room. She is planning on flaking, btw. That's as clear an indication as any. In your defense though she may not think you were actually asking her on a date. The proper response is the same as with all pre-flake texts like…
/r/askTRP13/01/15 08:21 PM
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In the future, do this or something like it: Plate: Your ex said you cheated on her and got a girl pregnant is that true? You: (long, long pause with disappointed look on your face) And you believed her? Plate: Well blah blah said this, another person confirmed that, it seems true i believe it. You: You're lame. [OR] I thought you were different. Then shut up and wait for her to qualify herself again (she will).
/r/askTRP25/12/14 05:37 PM
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Simple: Her: blah, blah, blah You: nice - shit's crazy at work right now call you later
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 05:56 AM
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Leave it to another endorsed contributor to summarize my number one rule about dating: it's a zero-sum game. Someone wins, someone loses.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:52 AM
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Human beings are social creatures. We crave connections with other humans. I doubt women are experiencing that through reading words on a page. Text game worked wonders for five years. I had two entire relationships comprised only of texting back and forth, nary a phone call was had and yet pussies were smashed. But the time has come to dial a number and communicate like a human being, just like we used to do for the last 150 years since the phone was invented.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:42 AM
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I agree with you for the most part, but at my age and station in life it's shit or walk. I don't have the time or the energy to deal with today's garden-variety hot chick whose ego is so inflated she can't see past the selfie she just took. I was standing out from the 90% (nay, 97%) of guys who don't get it and still getting ghosted. I'm noticing a trend, and sharing it with the forum. Let 2015 bear me out. If on 12/31/15 girls are not receptive to picking up the phone and talking to a man or gi…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:40 AM
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I've been in several LTRs with unicorns. Believe me, it's worth it. They're drop-dead gorgeous and live to please their men. Once you've savored the flavor, you'll never go back to the stable girls.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:35 AM
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Too much, too soon. Girls thought you were more invested than they were at that stage of the seduction.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:35 AM
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I've never understood the hatred gay men get on TRP. We're all human; the principles of dominant/submissive roles within a romantic relationship are universal regardless of sexual orientation. In any event, this guy's post is seconded. When you hang out with a yenta of women and their gay best friends, pour a glass of fine Cabernet, sit back, and enjoy being a fly on the wall for the very carnal, cynical, myopic worldview of today's 20somethings who use Instagram likes as sources of self-confide…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 10:38 PM
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As a man who exclusively dates women under the age of 23, I would appreciate any more insights you have into your daughter's worldview (but only if you feel comfortable sharing). You can PM me if you want. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:46 PM
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I don't do Night Game so I don't get her number from the bar. But, yes, usually two days is standard unless I met her on a Thursday-Saturday, then it's Monday at the earliest. Don't want her to think I don't have anything better to do on the weekends than ring her up.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:36 PM
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Collateral damage. I'm not dating a girl who doesn't know how to access her voicemail in the 21st century.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:34 PM
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Congratulations. Notice, though, how I talked about calling girls instead of texting them in 2009 and that I was consistently getting blown out because it was try-hard then, but the whole point of my post is that it's not try-hard now. I also took a long time to come up with it because this is a website for sharing information on how to become better men and better at attracting women. I'm sure it's been useful to at least one guy out there and I'm sure he appreciates that I posted it instead of…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:08 PM
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I've field tested this. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. When it hasn't, I've gotten a version of the "who is this?" text or a call back that went something like, "yeah, so I got a call from this number and I don't know why you're calling me." My phone doubles as a work phone, so my voicemail greeting makes it sound like something serious is going on. Usually that's an indication that my number close was poor. It happens. Part of the Game. But sometimes girls can forget to save your num…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:05 PM
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Use whatever medium is necessary to arrange a face-to-face meet. I'd suggest a text message that says, "hey i had to run when we met but you seemed pretty cool. i'll be at [X] at [Y] we should meet there and get to know each other." The mechanics are individual, but the principles are universal. Don't take the advice literally (I'll NEVER text a girl!). Instead, internalize the principle: I'm a man in demand, I have shit to do, I'm not going to be her dancing monkey. If she wants to see me, she …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 08:24 PM
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I may be ahead of the curve here in the U.S., but I think by 2015 the best RP'ers and Game-practitioners will be ditching electronic mediums for telephone conversations and face-to-face interactions.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 08:10 PM
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Smart phones help knock down night game initially, but their present day over-reliance has actually given night/direct game a boost. OP may have swore it off but the fact is if your aggressive & direct in person, you will see results that you wouldn't realize in the electrosphere of dating. I swore off Night Game because of a personal preference, not because it doesn't work. It works, you just have to be very, very direct, which most newbs and some lotharios aren't comfortable with. My personal …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 08:08 PM
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I agree with you. I was really reluctant to post this because I think I'm way out in front of the trend. I predict by the end of 2015 most prominent Game sites (e.g., CH, RooshV, RoK, Rational Male), will be advocating the pick-up-the-phone-and-call approach because the field is growing hostile to text game IME. I am also beyond my 20s and look good for my age. Your comments about harvesting good returns from face-to-face game is commensurate with my experience.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 08:03 PM
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No. She should be checking her voicemail if you made a strong enough impression and called her from a number she didn't recognize. Though I think a way to anticipate your legitimate concern is to text a short, one sentence phrase once you exchange the digits (e.g., "bankruptedcasino from [X]") so she knows who you are.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 08:00 PM
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He's got Game, but not dread game. Dread game is usually only reserved for girls you've been dating for a while or LTRs and is particularly effective when you feel that your girl is starting to think of jetting off for greener pastures, or if a higher-value male comes into her life and starts trying to woo her away from you. There may be another girl, there may not be. But whether there is or not, his game is working because he's making you think of him constantly to the detriment of the other s…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 09:20 PM
