I don't like negging.

kick6 · 2014-06-26T14:46:17+00:00

If you're hurting women psychologically with your negs one of two things is happening

you're not negging them, you're insulting them
their egos are so bloated that they actually needed their balloon to land

monsieurhire2 · 2014-06-26T16:33:47+00:00

Substitute the word "teasing" for "negging."

Negging was basically a term some nerds came up with to try and understand why teasing works as a seduction mechanism.

I like to tease. I don't like to insult or neg. Occasionally a tease can turn into an insult or a neg if you go to far.

niczar · 2014-06-26T15:33:07+00:00

You probably don't understand what it means. Mystery invented the term to describe how he approached the hottest women, those that are used to being constantly worshipped by everyone, male and female. Insulting a vulnerable person is contemptible. Challenging someone's egotism is not.

Wolfwoodd · 2014-06-26T16:48:13+00:00

Negging is misused and misunderstood. Mystery developed negging to hit on extremely high status women in bars and clubs. It's high level game and not something you use with every girl you meet. The pick-up community has largely abandoned negging (and indirect game, in general). Newbies inevitably think it's a license to be an asshole and it tends to fuck-up their game.

In short, just avoid negging altogether.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-06-27T17:18:54+00:00

Negging is the only tool left in the arsenal with an entitled, arrogant, haughty woman who is acting like she is better than you. Not long ago a shrewish woman was handled by bitch slapping her or dragging her by the hair to a private place and fucking some sense into her.

OTOH, negging a woman who is not acting entitled or who is actually insecure is cruel and inappropriate.

So negs are NOT used for hurting a woman psychologically but to restore some of the normal balance to a normal relationship.

bankruptedcasino · 2014-06-26T14:45:21+00:00

Run compliance game instead. It's a good alternative to negging, and it elicits the same response as a neg (if done correctly): recognition of your higher status.

If she complies, you're in the clear. If she doesn't, then she's challenging your higher status and you'll want to counterattack. So, if she doesn't comply, act disaffected and spit a simple, one-word, dismissive line (such as "Later") without the slightest hint of bitterness. That would have the same impact as a neg, without putting her down or compromising your morality to get the vag.

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Senorbubbz · 2014-06-26T14:22:29+00:00

It's only psychologically harmful if you say it with a super straight face. Negging is basically advanced teasing. If you view it that way, is it really your fault if the woman you teased is unstable to the point of being mentally debilitated by your joke?

kanaduhisfruityeh · 2014-06-26T16:51:06+00:00

In our society it is considered socially acceptable to attack women's self-esteem, manipulate them, fuck them, used them up, and throw them away in the gutter. But if you give a whore money for sex, then you are worse than Hitler.

rporion · 2014-06-26T18:32:23+00:00

There are two ways negging is used.

One is with stuck up biznatches in bars where you break down their overly inflated egos.

Basically what a socially savvy gay guy would do if he has had enough of the bitching for the night. Not because he wants her, but because who the fuck does she think she is.

The second one is more like a playful underhanded compliment, or an insult that is more or less nonsense and she knows it. You can take that pretty far and if the delivery is right, they dont mind at all.

You can call girls faggots, speculate that they are strippers, call them whores (great vid of Julien RSD out there where does just that)...

Example: Her" why do I always, x,y and z" ....semi serious, pouting.... Me" you know why that is?" Her "No!?!" Me "Because you are a faggot....." bone dry delivery.

As far as I remember her drink came out of her nose, she had to hold on to me or else she would have collapsed and I got my obligatory hit on the shoulder.

You dont hurt them, you are giving them unexpected emotions, at best, conflicting emotions.

Of course, every now and then you will go just a bit to far....

Cant win them all.

Title	I don't like negging.
Author	shakethesh
Upvotes	0
Comments	13
Date	June 26, 2014 2:10 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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