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Single moms are great slumpbusters. Outside of that, I wouldn't touch 'em with a ten foot pole.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 09:16 PM
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Take heed: This is how you properly deflect the "How many girls have you slept with?" question. Notice how the real point of the question is to discern whether you are a player, which then begets the real point of that question -- are you sleeping with anyone else right now. It only took four denials before she gave up and then used her body to try and get his attention. In my experience, playful deflection of these kinds of questions (especially with a plate) will result in the outcome OP exper…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 09:09 PM
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Obviously. My comment doesn't imply you can't spin a plate into a LTR. Just get into a LTR with eyes wide open. Know your enemy. If she's working her ass off for commitment, then I'm going to give it to her. And the longer and harder I make her work before I give her exclusivity, the less likely it is that she's going to be in the category Leykis describes: 50% of girls who have a Plan B should shit with you hit the fan.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 09:12 PM
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Whenever I start spinning a plate into LTR territory, or whenever I feel the crippling angst of oneitis creep into my Game, I dial up some Tom Leykis and immediately return to zen.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 05:28 PM
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Looks matter a lot in online game. It's the only thing women have to judge you by, since most will assume at least a portion of your profile is fake. This post is an excellent primer on using non-verbal flirting techniques to pump up the volume and get a girl attracted to you if you have less-than-stellar looks. As an informal coach to many men who struggle with the same dilemma you have, take it from me: strong, alpha eye contact juxtaposed with a warm and friendly smile will net a lot of posit…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:40 PM
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Waitresses - if they're attractive, they never have to venture far for male attention. Just grab an order of drinks for Table 9 at the bar, and/or serve Table 9 itself on game day. Hairdressers - Addicted to drama. A hair salon is a den of drama. And girls who crave drama ironically crave a lot of dick as well. It's a mystery of the universe. Retail Employees - If she works at Best Buy, she's going to be approached by the guy in car stereo once a week to sit in his souped up hatchback in the par…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 08:53 PM
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since I have a few of my own and I con honestly say I don't have many problems That's because you're not a girl. In my experience, girls mostly get tattoos to demonstrate victory over an emotional trauma. The spectrum of traumas run the gauntlet from a simple breakup to the death of a dear family member. I'm hesitant to date girls who've had lots of emotional traumas. They tend to look for validation in the bedroom instead of within themselves, which is where they should be looking to find the s…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 07:39 PM
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I'm always hesitant to ask a girl outright what her number is because I don't want to answer the same question from her. My number is high and, in my experience, whatever number you give her (true or not) is going to be the wrong answer for many reasons. But I usually like to sniff it out through other means. Some of the warning signs: If she's the kind of girl who says "I dated this one guy. . ." a lot, then her number is high. Girls use the term "dated" to describe a guy that she fucked for a …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 05:31 PM
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If you have to sort stuff out afterwards, don't stick around too long and don't engage in any kind of conversation. I'm guessing you're alluding to the fact that she has stuff at your apartment and you have stuff at hers, etc. In my opinion, the best way to handle this is to send a simple text message that says, "I boxed up all your things and took them to Steve's house. He'll be there from 4-6 tonight so you can pick them up. Take care." And then immediately block her number from your phone. Sh…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 08:42 PM
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Things are getting back on track. I hope you're able to save your marriage. Be sure to post your success story in TwoX when it's all said and done.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 09:43 PM
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Correct. Your dread game is working. When she drops these bombs on you, hold your ground: Her: Those pants would look great if they were just a 1/2" longer. You: (disaffected) Nah, they're fine. Or neg: Her: Those pants would look great if they were just a 1/2" longer. You: (giving her the thumbs up) Great advice, Anna Wintour! Or be aloof and indifferent: Her: Those pants would look great if they were just a 1/2" longer. You: (without skipping a beat) Can we have mashed potatoes for dinner toni…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 08:11 PM
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You don't need a large wardrobe, and you don't need to have any of the latest fashion trends in your closet, but you do need clothes that compliment you and make you look nice. This was the point I was trying to make. A nice shirt with some slacks, nice shoes and a watch will always look good, no matter what the fashion turds are puking out. Yup. A t-shirt, cargo shorts, and flip flops (no matter the weather), however, doesn't cut the mustard.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 08:28 PM
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The content of his post clearly indicated that he wanted to know what TRP thought would make him more attractive to the opposite sex and if that was achievable. If your definition of TRP is to have a fuck 'em all mentality and boldly blaze your own path, be my guest. I won't fuss with you on that. But I don't think it would fit the spirit of the OP's question to tell him, Hey man, this is TRP. Don't do what girls want. Keep wearing Crocs with socks. If a girl can't see you for you behind the fan…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 06:25 PM
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1) Be physically fit or athletic. There is no substitute for going to the gym and obtaining an attractive physique. If you are out of shape, you are signalling to a woman's primordial instincts that you are not adept at protecting her future offspring. You will not be able to chase a meal out on the savanna to bring food to the village, nor will you be able to chase a predator out of the village to bring safety to her children. The only men with pot bellies that women find to be attractive have …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 05:02 PM
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and (if you have them) religious beliefs Reminds me of the story of Tamerlan Tsarnaev's wife.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 07:36 PM
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This list is not all-inclusive, just some of the measuring sticks that I have found were helpful in the past: She willingly submits to your authority as the man / protector / authority figure in the relationship. Suppose you were to come home from work one day and tell her, "I've been offered a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity in London and I want you to come with me." Her answer should be, without hesitation, "I'm in. How do we make this work?" Another example would be if you really, really, real…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 04:12 PM
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You handled it right. If you have existing plans and a girl tries to reschedule or shift the venue, I always flake out. Depending on how much I like the girl I might be the first to initiate rescheduling, but sometimes I don't. Usually if I'm on the fence about her or I think she's up to something waiting on the reschedule is enough to sniff out what she's up to/what she's thinking.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 04:07 PM
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These are all good points. I've seen people pull it off. One of my good friends makes 1/3 of what his wife makes and she adores him. I guess I've just seen too many women leave a seemingly alpha males in the dust to jet off to the Bahamas with Daddy Warbucks to be comfortable with it. Then again, I lived in southern California for about a decade so take that for what you will. I'm not pretending my opinion is popular and I couldn't give a lick about downvotes. My friends thought I was crazy a co…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:43 PM
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My view on this has typically been met with hostility and anger from men and women alike: Immediate dealbreaker. Like it or not, girls use money as a measuring stick for their hypergamy. True, many men can demonstrate high value to the point where money is no option but I wouldn't assume that kind of risk in a marriage. Even worse, imagine the daily conversations of trying to do the things you want to do and having to ask your wife for permission because she makes all the bucks. You're setting y…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:13 PM
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Preach it, man. You've summed up my experience to a T, and I think anyone who reads this post and is dismayed that they aren't finding a unicorn during Night Game while still applying TRP principles should pay attention. This message is really pointed at those guys who think unicorns are in short supply and wonder where they need to go to meet them. Take it from me: I used to fuck hot clubrats with alarming regularity five out of the last six years of my life (ages 25-30, now 31). My last offici…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 04:25 PM
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Movies always show the man chasing after a woman when she's stormed off. But if you've laid down the hammer and she runs off to pout in the corner, stand your fucking ground. You'll see, just like this guy did: they always, always, always come back.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:02 PM
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I prefer to wait for them to ask, but if you say this with an alpha attitude and a smirk and those waffles are golden brown in the morning then sarge on
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 02:44 PM
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If you're getting laid, you should not be asking her to spend the night. If you're not getting laid, your marriage will be a dead bedroom the day your honeymoon ends. The act of sharing a bed with a woman for sleeping purposes (and not for "sleeping" purposes) isn't beta. But asking for it is. Alpha males ejaculate and leave the room to do what they want with the rest of their day, their needs having been fulfilled. Betas sit around and want to cuddle and talk about their feelings. Worse, they u…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 08:08 PM
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Excellent example of a progression that won't raise any alarm bells that what you're doing is deliberate. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:39 PM
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You will have to adjust for frequent shit tests and blowback on the whole "Why am I raising this kid by myself?" thing. That can easily be countered by taking your kid out on daddy dates if your kid is a girl or father-son time if your kid is a boy. For example, just start packing a bag full of stuff for a trip to the beach or to the lake. Your wife will ask what you're doing. Say, "Taking Junior to the beach today." She'll ask if she can come. You say, "Not today, honey. This is father-son time…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 05:03 PM
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DEFCON-1 dread game. Choose from any of the following: Immediately purchase a brand-new, expensive wardrobe in all the latest fashions. Also buy a new expensive cologne that girls love (Johnny V) and wear it every day. Start hanging out after work with "the guys" three to four nights a week. If one of your hangouts is on a weekend night (and it should be), turn your phone off when you go out. Don't respond to any of your wife's text messages or calls when you finally turn your phone back on. All…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 04:32 PM
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I have been in this situation a lot. First, you need to wait for her to bring it up. If you bring it up first, she's going to suspect you have an agenda (which you do), and it will result in an argument as she tries to refute your points one-by-one. I'm guessing from your title she's already brought it up and you've already indicated your (prior) willingness to get married to someone. When she brings it up again, here is what you do. Stop for a while (like thirty seconds or so). Her heart rate w…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 04:30 PM
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This is the only correct advice in this thread. All of it. Do it quickly, or else she's going to keep coming back to the Johnny well to see how you react because she knows it can get a reaction out of you.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 03:35 PM
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I took a pretty hit after that and disappeared for long time, focusing on my self with fitness,career, red pill etc. Good. That's what you're supposed to do: disappear, focus on yourself. I've had many women since then but didn't keep any around. If the two of you live in the same city, or have similar friends, this no doubt got back to her somehow. While were broken up I never reached out to her once , a year or so past and she reached out to me and we met for a casual get together for drinks, …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 07:04 PM
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OP also needs to develop a passion or a hobby. Countless surveys (reliable and not) hold that women find a man to be more sexy when he has a hobby or a pastime that he is passionate about. For example [girl feigns consternation while yapping with her SATC crew at Sunday brunch], "Ugh, I hate it when my boyfriend spends all day Saturday in the shed woodworking. Doesn't he know that we only get two days on the weekends to spend time together and he's out there in the shed with the saw all afternoo…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 04:42 PM
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It's high time to declare a TRP corollary to Rule 34: Any reference to a man's disappointment that his plate, SO, girlfriend, or wife isn't putting out as much as he'd like must include a hamstered counterargument that 1 in 4 women is raped during their lifetime from the yentas in the back row.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 09:52 PM
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I hate that I'm hijacking this dude's thread, but it took me years of text message convos that went nowhere and a pile of flakes to learn this. Don't take it personally when you come across a girl like this, however. It's almost always not personal. They're just entitled. In any event, let the chorus of beta orbiters give her the validation she craves through meaningless text messages that ask her about her day for a month before rousing up the courage to ask her on a date. You don't need to joi…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 07:37 PM
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First, and foremost, why keep a number that I'm never going to use again? I don't take pride in arbitrarily filling my phone book with numbers I have no use for. Second, it's fun to shiv a girl with a "Who is this?" text, particularly if you've stopped texting her because her initial text-message behavior was subpar. This is even more fun if her text messaging in the first few volleys suggested that she likes to play games or was trying to get the upper hand because her ego is huge. No conceded …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 06:36 PM
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This question is all fine and good, but I think it misses the point a tad. If by "success" you mean getting a phone number, then my success rate is 90%+. I don't approach a girl unless I get clear buying signals that she wants me to talk to her, and from that point it's all about maintaining frame and not coming across as a creep to pull the digits. FYI, I only run day game. I stopped doing night game about three years ago and, when I do, it's only for SNLs. If by "success" you mean getting a da…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 02:56 PM
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I'm beginning to think the only thing to do when confronted with a sexless marriage is to start having an affair. That and subtle dread game. Think about it. If this guy was having an affair, he would suddenly stop asking for sex all the time. Her hamster would get curious. Then, when she jetted off for 10 days on a business trip and he went no-contact, the dread would really set in. Even if he wasn't having an affair, she'd still think he was if he acted the same way (not asking for sex, no con…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 03:11 PM
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For me, the ultimate goal of any interaction with a woman is respect. I want her to respect me. At a minimum, I want her to not want to disrespect me. Women who respect you will treat you with dignity, and they won't give you the mountains of shit that women who don't respect you will give you. Sure, some women who respect you won't fuck you, but that's their loss and I couldn't care less about them after they've indicated it's a no-go. Moreover, they're probably basket cases anyway who are more…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 04:39 PM
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Solid. Jumping in to add, "How she deals with conflict." That dovetails with "Disposition on life", but you want to know what kind of woman you're dealing with when the shit hits the fan. That cuts both ways, too. How she deals with conflict in your relationship, as well as how she deals with conflicts in her other relationships (parents, siblings, co-workers, friends, etc.), are all potential areas to discover red flags.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 06:13 PM
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Run compliance game instead. It's a good alternative to negging, and it elicits the same response as a neg (if done correctly): recognition of your higher status. If she complies, you're in the clear. If she doesn't, then she's challenging your higher status and you'll want to counterattack. So, if she doesn't comply, act disaffected and spit a simple, one-word, dismissive line (such as "Later") without the slightest hint of bitterness. That would have the same impact as a neg, without putting h…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 02:45 PM
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This is so scarily accurate it's almost as if you were banging one of my ex-girlfriend's yentas while we were together. My ex was a 1st grade teacher, and all of her friends were teachers. The shittalking among them was unbearable. They were absolutely merciless in their knife-twisting about anyone who wasn't there. I don't know how they could conceivably call themselves a "group." they all know that they work a job that doesn't pay enough for most of them to live in a decent neighborhood Anothe…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 09:56 PM
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I'm 31, and I've had a lot of dating experience in my time. Never married. No kids. Never will get married, and never will have kids. But those are personal choices, not because the vast majority of women out there are garbage (though that's a factor). have any of you found one decent women who wasn't full of shit towards their partner? Yes and no. I haven't found a single woman who wasn't full of shit towards her partner. On the other hand, I've found plenty of women who were decent. Do all lie…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 06:14 PM
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You reject girls everyday. You just don't know you're doing it. When a girl looks at you in public and you look away, you might be rejecting her. When a girl smiles at you and you don't smile back, you're rejecting her. When a girl asks you a personal question in a setting where personal questions are not usually asked (i.e., in the Starbucks line, going through the drive-thru, when signing in at your local tanning salon), and you don't indicate interest, you're rejecting her. Caveat: Questions …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:06 PM
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Is it confirmation bias when what I'm confirming turns out to be at least partially true?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 08:07 PM
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My married, male coworkers say the same things, but that's because I think we all lie at work about how our home lives are going. My married, female coworkers only talk about their kids; I never hear about their husbands, unless it's to complain that they don't do enough around the house. My married friends are much more honest. The ones who don't bullshit me tell me to never get married, that it's a prison, and that they're miserable. But they won't divorce their wives because they don't want t…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 04:04 PM
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I don't want to have kids, but not because I distrust women. I don't want to have kids because I don't want to get married, and I'd prefer to have kids inside a marriage than outside of one. I don't want to get married because, outside of a very few exceptions, I don't know any happily married men. Seriously, every guy I see out with his wife looks like he wants to put a shotgun in his mouth.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 02:12 PM
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No way in hell. The governing standard in all child custody cases is "the best interests of the child", which cannot be stipulated in a prenuptial agreement fixed at a single point in time where what may be in the best interests of the child will change after the agreement is signed. The condition you would put in your contract (which is what prenuptial agreements are) is too conditional, and does not take into account other factors a court analyzes when determining who receives custody. Making …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 02:17 PM
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Lawyer here. Child support is expressly prohibited from being included in prenuptial agreements by statute in all 50 states. The same goes for visitation rights. The only remedy is to change the law. Good luck with that.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 05:42 PM
1

Tell that to some chicks in my contacts list
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 04:37 PM
6

I've had girls compromise every element of their moral code just because I fucked them right and I, too, only have an average dong. Give a girl earth-shattering orgasms and you'll have a love slave for life.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 02:44 PM
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Very good analysis. I take further issue with the article's theme that women only need to throw out the lists to reach Nirvana. Wrong. I postulate that women might have trouble meeting Mr. Right because they're not demonstrating they have the necessary qualities to earn, and keep, an alpha male's attention. Not only should they throw out the lists, but they should work on themselves to become the type of woman an alpha male would want to be with. If I have many different women waiting in a line …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 09:49 PM
3

The "Dave From Hawaii" post from Chateau Heartiste describes a pretty effective way of applying Game to a marriage on the rocks.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 08:45 PM
3

It's almost as if they don't think they're accountable for their actions.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 10:04 PM
5

Like I said, there are exceptions to every rule. If you get the vibe that she's chaste, then game on.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 05:57 PM
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As a general rule, you should be banging a girl by the third date, BUT: "Rules are for the obedience of fools and the guidance of wise men." --Douglas Bader. There are exceptions. I live in the south, where a lot of girls are chaste and don't give it up too easily. I have still maintained an alpha frame, and refrained from chomping down on beta bait, by dating a girl for about a month (with twice-weekly dates) before banging her. Had I followed the conventional wisdom in the manosphere, I'd have…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 05:31 PM
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That pinged my troll radar.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 08:59 PM
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Laugh louder and more boisterous than usual, like someone just said something about you that was patently untrue, and say: "Wait 'til you get to know me."
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 08:56 PM
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I've done this several times. Aside from the fact that her mom constantly texts her to ask when she's coming home, the fact that she stays the night at your house is a good thing. Whether she's lying to her mom or whether her mom allows overnights is immaterial. The fact that she's willing to expose herself to parental disappointment (either through lying or premarital sex) to share a bed with you for a night is a good sign. She's likely lying to her mom if she feels guilty, FYI. What else to wa…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 09:59 PM
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Three months is usually the time when a plate will start sniffing around for an upgrade. You're going to lose some plates at this point, unless you're willing to commit. Part of the game.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 08:34 PM
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I wonder if these studies controlled for prostitutes/escorts.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 07:23 PM
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Yup almost frustratingly so. But at least in this forum you'll have the benefit of people who've field tested these things for what works. And you'll know good advice from bad advice because of upvotes (non existent in other seduction and PUA forums outside of reddit). I know how to do this stuff because of a sorry amount of trial and error. I punted the "are you a player" shit test many times before I came up with a general response that gives me the highest likelihood of success.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 12:53 AM
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Precisely. Ambiguity is key here. Notice how I told the good girl that, yes, I am a player but then ended the sentence with a suggestion that I'm not. Conversely, I told the carousel-rider that I'm not a player but ended with a challenge to her authority. The devil is in the details. Good girls with low partner counts typically date betas and for long stretches of time. When they get bored with them, they dump the beta. An alpha will intrigue and captivate a good girl, but they'll still want a m…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 10:46 PM
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Yup, all on point. Be careful when a girl calls you a player. Yes, generally speaking, it means that you're executing Game perfectly. Depending on the girl, though, that could be a bad thing. Some girls have axes to grind because they've been burned in the past by players, or they've seen too many of their friends burned in the past by players. These girls will outright reject you if you give off the player vibe, or will actively cock block you if you're pursuing one of her friends. When a girl …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 10:21 PM
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Anecdotal, but every girl I've ever dated who had a tattoo on one (or both) of her feet was a complete psychopath. It's the siren song of the crazy.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 10:10 PM
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All these suggestions, but not a single congratulations for our man /u/kearvelli here who flipped the script on his relationship. My girlfriend texted this to me this morning after I've started adopting some RP techniques the last couple of weeks. TRP: Relationship tested, player approved. We've already fucked three times this week, the first time that's happened in a long, long time. You've reversed the course of your relationship, and regained Hand. Women know they can get sex from you wheneve…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 12:03 AM
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The last single mom I dated so thoroughly ruined her ex-husband that he made a fake suicide display to get her attention. Meaning, he wouldn't answer his calls all day when my plate called him endlessly to pick up the boys. So, she finally drives over to his ramshackle apartment to see wtf is up. He pretended to be passed out, with an empty bottle of Jack Daniels on the nightstand and a loaded shotgun by the bed. Shotgun shells were spread out all over the floor. She knew he was faking it. She g…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 10:37 PM
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I like your style.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 10:11 PM
1

Drastically, I'd imagine. It only works for Americans. Girls from other countries are exponentially less cunty than American women.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 03:12 PM
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Don't sweat it. I've been flaked on more times than I can count. It's not the flake that matters. It's how you deal with it. Preserve your confidence and pride.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 03:10 PM
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In my freshman year of college, a girl friend told me, "There's always time for boys." The amount of time she spends dragging her feet to see you is in inverse proportion to her interest level.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 10:33 PM
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HA! Just noticed this when posting on another thread. We were still dating at this point. I think I subscribed to TRP in March? Who knows. In other news, I did run into her at a bar a couple months ago. She put on 20 lbs. I lost 30. Everybody wins!
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 09:12 PM
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These aren't shit tests. These are rejections. Sorry, OP, the truth hurts, but this will help you. A primer: Read CH's Flake Odds Point System. I agree with /u/kick6. It sounds like you're focusing on retail workers. Working in the service industry is a -1, according to CH. Another -1 if she's a waitress. Another -1 if she's younger than 25. Subtract another 1 if she's big-breasted, and another 1 if she's a blonde or a redhead. More -1's abound if she's the child of divorce (50-50), and if she's…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 09:06 PM
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Anyone else experience this? A "mental block" with just one girl for no reason you can think of? Yes. With my last gf. Is it possible that I'm subconsciously picking up on a vibe I'm not attracted to, and it's preventing me from getting in game mode? This was the reason for me. I initially thought our personalities were totally compatible. When we started dating, it seemed as if we were always on the same page. Her text message game mirrored mine, and we made each other laugh. Conversations were…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 08:31 PM
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I really don't understand why you didn't just tell her the day of the date that you forgot your friend was coming in to town and that you wouldn't be able to make it, or that you got called in to work and would be there all weekend, or that your dog was throwing up and you had to take him to the vet, or that your car had a flat tire, or that you weren't feeling well and you might have the flu, etc. Basically, I don't understand why you didn't just give her some flimsy excuse that girls give you …
/r/askTRP11/02/14 03:53 PM
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Tomato, tomatoe. Beta traits, vulnerability game, security building behaviors, being nice, showing your sensitive side, opening up, communicating, being romantic -- these are all the same things. Do I let a woman emote endlessly on the phone with me when I haven't banged her? No. Do I cook a woman dinner by candlelight for a first date when we haven't even held hands yet? No. But when I'm in a relationship, I'll do those things because it builds security. We're on the same page, we just call it …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 11:22 PM
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The article OP linked to was for established marriages. I doubt that will help many people on this sub. This poor excuse of a graph that I drew in five minutes shows the way it should be done: Large doses of alpha in the beginning, coupled with precipitous falls into a 50-50 blend of alpha and beta once in an established marriage. I'm afraid too many subscribers will read this guy's post and think, "Oh, shit. So I should be super nice to that woman at the bar, just a mix of alpha and beta!" NO. …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 10:53 PM
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I would have ghosted her after she told you she was already out on the town and wasted. Giving her any attention after that point provided a reward for her bad behavior, which led to the quagmire you're in now. For future reference, if a girl does something that pisses you off, you don't have to say anything. Seriously. Your silence will be more than enough to express your displeasure, since in the early stages all a girl wants is attention. Look at how it went for you: You: Are you off work? He…
/r/askTRP07/02/14 06:25 PM
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You didn't isolate. If you want the bang, casually invite her over to your place with a few friends to toke since she doesn't seem to care that you do. Leave C at home.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 05:47 PM
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Just out of curiosity, was she Asian? I've found this kind of thing to be more common with Asians than any other race. I've also found it to be common with very attractive white women who are very self-conscious alpha widows because their alpha pulled a huge scam job over them (i.e., got them to move to another state only to find out she was just one girl in his harem).
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 10:31 PM
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It's not about getting the pussy, it's about getting the pussy on your terms. This is what TRP is all about to me. I could spend days on end spinning a plate that has a low- to moderate-interest level in the hopes that, if I run tight enough game for long enough, she'll eventually come around and want me so bad she'll do my bidding. Trouble is, I'm 31 and I work 12 hours a day and sometimes on weekends. Hell, I'm pulling an all-weekender here at the office as I type this. No time to sarge when I…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 09:41 PM
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It might be a refreshing social experience but you'll almost certainly screw it up. You hit the nail on the head. And remember: female hypergamy is not always the be-all, end-all. Women are terrified of rejection and they will bolt for the exits, preemptively rejecting you to keep their fragile egos in check. I interpreted OP's story as meaning that he towed the alpha line. He did what he was supposed to do: be aloof and indifferent the vast majority of the time in early courtship, while providi…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 09:51 PM
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THIS. I've found that the mass of betas providing ardent support for the object of their affections has made running alpha game counter-productive past a certain break point. I won't ditch the alpha, but it's better to cut my losses with a woman who has been enabled by betas for so long that she sees nothing wrong in her unacceptable behavior. I've mentioned this story before, but I'll recap it again: I went on a blind date with a friend of a coworker. This girl was HB8, HB9 if she put some work…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 07:13 PM
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Welp, one of two things is going to happen from this post. You will either learn what you did wrong and fail to make those mistakes again, or you will win her back. Time is the only factor in deciding which of these two options will occur. Got a girl who's pretty close to LTR material. We've been friends for over a year now but we both know we're into each other. This is the source of your problem. Whose choice was it to be friends for a year? Was it hers or was it yours? It doesn't matter that …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:23 PM
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Well I can tell you now that women will brush you off because you have no confidence. Your whole post trashes your looks without mentioning any of the other qualities that make you attractive to the opposite sex. If you're a woman, looks are generally the be-all, end-all because men generally value nothing else. At either end of the curve you have exceptions. To the far left of the curve are those omega males who will be glad to have a female in their life who doesn't charge by the hour. To the …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 04:01 PM
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Well I'm no historian, but I don't really think there is any historical context for what we're seeing in the West. I attribute this dramatic shift to the rise of oral contraception and the proliferation of no fault divorce. Women have no consequences for their actions anymore, and receive a financial windfall if they marry the wrong man. You'd do the same. If you got 50% of your wife's assets if things "didn't work out", then you'd have no qualms about rolling the dice with a walk down the aisle…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 03:37 PM
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I actually like this idea a lot. You can sometimes learn more from bad game than you can from good game. Here's my most recent fail: Met a girl at a club, made out with her for a bit, and got her #. We exchanged a few texts before I asked for the date. She said yes. In the days prior to the date, she was initiating text messages and often double texting. All signs point to yes. But I missed something. I asked her to lunch. Her office is a 20 minute drive from mine. I offered to meet her there so…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 06:10 PM
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/u/SpeakDaTruf speaks the truth
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 08:20 PM
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The glossary will help you. It also helps to picture this scenario, which is very real and has played out in bar rooms and bedrooms since the dawn of time: Alpha: "How many guys have you slept with? Be honest." Girl: "Ten." Alpha: "You're a bad liar. I asked you, 'How many guys have you slept with?' And I told you to be honest." Girl: [sheepishly] "Okay. 14." Alpha: "Whoa. What happened to those four other guys?" Girl: "They don't count! The first was an asshole, the second never called me after…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 09:03 PM
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Then at one point I was teasing her about something and she pulls this "fine, I'll just go to Steve, he'll take care of me then" (then looks at me for reaction, obviously a shit test). It really depends on how she said this, which we can't glean from OP's post. If it was just as teasing/playful as his comment before hers, then it's not a big deal and it's still a shit test. A bad one. A rude one. But a shit test nonetheless. If she was serious, however, or if she's done this more than once, then…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 09:59 PM
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The same as you would hit on any other girl, except you don't pull the number. Approach using indirect game. Neg, parry her shit tests, agree and amplify, and subtly escalate kino. Briefly enter comfort; then eject by asking (to yourself out loud, not to her), "Where'd my girlfriend go?"; then immediately walk away. Your target will hamster up and think you were making a pass at her since you were smooth in your approach and you escalated physically. But, since you didn't ask for her number or a…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 06:14 PM
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Brevity is the soul of wit, but that's fatal to your post. I would have liked to have read about some examples so I could correct your errors, but general advice is going to have to do for now. Since you're in the early stages, this should be easy to fix. Instill dread and start artificially increasing your value relative to hers. The sooner you do this, the better. Most betas make the mistake of acting more needy when their girlfriend starts to withdraw. You're two steps ahead of the game becau…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 11:50 PM
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When a woman thinks about these romantic gestures, she's not thinking about an average dude [2]. She's thinking about Mr. Dreamy [3]. Can we get this hyperlinked to the sidebar, with the links for reference? I don't think there is any better explanation for why romantic gestures go nowhere than this right here.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 04:04 PM
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Every time this sub gets mentioned in a "worst subreddits of reddit" post, it gets more subscribers. I love it. A similar post brought me here and, though I already subscribed to TRP philosophy before I came here, I was so grateful to find out that I wasn't alone and that other people thought the same way I did. I am currently a beta and I think I want to change, but I am scared of changing into one of those cocky assholes that I hate. Chances are that if we met on the street, you wouldn't think…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 04:12 PM
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Here's my advice to you: My ideal woman is arguably someone who understands me and has my interests. A woman that loves all of me and I love all of her. A woman that is not only my lover but my best friend. Someone that will put things in perspective when I go on a rant, someone that will point out my errors and I can point out theirs without worrying if we'll get angry at one another, someone that loves my career and job because she's a PART OF IT (Computer Science). You're on the right track, …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 10:11 PM
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Agree and amplify. Your navigation sucks. Yup! Sucks so bad Christopher Columbus threw me off the Mayflower! Why do you always park so far from the front? How else am I going to show the rest of the crowd my new Crocs? (bonus points if you have hidden a pair of Crocs in your car and put them on for the first time in front of your boo as you're saying this) Why are you always doing [X, or Y, or Z]? Because I want to annoy you. [Alternative:] Because I don't want to get you pregnant. Don't take a …
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 09:07 PM
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Quite the opposite, actually. The cliches are endless but, basically, "Act as if ye have faith and faith shall be given to you. Put another way: Fake it 'til you make it."
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 02:13 AM
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I know exactly how you feel, but it does get better. Trust me. But first, let's just address your specific issues: Holding your frame 100% of time is exhausting. I live constantly knowing that one little slip up and it's game over. I need to be perfect all the time. I don't get to have off days when I'm disposable. I need to correctly answer constant shit tests. This feeling is common among men who have not adapted TRP as a lifestyle and still view it as a strategy or tactic to get a woman to be…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 08:49 PM
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Hahahaha! Probably the only place where not reading the contract is counted as a point in your favor, yet here we are.....
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 01:22 AM
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How right you are but, alas, I don't make the law. I just argue it. I don't practice family law, but if I did and I was representing the husband I'd argue that the agreement was fair and reasonable when executed. Her attorney would argue that it wasn't. That's really all lawyers do--make an argument, then the judge makes a decision.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 01:21 AM
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Lawyer here. /u/kronouranos is correct for the most part--having a woman sign a prenup very late in the engagement usually voids the agreement because it is evidence of coercion and duress. In other words, it's very easy for her to later claim that she was forced to sign the agreement because she wanted to go through with the wedding and felt that she had no other choice. It varies by state, but prenuptial agreements generally must be (1) voluntary, (2) with a full and fair financial disclosure …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 11:09 PM
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Yup, just realized my mistake as I was fixing dinner. Edited to change it to a realistic ideal.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 11:17 PM
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Having never been married but having been in a number of LTRs (2+ years) where the sex starts to drop precipitously after the first year, please take my advice with a grain of salt. You're doing all the right things by incorporating Game into the seduction of your wife. Freezing out after she denies you is good, and /u/favours_of_the_moon's advice about initiating freeze out when she plays coy is very, very credited. I'd suggest introducing some dread into bedroom. In my past LTRs, when sex bega…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 11:33 PM
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this was the last straw for me HA nope. She's in his harem for the long haul.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 03:28 PM
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Nothing makes you want kids of your own more than raising someone else's. One of my ex's had two kids from a previous marriage and the conventional wisdom of TRP is spot-on: Providing for another man's offspring is seriously emasculating and very beta. Alas, as you get older, it's tougher and tougher to find women who don't have kids. At 40, it's pretty tough to date women in their early- to mid-20s unless you're rich and your game is phenomenal. Still haven't found a way to get motivated when I…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/13 11:54 PM
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She doesn't touch a 3 for me. I would have sex with her on the 7th of Never.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 06:29 PM
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I LOVE the fact that she touched on the cultural milieu of the inept husband that is absolutely pervasive on television. Some television shows adopt the inept husband as the entire premise of the program (e.g., Everybody Loves Raymond, Home Improvement, King of Queens, even a show that went so far as to title itself Yes, Dear). Other programs are a little more subtle but nevertheless suggest that man is an untamed animal without a woman around to teach him order and discipline (e.g., New Girl). …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 06:23 PM
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A girl who scores an 8 on a scale of 1-10 for looks.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 05:26 PM
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I'm 31 years old...the clock is ticking. You don't have ovaries so, no, the clock isn't ticking. You can still birth a healthy baby well into your 40s. accept get back with my ex when she inevitably comes crawling back Don't do this. Done is done. All you'd be doing is postponing the inevitable (i.e., you're going to break up again; LTRs don't end on a "fluke" or "one bad fight"). I'm a 31/m, fit, employed, +$25,000 in the bank. I feel like I can prosper. Possibly start a harem. Have some fun. Y…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 03:06 AM
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Shit test run amok. Typically many a failure of shit tests have occurred up to this point to justify such an emasculation, as per OP's example.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 11:56 PM
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Just speculation, but I'm going to guess you're a natural beta. That's okay. Most people in this sub are natural betas, myself included. Your situation is, in my opinion, one of the most difficult things to do in a new relationship. With your FWB, it was likely very easy to play aloof game because you let her go the moment she wanted to get more serious--something that I sense you wouldn't be willing to do with this new woman. /u/ThomasWaldmann said you should spin plates. Arguably that's the be…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/13 10:43 PM
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Basically what you said: Living beyond bars and clubs. For SNLs, I focus exclusively on bars and clubs. If I'm looking to add a LTR to my harem, I'm looking elsewhere (art shows, farmer's markets, hobbies outside of work, etc.), to lay the foundation for something long-term that isn't the product of a booze-fueled smash fest.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/13 01:22 AM
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I'll chime in because I've been in your position quite a bit. The Anecdotes First Group were my best friends in high school. I grew up in a typical suburban town of approximately 100,000 people, but most of my friends were very religious (i.e., no sex before marriage). I was not that way, so obviously that wasn't going to work long-term. When I got to college, most of them were pining for a wife while my ass joined a fraternity and did what typical frat guys do. Second Group were my best friends…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 06:21 PM
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At least she was nice enough to give him the heads up and ask. Most women would just flake out on the daily Skype date without explanation and only say, "I had a terrible migraine," when asked about it later. Her: "There's this guy; I'm flattered; He invited me over to his place; I want to make most of this trip; It's a once-in-a-lifetime experience; Can I go?" Alpha Response: "Phew! Now I can finally spend the night at Brandi's house and not feel guilty about it! Have fun with Pierre." [delete …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 01:22 AM
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I'd upvote this a thousand times if I could. Making women your world is fatal. You must be the master of your own domain, then the women will come to you to make you a part of their world because you have it all together.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 11:43 PM
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Men's SMV defined: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/dating-market-value-test-for-men/ Women's SMV defined: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/dating-market-value-test-for-women/
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 11:18 PM
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Jerry: "If every instinct you have is wrong, then the opposite would have to be right."
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 09:25 PM
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This episode was my first step into Game, back in 2001. I doted on this broad for my entire first semester and when she broke up with her boyfriend for me, I was elated. I went over-the-top with romantic gestures and immediately showed how much I worshiped her since her ex-boyfriend was such an ass. Unsurprisingly, she dumped me in short order -- and in the worst way possible: by sleeping with one of my best friends at a party while I sobbed like a little bitch in the bathroom. Sitting in the ai…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 01:35 AM
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I disagree with the word selfish. Selfishness outside of Red Pill Theory, in my opinion, is more of an antisocial quality exhibited by master manipulators (think: Tamerlan Tsarnaev), who use trick and/or intimidation to get people to submit to their will. The fact that you are asking how to be more selfish indicates that you don't have the natural qualities of a master manipulator. That's fine because your morals ("A man's gotta have a code") will unlikely be affected by becoming more "selfish" …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 08:21 PM
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You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. I spread TRP knowledge in my life outside of reddit often, but in my experience nobody really "gets it" until they discover it on their own. It's much more common to get, "I should have listened to you," than, "You're totally right. Where do you come up with this stuff?" My guess is that, for most men, TRP is the last stage in Game. Natural betas (like myself) really seem to track the five stages of grief when coming unplugged: (1) Deni…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 02:16 AM
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slow clap EDIT: Ack! All this time I thought slow clap meant a term of endearment and not an insult (still somewhat new to reddit). Take this video as a token of my penance.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 02:31 AM
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I think my response (above) hit the mark, but it was really subtle so I'll elaborate. I've had some success telling women outright that I wanted to bang them, but at the beginning of seduction (attraction) that doesn't always work. Unless you're getting a ton of IOIs, simply saying, "I'm going to take you home tonight" smacks of try-hard. It's almost never effective as a pick up line, unless you couch it in wry sarcasm and blow off her inevitable shit test ("Ha! I'd like to see you try") with an…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 02:28 AM
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Same here. I found my confidence increased exponentially after I told people what to do instead of asking for permission. For example, I used to always ask girls (and even my friends), "Do you want to ...?" and now I almost exclusively say, "Let's ..." Women, in particular, respond to commands. What sounds better to you? This... Do you want to go to [this bar] at 6? How about we meet up at my house and go to the party? Do you want to come inside and watch a movie? OR THIS... Let's go to [this ba…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 01:01 AM
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This article should be posted to the sidebar because it explains the need for the manosphere and TRP in a painfully clear way. It's required reading for anyone looking to increase their SMV with women (including anyone in a LTR).
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 06:43 PM
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She keeps referring to my comment, but she missed something major there. I said that I would drop this line... Him: Did you want another drink? Me: Sure! Him: Then go get one. ...at this moment: Instead of dinner before bang, I invite a girl out to casual drinks at a lounge with a sexy atmosphere or (really common here) invite her out with my friends for weekend night plans. This indicates that I have already moved from attraction to comfort. I've pulled her number, we've texted back and forth a…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 05:17 PM
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Here in the south, this is half-right. You almost always have to spend some kind of money before you bang a girl because they are raised to expect gentlemanly chivalry when asked out on a date. Instead of dinner before bang, I invite a girl out to casual drinks at a lounge with a sexy atmosphere or (really common here) invite her out with my friends for weekend night plans. I'll spring for a round or two and then neg her by saying that she's using me for drinks and I need to find another date wh…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 08:02 PM
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This is 100% correct. Small acts of romance spread out over a long period of time are more effective than (1) constant acts of romance over a short period of time, or (2) many large acts of romance over the entire course of a relationship. General Rule: Any act of romance is beta, use accordingly. Two anecdotes based upon personal knowledge: Guy A was a typical beta-provider who did worshiped his girl and did constant acts of romance throughout the course of the relationship. He delivered flower…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/13 07:48 PM
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The typical woman uses emotional manipulation and psychology to her advantage to obtain a relationship with a man. Any issue of Cosmo can attest to this, as do books like The Rules and Why Men Marry Bitches. The only difference is that it isn't a "crime" to use the powers of manipulation to get a man to give up his sexual freedom in favor of monogamy. All is fair in love and war, I say. I want sex, they want exclusivity. Just as they're going to manipulate me to get what they want, I don't see a…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 07:45 PM
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I think your more likely to see a drift towards MGOTW or the Japanese Sōshoku-kei as a large subset of men don't have access to women. This. Particularly with all the developments in VR giving men the opportunity to have sex with a solid 10 and providing the physical stimulation that makes cold approaching/rejection not worth the effort.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 12:09 AM
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Introduce dread. Assuming your game is tight, bring her out with a group of your friends to a bar, club, etc. and get a random girl to start flirting with you by opening her and building attraction. It's not crucial, but it would be better if your gf didn't see you initiating the conversation. Ideally, you want your gf to see you in the middle of attraction when the other girl is giving subtle cues that she's interested in you. Better yet, start openly flirting with girls where you work, get you…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/13 06:20 PM
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Being new to reddit, I quickly found /r/seduction and thought it would be a better resource than the beta-infused PUA forums I used to read. I was wrong. It's just the same! It's a forum littered with newbies who are interested in Game solely to get that One Girl they've had a crush on for years. They never get totally immersed in the theory behind it all: that Game is a lifestyle, not a phase. Most of the stuff I read on there is junk anyways. There's some gold there, but you have to mine for i…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 04:36 PM
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Sidebar: I'm still getting back in the game myself. I blue-pilled my last relationship with an HB10 an it blew up right in my face. This subreddit is a godsend, and I've already noticed a marked difference in my game after having been subscribed here for only a week. Now to your question: She should be rewarded for rescheduling, but you don't want to appear too eager/too available. I'd text back and say, "I wish I could but I have plans tonight. Let's meet up later this week." She'll reply with …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/13 10:39 PM
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Hahahahaha these posters literally made my day. And the flair badges? You just can't make this stuff up.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/13 10:30 PM
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I may be late to the dance, but here's my .02: Prior to inviting her i asked "what are you doing sat?" and "cancel it." I said "I am going to the Long Beach Grand Prix on Sat, interested?" (thurs eve) Assume the sale, OP. I would have initiated this text by saying, "Let's go to the Long Beach Grand Prix on sat." If she's free, she's free. If she's not, she'll tell you. Clear invitation right? No response. Today (Friday & early Sat) we are texting and teasing, she didn't respond to my invite but …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/13 09:30 PM
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I had no idea they actually have classes that coach men into being this way. I always thought betas picked up their bad habits by asking girls for girl advice. Also: Mike Domitrz (one of the leading experts on healthy dating, consent, and sexual assault awareness) $20 says his wife is banging the hell out of her personal trainer while he's jetting off to educate 6000 freshmen on "healthy dating."
/r/TheRedPill20/04/13 08:02 PM
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Try as they might, this thread actually introduced me to this subreddit (I'm a new redditor). I had been Red Pill for most of my adult life, turned Blue Pill for a couple of months and sunk my relationship because of it, just rebooted Red Pill v.2.0. Thanks for making a group like this. I'm glad I'm not the only one who believes this stuff.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/13 01:55 AM
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